Sam’s Hangout #109 - “COHABITATION OR COMMITMENT?”

Good morning everyone and Happy Sunday.
My opinion — I personally don't have any issues with cohabiting as long as it is done right and the reasons you're cohabiting are well defined. I believe it can be a learning phase where each partner gets to know the other better before actually committing.
On the other hand I don't believe it's a foolproof approach to a long lasting marriage, as marriage is a different ball game and wether you decide to cohabit or not has little to no effect on wether the marriage would last, I've seen people cohabit and go on to live perfect lives and also that doesn't mean one should do it or not do it as marriage itself is like a consensus with each partner having a 50% vote so I'll say it is more like a situation where you guys have to choose each other everyday, and if at any point any of them decide not to, the marriage can immediately come to an abrupt end. And it has been proven that marriages have a 60% chance of failing.
Conclusion — marriages fail, cohabiting can fail as well, I'd rather fail at cohabiting than have a failed marriage. Thank you.

Thank you @van.illa for the tag.

My answer is a straight NO. For me, the disadvantages far outweigh the advantages. And I’m saying this from experience, not just theory.

There’s this guy that my sister was supposed to get married to; but he wanted them to cohabit and she said no. That “no” changed everything — attitude started, connection died, relationship ended. Although it wasn’t easy for her to move on but at the same time she was grateful, she didn’t loose anything and didn’t regret it either. Imagine after cohabiting and it didn’t work out Omo her healing process for long 😂

So my take is; if someone truly likes you, they like you. If someone wants to marry you, they’ll marry you. Cohabiting won’t fast-track it. And fearing “but what if I don’t know their real character?” won’t be solved by packing your bags into his house either. Let’s be real; people can pretend. For weeks, months, and even years as the case maybe. But pretence has an expiry date. You will see the real them with time. That’s why you need God. That’s why you need the Holy Spirit to discern. And if you don’t have that discerning spirit yet? You still have options. Visit your partner, spend a weekend, Do life together in small doses. Go out, have deep conversations, meet their friends, see how they act when they’re tired, hungry, or anything at all. Character shows up in moments, not just under one roof. Besides, some married couples live together and don’t talk. So cohabiting isn’t the magic key. You don’t have to move in to know someone.

Cohabiting kills motivation too. Motivation in the sense that, the guy especially won’t have that motivation to get married to you. You’ve given him the full package, so what’s the essence of rushing things? 😂 You’ll even loose yourself in the process. You would want to be a “pick-me” by default because you want to please him. As the guy, your finances will go down as well. Whether you’re a believer or not, you guys will have sex and even get tired to the point of sex not being sacred. And if you don’t get married, oh boy! You go too cry. You’ll even be sacred to enter a new relationship because of the hurt from the previous.

Although cohabiting has helped some people in their defense o; but my people, the disadvantages outweigh the advantages.

In conclusion;
For me, it’s a NO. I don’t encourage cohabiting. Scared of not knowing him? Spend intentional time together, not your entire life in his apartment. If it’s yours, it’ll be yours. No need to rehearse marriage to earn marriage.

Thank you 🤭❤️

Ps: for next hangout please tag me 🙂‍↕️

I'll never approve of co-habitting before marriage, it's not healthy at all, neither is it a guarantee that the marriage will be the "they lived happily forever after" type. Some even claim it's a way of studying their partners so they can better understand them. Continue studying. You wan understand who you no create?

See eh, co-habitting follow dey cause "see finish" plus cheating in marriage - that's for those wey later marry proproly o (in Zebrudaya's voice). 😂 As dem don explore every every, while co-habitting, wetin dem wan explore again for marriage?

When a woman packs her bags and baggages and moves in with a man who hasn't done anything, not even "small thing" on her head, otilo for her. Of course, she don turn automatic wife be that, and she go do wetin wives dey do na, her value lost, served on a platter... See eh, there's no man who wouldn't take pride in a woman he spent money to marry, no matter how small. Forget whatever thing they say.

Unfortunately, some of these women go through hell in the hands of their so-called partners. Some even lose their lives in the end, which is rather pathetic.

