Dear Community, I have an unofficial leadership update on the community. For those who are particularly active in the community, please take the time to read, as it will certainly affect your rewards for participating, and hlep you decide whether to stay within the community.

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Get well mate.

My dearest of all friends, you have been here for me in all times that am down and lost hope. I understand a bit of were it stand with you right now, according to what @crazyphantombr said

there is no need to explain further.

Few days ago when I saw your threads, it made me more curious to know what has happened, but I noticed that something beyond your control at the moment has happened.

I am a failure to the freecompliments community, don't put all blames on yourself. A pillar can't hold a building for long, you have tried as an individual in running almost all the activities in the community behind the scene.

I was never in support of those monthly rewards coming to me because I know I don't deserve them, that's why I have always desire doing things with a free mind expecting nothing in return from who ever an doing it for, because I know that in one way or the other it for humanity.

In my family, several this happened this year even of resent that made me to say and think that I have don't notice more but just a number in my family and i have decided to start doing the needful in my little way...

Who has come to the freecompliments community with the aim of rewards only can kindly step away because the community has already defined in self. "Free" and "compliments" I have always said that "compliments is free, why should you keep it to yourself"?

I time to run the community affair with a free mind, expecting nothing in return. I can't be here and happy to see the Freecompliments community close her eyes in death. @freecompliments, please count on me and am open to learn some things that's we can use in sustaining the community until you are back fully...

You can just be checked on our activities once in a while, but feel free to do the needful in your family.

In all, I pray God that every storm in our lives should stop so that we can have a full concentration and focus for life.... From now on, be free to count on me and other persons that me join me on this adventure...

Stress kills.

Sounds like you been stressed.

Rewards can wait. Things can get sorted.

Take time to deal with you. And you better not run and lose the friends and people that believe in you.

Directly you helped a huge amount of people.

I'm going through some major things.

I'm back homeless on Saturday.
Truck was down and I fixed it.
Gotta load up and get back to Portland and recover from this waste of 2 months and being talked into being screwed over...

However I can absolutely be here for you!

I know what it's like to have massive stresses.

You gotta restart. Take a break on some things. Delegate to those that will step up and help. Alot of us will.

Asking for help sucks. I had to yesterday. And got it. Oh wow. I'm humbled that people think so much for us to help each other.

If you need someone to talk with... Why didn't you call me?

Hold your head high. You have done some amazing things right off. As will keep doing them.

At least you weren't dumb like me and buy a pack of cigarettes... Although I've been stupid that way twice this year...

I'm truly deeply saddened to hear this. I know I've mentioned this before, but I think that you've led this community in an exemplary manner, and I've been grateful to be a part of it.

These are some of the most challenging times in history, my friend, and pretty much everyone that I know is going through very challenging experiences now. It's so easy to fall out of balance. The fact that you recognize it is an indicator that you're in a much better Mental-emotional state than you may believe.

While this news is deeply disheartening, your desire and intention to do the right thing, and work deeply on yourself, is a very good thing. Being a solid, trustworthy, dependable, and honorable man does indeed take work, commitment, and determination, and your actions show that you are a lot closer to this than you may think.

I want to thank you for everything that you've done for this community, and for Hive. You will be deeply missed. I wish you immense success in your healing, and becoming the man, and human, that you truly desire. I salute you, sir. 😁 🙏 💚 ✨ 🤙

Sorry to here this state. I am sure you can recoup and emerge stronger, your mental health and rebuilding it should be the top priority, everything else can wait. You just sit down with your family...open up completely.....go to any hill station, do meditation, deep breathing has a direct bearing on the state of mind, do that, and heal yourself, once you are healed from within, that energy will radiate outward and your surrounding will suddenly turn positive and your family will also be benefited from your aura. So it might sound weird, but I would suggest you visit a hill station, and such a place where you can seek solace, throw your smartphone or any such communication device(except for emergency purposes) into the dustbin, go for a meditation session, sound meditation, breathing meditation, it will help you tide over this current state.

Stay blessed, my all the best wishes are with you.
🙏🙏🙏

You have to take care of yourself and your family first. No shame in that. There is a real problem in the medical community looking down on those with any mental issue, the last thing you need to do is let any of them find out. Ironically medicine and the military are the ones who frown upon it most, and they're the two who should embrace it.

Rebuild yourself and make your life a happy and productive one. There is always time for change and that first step you've already taken, recognition. We all have our ups and downs in life, believe me I know. I hope you can turn things around to the point that you and your family can be proud of the life you choose to live. Good luck with the remainder of residency and in your medical career. It can be very rewarding, but stay away from those mRNA vaccines, they can end your career!

Much love to you brother.

i was thinking a couple of days ago how much effort you put into free compliments community & that it probably could not be sustainable without help.

