Sam’s Hangout #120 - “HYPER-INDEPENDENCE”

"Trust thyself: every heart vibrates to that iron string." - Ralph Waldo Emerson.


Hello, my lovely Hive Naija people. It’s another beautiful weekend, and we’re excited to have you here once again. A new weekend simply means another chance to buzz the Hive blockchain, connect with one another, and simply have fun. You'll also agree with me that there’s something special about bringing everyone together to gist, share opinions, and enjoy good vibes. That is exactly the reason we will continue to meet every weekend.

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Our previous topic was ”PERCEPTIONS OF SUCCESS ACROSS GENDERS"

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The responses were super amazing and we had over 50+ comments filled with honest opinions, jokes, harmless banter, and fresh perspectives to learn from. The energy was truly contagious. Now, let’s see if we can beat our all-time high again this weekend, shall we? Please try to encourage responses by replying to one another. Remember, engagement is what makes this hangout special.

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HYPER-INDEPENDENCE

Now to our discussion for this weekend! We will be discussing "HYPER-INDEPENDENCE”.
Being self-reliant is often seen as a sign of strength, maturity, and resilience towards an unpredictable life. However, when it gets to the extremes of hyper-independence where one becomes totally unwilling to ask for help or trust their loved ones to show up for them in times of need, it may begin to raise questions about a deeper problem. It could be rooted in past relationship patterns, childhood history or personal growth, all of which raises further concerns about when it should be termed unhealthy.

Here's the question!

Do you think being hyper-independent should always be seen as a strength, or you believe it's a trauma response and can sometimes become a barrier to receiving support and building healthy relationships with others? If you've experienced hyper-independence yourself, what do you think contributed to it, and how has it shaped or affected your life?

OR

Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you struggled to ask for help, or depend on others, even when you genuinely needed support and knew you could have had it if only you asked? Do you in any way believe hyper-independence is your personality trait and not a response to past traumatic experiences or disappointment?

If you have a topic you would like us to discuss in our future hangouts, please feel free to suggest it to us in the comment section and tag @sam.hangout to it.


Okay Let's Gist!!!

Be as simple and sincere with the discussion, hehehe.

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Don't you think we are forgetting somebody?... Well, I'm sure we are...

FRIDAY PLANS, OWANBE SATURDAY, AND SUNDAY REFLECTIONS

To make our hangout more interactive, we have decided to add two events to spice it up.

On Saturdays, we share our owanbe stories, party gists, and even pictures.

On Sundays, we reflect on the weekend and things we learnt so far, as well as share plans for the new week.

Don't forget to join us!!

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With all that said, let the discussion begin...

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Hehehehe First to be here and cat walking sef 😅
Oya ooo you people should wake up from your sleep
@marsdave
@goldenproject
@chefqueen
@van.illa
@nkemakonam89
@soma1
@zali.bee

Network is not bringing una names o so manage it if I no tag your name wella 😀

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Should I answer now or come back later? Feeling sleepy 🤔

Anyways you people should not dirty the floor o as you step in cos some of una slippers don carry mud like that 😜

Use the buffet as you pleases but don't finish the food sha

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So the thing is that, some people do not actually count been hyper-independent as a problem. It's just their personal trait and policy.
They want to do things on their own and not basically because of their past traumatic experience with people either they've had one or not simply because they own to such title of being hyper-independent

I am independent person and I know how it feels actually sorting things by yourself, the whole stress, sole responsibility and honour that comes with it to actually solve your problems yourself but I can't claim to be the HYPER part because I seek for help at the point I feel like it is overwhelming or that I need support of which I don't think is bad of any other person to do if they are willing to.

I can say I had the trait right from time but I was able to build more on it to become firm because of how I've seen people mock others behind them simply because they seek for their help and support. So it took me time to know the right people to seek support from whenever I need one.

The times I feel like it's hard to ask for help is when I know that the circle of people I seek help from is actually not stable and facing their own issues as well, then it becomes an issue for me confiding in a new person whom I'm not sure is genuinely ready to listen.

Some will be thinking in their minds like that that I have trust issue 😀

@marsdave come and hold the mic o
@goldenproject and queen E @chefqueen should follow and @van.illa should round up

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