Wetin my eyes don see and my ear hear cos of co-habitting, my mouth no fit talk all. Abeg, make I end here before I go write blog post. 😂

Una happy weekend

Let me not talk too much
Cohabitation is not good I don't believe in this build strong relationship stuff by improving bonding just like @goldenproject mentioned.

Maybe because I have tried it and in the process I lost my value and was disrespected. It did open my eyes to a lot and I never want to try it again.

Religion doesn't really have anything to do with you know people will still do what they want. You see this love matter is different from individual to individual what works for this person might not work for the other .
But I won't involve myself in cohabitation again.
@matthewdaddywah
@merit.ahama
@quduus1
@marsdave

Do you think cohabiting before marriage helps romantic partners build deeper love, test for compatibility, and create a stronger foundation for their future together? If yes, do you support it, and do you believe it's a foolproof approach to a long-lasting marriage?

Honestly, i don’t like the fact that there has to be something like cohabitation between partners before marriage could work. That’s a big shit sorry to say. The disadvantages of cohabitation before marriage outweighs its advantages. Whatever you need to make a marriage work can be achieved without cohabitation, which means you don’t need to cohabitate to get the full picture. I don’t support cohabitation between partners before marriage, what will happen will happen, regardless of your cohabitation, so save yourself the hassle and don’t cohabitate anybody…

Hello everyone 👋

1. Cohabiting before marriage, does it help in building a stronger bond/future?

Now, let me be honest with y'all. This is something I've done before. Meaning I won't be talking from something I read somewhere but from my own lived experience. And in all honesty, I will never do it again. Some might have done it and it worked for them, but me o, it's a no no.

Now, while living together, you get to be close and know things about each other. You see each other every day, you get to understand each other's moods, you know how he/she snores, and it can as well expose things to you, things like anger issues and how they manage it, things like spending habits, things like cleanliness and dirtiness... You get to see it via cohabiting together, cos things like that are like smoke, they can't be hidden for so long. So, that way it tends to test compatibility.

But then, coahabiting together can as well create a false sense of security, in the sense that you don't just feel, but you as well start acting like a married couple without doing the necessities. You will agree with me that cohabiting can't go on for long without sharing one's body with the other(sex). So, you give your time, your body, your energy, you finance... Your everything to it.

And for me, it didn't help me build at all, I thought it would help build a good and strong foundation, but it didn't. That was why I said earlier that it might work for others, but it's a no no for me. Because it only made things worse and a lot more complicated at the end of the day. I would have loved to share the story, but o long. I wouldn't have called it cohabiting, but at the end of the day, it is still cohabiting. This lady had some issues and we were dating back then, so she was forced to leave her place, most of her friends staying near as well aren't staying alone, so I decided to take her, and that was how we began to stay together then till she will secure her own place.... And it opened my eyes to a lot of things, some which I could still even bear, and some like (infidelity/cheating) that I couldn't even bare. Got to an extent that she started calling this guy's name when she wants to call me 😂😁😂... Lemme not say too much.

And as a Christian, I know it's out of it. It is not acceptable in any way, but to keep it neutral, based on what I have seen, I can say coahabiting is not a foolproof way to guarantee a lasting marriage.

1. Does cohabitation make partners lose independence and take on responsibilities without commitment?

Well, seems this is directed at the women, but then we will all agree that it all starts from... "Ok, let's stay together." And from staying together you start doing various duties and household chores, you sweep, mop, wash, cook, support and all....in short you start acting like the wife/spouse that you're not....

And like I said earlier, seems this is directed at the women as they are the ones who get to do all of that, they began to adjust their lives, reschedule their schedules, sacrifice and most times put their lives, business, academic and such on hold in the name of... "I'm building with him" while there's no legal backing to your stress and all that you claim to be building.

And I can say that the disadvantage outweighs the advantage in every way... Even where rules are set and boundaries are defined, the disadvantage still outweighs the advantage, because it's not as if you won't be pouring into the "union" at all. It will definitely affect some of your decisions.

It's a risky path to tread, and like I said earlier, this is coming from my own personal experience... One that I've learned from.

@afrikens
@betheloji12
@amara24
@zali.bee
@chefqueen
@goldenproject
@mikechrist
@van.illa

Take mic o 🎤

🏃🏃🏃

Hi guys ..I came late to this party and so far,most of us hv contributed well on this topic..