I see some good advice from others in the comments re. meditation.

i highly recommend an emotional integration procedure (The Presence Process) which includes very clear and precise instructions for a daily meditation practice during the 10 week procedure. It does not take much time to do this. i have shared this with many people and often receive messages of gratitude for doing so.

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May peace be with you.
Atma

You got to take of yourself first.

You made a tremendous impact on many, many people here at Hive, not to mention the many people at reddit.

I canafely say that here you have been anything but a terrible human being.

I hope you get yourself in the direction you need to go, and I selfishly wish that you are able to keep being active here.

Either way look after yourself.

Everyone have their own limit, regardless who they are. Just take a break, give yourself some time to rest. I could only send my prayers for everything could get better soon

It's a tough story to read.

I feel your anguish as if it were my own.

We've been sharing a common path for what seems like a long time, and I never imagined that your stopping point would be before mine. I understand your reasons and there's no need to explain further.

You've built a beautiful project here. I remember reading your interview, I believe on the HSBI website, where I learned about your previous attempt to found a community on another network.

Being here is proof of your resilience, and we know (with certainty) of your ability to reemerge as a person and a professional. It's just a matter of giving it the time it takes.

I hope you can face the possibility of a break.

Without a promise or a commitment, just the possibility of your return.

I intend to stay here until then!

I don't know what happened in your life but I genuinely hope you find peace of mind soon. Reading from the outside it seems that you feel really bad and that you messed up bad enough to consider ending your life at first, I've learned personally that sometimes this burden only exists in your head, not in those around you. Hopefully, in a few weeks, you'll see things more clear and lighter and life starts to smile at you again.

I refuse to believe that someone trying to spread so much joy and good vibes around Hive is a bad person. You simply tried to do too much good here. I'm not speaking about the HSBI rewards btw, that's a huge bonus for many, I'm solely speaking about trying to spread compliments, good vibes, help people struggling with their mental health.

Sometimes we know exactly what we need to do and can give fabulous advise to others, while in our own head, things are a bit more complicated and need some more time to execute the right steps.

Sending tons of good vibes your way and hopefully, you find answers to whatever it is that you need to sort in real life.

!LUV

You matter!

Stress destroys and there is nothing wrong with taking a step back. Many will see it as weakness, cowardice or incompetence but many aren’t You. You know your limit. You know what works best. You know your breaking point. As long as you are caring for yourself, everything else can wait.

I know how much family can affect us. It’s a huge pillar and a stem in our foundation no matter where we go. When there is tension at home, best believe that tension will sneak into our lives. So I totally understand you. And I wish you the very best. Please look after yourself and come back stronger, wiser and better.

🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍

Hey bro, just to say we are always around if you need anything or just want to chat and sending out the maximum respect for what you have been doing on Hive

Pause. You did great.

I had been hiding away on Discord until I found your community and your tag and I became a celebrity overnight. That is something I will never forget.

You gave me purpose. Made threading not feel like a hurdle but fun and exciting. I looked forward to the next time because I became an addict.

It was a good addiction.

Whatever happens, wherever you are and whatever you choose to do, always remember you are loved. If not by anyone but me. True leadership is what you gave us and posterity will never forget it.

Please, take care of yourself and your family. Most importantly, do what makes you happy.

Respected colleague @freecompliments

Do not limit yourself to expressing what you feel. Free yourself, let go, and let go of what does not generate well-being. It is a good start to flow from selfhood to transmit to otherness. At this moment, you need to move away from the convulsive and flow in placidity. Self-love with your loved ones is the best incentive.
You are an example of good leadership, from understanding and comprehension, always with your manifest disposition to solidarity, with empathy, and attitude, prioritizing the collective benefit, exalting with your actions the essence of our Hippocratic oath. Always resourceful, promoting group decisions, valuing your fellow men, cultivating and spreading kindness.
You need to focus on your balance and moderation, with harmony and synchronicity, staying in the present, thinking of yourself, and prioritizing your loved ones. You decide to maintain confidentiality, which is not in discussion, sometimes our profession, well to be honest “some colleagues not all”, forget that above all we are human beings who feel, suffer, get tired, also get sick and a long, etc of conditions of our human nature.
My recommendation is that you do not make decisions a priori, and take the necessary rest for the time you consider, if you consider it feasible to delegate do it, you are appreciated and valued, and we need you with us. Find and recover your rhythm, but above all stay away from everything that does not vibrate in you.
I am here to serve you and guide you if you wish, from the confidentiality that gives us the ethics of medical secrecy, my DM in Discord, is at your service. I advocate for your health and well-being from solidarity and gratitude.