Quick one,cohabiting is not healthy at all, I wonder why pple embrace this...for me, I won't nurse the idea at all or allow anyone I know to try it no matter circumstances . The disadvantages too much abeg

Let's be guided my lovelies 💞

I think cohabitation can help some couples, but it’s not foolproof for a lasting marriage. And yes, it can also create risk, especially when expectations aren’t aligned. Whether the benefits outweigh the disadvantages depends less on “cohabiting vs not” and more on why you’re doing it and howyou handle it.

Where cohabiting helps:

Reality check on compatibility. You learn how they handle dirty dishes, money stress, sickness, in-laws, and bad moods at 7am. Dating is performance. Living together is behind the scenes. Lots of couples find deal breakers they wouldn’t see otherwise — finances, cleanliness, sleep habits, boundaries with family. Better to know before marriage.
Shared systems. You practice conflict, budgeting, chores, and decision-making as a team. If you can run a household together without resentment, that’s a real foundation.

I do support it for couples who are intentional about it. If both people treat it as “marriage prep” with clear timelines and conversations — not just “let’s save rent” — it can build depth.

Where it’s not foolproof:

1. The “sliding, not deciding” problem. Many couples drift into cohabiting for convenience, then drift into marriage because breaking up is harder once leases and microwaves are shared. They never actually chose each other again — they just didn’t leave. That predicts less marital satisfaction later. Research calls this the “cohabitation effect.”
2. No legal backing = real risk. This hits women more often, statistically. You might take on cooking, cleaning, emotional labor, even financial support, without the legal protections of marriage. If it ends, you could walk away with nothing, even after years of acting like a spouse. No alimony, no property rights, no next-of-kin status in emergencies.
3. Sometimes one person thinks “we’re practicing for marriage” and the other thinks “this is convenient for now.” If you haven’t defined it, someone usually loses.

So do disadvantages outweigh benefits?
Not automatically. The disadvantage is ambiguity, not cohabitation itself.

Practical take: If you’re going to cohabit, treat it like a contract, even if it’s not legal:
Do this if you cohabit why it matters.
Talk timelines- “Are we testing for marriage? For how long?” 1-2 years max, or it becomes indefinite.
Don’t play spouse without commitment If you’re doing 100% of wife/husband duties, ask why. You can share labor without losing yourself. Check legal realities -In Nigeria, cohabitation doesn’t grant spousal rights. Know what happens if someone dies, gets sick, or leaves.
Decide, don’t slide- Move in because you chose to, not because a lease ended. And decide on marriage vs breakup consciously, not by default.

My stance: I support cohabiting when it’s intentional, time-bound, and both people keep their independence. I don’t think it’s foolproof. Plenty of people cohabit and still divorce. Plenty skip it and have great marriages. The stronger predictor of lasting marriage is mutual, explicit commitment and how you handle conflict, not your address before the wedding.

For women especially: cohabitation shouldn’t mean surrendering autonomy. If you find yourself doing all the marital labor with none of the security, that’s not a “test” — that’s a bad deal. The benefits disappear if you you are the only one investing.

@daverick, @goldenproject and @sarababy take mic 🎤 ooo.

cohabitation is against God in the first place

Far Farrrrr the disadvantages outweigh the advantages o. What advantages sef dey there
This whole cohabitation is just a simple explanation or comparison. You were supposed to be presented a gift for your birthday in November and we are still in February, but then you were the one who went to get the gift at the market yourself in this same Feb (you had the right partner you love willingly and out of real emotions) and then you started living and seeing the gift everyday, opening and seeing it...

If you like cohabit for 20yrs, it still doesn't validate the fact that you will know your partner well enough. He or she go do one thing and u go still shock say this person ma black market.

Why will you bear the burden of sin of your cross before the time? Do you want your cup to runneth over?

Sleep dey cohabit me.. See you guys tomorrow

@goldenproject @mathewdaddywah @marsdave who have you cohabited with? If you LIE?