Respetado colega @freecompliments

No te limites en expresar lo que sientes. Libérate, suéltate y despréndete de lo que no genera bienestar. Es un buen comienzo fluir desde la mismidad para transmitir a la otredad. En este momento, necesitas alejarte de lo convulso y fluir en la placidez. El amor propio con tus seres queridos es el mejor incentivo.
Eres ejemplo de buen liderazgo, desde el entendimiento y la comprensión, siempre con tu manifiesta disposición a la solidaridad, con empatía y actitud, priorizando el beneficio colectivo, exaltando con tus acciones la esencia de nuestro juramento hipocrático. Siempre ingenioso, promoviendo decisiones grupales, valorando a tus semejantes, cultivando y difundiendo la bondad.
Necesitas centrarte en tu equilibrio y moderación, con armonía y sincronía, permaneciendo en el presente, pensando en ti mismo y priorizando a tus seres queridos. Decides mantener la confidencialidad, lo cual no está en discusión, a veces nuestra profesión, bueno para ser sinceros «algunos colegas no todos», olvidan que ante todo somos seres humanos que sentimos, sufrimos, nos cansamos, también nos enfermamos y un largo, etc de condiciones de nuestra naturaleza humana.
Mi recomendación es que no tomes decisiones a priori, y te tomes el descanso necesario por el tiempo que consideres, si consideras factible delegar hazlo, se te aprecia y valora y te necesitamos con nosotros. Encuentra y recupera tu ritmo, pero sobre todo aléjate de todo aquello que no vibre en ti.
Estoy aquí para servirte y guiarte si lo deseas, desde la confidencialidad que nos da la ética del secreto médico, mi DM en Discord, está a tu servicio. Abogo por tu salud y bienestar desde la solidaridad y la gratitud.

You and your family come first
No one else matters until you are all safe and well
I hope you recover and go on to even greater things

I wish you well and hope everything you decide to work on gets better ❤️. Peace and love will forever rule your heart. Take care of yourself and create memories with your family.

It must have been a hard decision for you, but it had to be taken. Not only for your family wellbeing, but also for your own health and sanity.
Thank you for everything you did for the community. Take care and hoping one day you will return back to Hive more determined and stronger.

You have built something amazing here and I can only hope you realize that someday and come back.
But first take some time to heal, get back on your feet.
We will be here when you are ready.

Take care of yourself. Know that you are loved.

"Even the darkest night will end and the sun will rise." - Victor Hugo

I completely understand that you're making the choice for your family and your own health, I'll take the time to re-read your post and all the comments, I'm not on Hive much at the moment.
!PIMP
!BBH
!WINE

What a great news!!!.

^{Let me apologize for not being aware of that Thread you mention.}

However, we can clearly note your good leadership simply by admitting it and being totally honest free and expressive as the community deserves and what it was cast for in the first place.

Thanks for all your contributions brother, and this now only remains on behalf of us that although we use time irregularly we are always attentive and have learned too much here in the community.

This is the real art, something I feel I had missed for quite a while from you....

... But I know, a man's got to do what a man's got to do.

You are done with your life, that of a selfish and petulant child because the acceptance of it is the way to change, but don't be a shit eater who destroys with his feet what he built with his hands.
Here the sacrifice has been time invested, no more drama, go and recover, we will be here waiting for you and knowing that you are transforming your life and we are part of that change.

I fking love ur energy to talk it out, be good with ur self and accept it don't make me talk more u know how much i respect but if i could, slam u on the face. This is a break not a quit, idiot.

!LUV

I am really sorry you are going through this. I had this moment on LEO and so I sold the LEO and turned into the HIVE power and only posting to ecency based ecosystem. I also got a lot of trolls around but less posting has helped a lot. Your community is umbrella to me every week to post on. This type of shelter alone is a lot. Don't give up, I was in worst situation being the only breadwinner of family with autistic brother on the side. Automate the hive power curation and join someone else's trail. Take few months or weeks break and reduce the workload. Take care, please stay around!

I certainly wish you the best and hope you not only realize the change you're pursuing, but also find healing. Just remember that in addition to others forgiving us, we also must forgive ourselves.

You've built something very positive here on Hive that is having an impact on people. I'd encourage you to take a hiatus and let others step in to manage things while you take the time you need to focus on yourself and your family. Hive can wait, but this community can also continue to uplift and encourage others in the meantime, when more than ever people are feeling alone, ignored and not valued.

Whatever path you choose, may you find healing, forgiveness, and peace, my friend.

!hiqvote !LOL !BBH !INDEED !DOOK !DUO

Don't be so hard to yourself. Praying for your mental health! Keep safe and do not ever do that suicide thingy.

Family comes first and real life activities has more priorities and respect your decision. However I am sad because the community was one big reason for me to be active on threads.
You have done an excellent job and I appreciate the efforts you put.
I wish you good health and hope you will be back soon.