Oya o
@afrikens
@zali.bee
@chefqueen
@goldenproject
@mikechrist
@van.illa

Leggo o

Come with your tithe and offering

While cohabiting could actually lead to better understanding of one's partner, the consequences overweight the benefits. The few times I've shared with my partner helped me understand how she sleeps, whether or not she snores, those habits that may not have been visible for the days of few meetings, time she wakes, her prayer life and so many. However, she doesn't stay for so long but those few days help me better understand her and help me adapt to somethings earlier. But I keep a balance

When one cohabit for too long, sometimes one partner begins to lose interest in the other, feels enslaves, or worse becomes pregnant and that's where everything starts to get wrong. The only time people respect you the most is when they know little or nothing about it , unfortunately cohabiting takes this privilege and makes you judge your worth.

@emreal @iyimoga @luchyl

Come chuk mouth

According to Wikipedia, cohabitation is an arrangement in which people who are not legally married live together as a couple. This means they function exactly like married couples do. They eat together, discuss their plans, engage in sexual activities, and face difficult times together. Over time, just as you come to know your siblings better by sharing your space with them, those who cohabit also learn more about their partners.

There are habits one might not discover about their partner without spending significant time together (not just weekends). So, it a fact that cohabitation reveals a lot and helps people understand what they can tolerate in marriage with a potential marriage. However, it is not a foolproof approach to a long-lasting marriage, as people who cohabit still get divorced like others. They also encounter issues and navigate difficult periods in their relationships.

The average woman often takes on more responsibilities and may give up their independence in cohabitation, especially since she is likely the one to move into the man’s space. In that sense, cohabitation may not be ideal for a woman who is not liberated in her thoughts and actions. It is certainly not for those who have not realized that over familiarity and exploitation can occur in any relationship dynamic.

I also understand why religious people push back against cohabitation. But, the fact that many of them still engage in sexual activities before marriage makes the point of temptation and "sin" irrelevant to the discussion.

In conclusion, the average marriage in our society faces most of the same issues encountered during cohabitation, even down to finance and property claims. So, what exactly justifies the demonization? I would say, just very little. So, cohabitation can be beneficial for individuals who are genuinely interested in challenging unhealthy societal norms and creating more livable relationship experiences before marriage. Ultimately, I believe people should make choices that work best for them.

I tell people when you are going into marriage of any relationship.

Just pray that God should give you someone that understands you and is ready to adjust where need be and also love you.
Because no particular formula is suitable for any relationship.

Some people cohabit fie years and still end up divorcing after few years of marriage. And i have seen people who met and get married in less than a month and they are still together till date.

Cohabiting works , because you get to know and understand the person, but it's not a guarantee for a successful and romantic relationship.

In sum we should just pray that everything works for us.

I'll like to tackle this from the religious, cultural and personal aspect. Most of the religious people are against it because it's against what the belief or what they have been told to believe because it's a "sin". So to them, there's no way around that. I'm not religious anyways. In the cultural aspect, nothing much on that because in some cultures, some are in support whilst some ain't. But looking at it from my personal view, I see no bad in it because I'm in support. Now in general, cohabiting boils down to the people involved, if they like it, no one should stop them and it builds deeper love if those people understand eachother, it is definitely a test for compatibility which they can easily work on what they like and don't should they end up together eventually. Though without it, what is going to work will work. But in my opinion, I'm not against it because this relationship thing works differently for everyone. And no women should be falsed to give up her independence in the process.

Watin unna think?
@afrikens
@betheloji12
@amara24
@zali.bee
@chefqueen
@mikechrist
@van.illa

Most people will agree that it is better to know your partner before getting married. One major way to achieve that is cohabitation.

I'd like to explore the positive side of cohabitation. I think most of the times, people do cohabitation wrongly.
First, it's something that should be done when the intention is marriage.
Also, it should have a purpose and designated period of time.

In fact, it gives a glimpse to how life will be like in marriage. But then, in cohabitation, rules have to be placed, plans have to be made.

In other words, I'm trying to say cohabitation isn't that bad.
Even though there have been cases where people cohabited and the marriage didn't work, I still believe that those who would want to try it should try it the right way.

You don't want to get into marriage with someone you don't really know.

Good evening Fams ❤️
We go again ✌️

Only God's knows how many times I've refreshed this page today 😁...

Happy Weekend, Everyone 🥰

It's weekend.
We're here again.

Happy weekend people of this hangout.

Happy Saturday everyone I hope enjoy your day please read and share don't turn a blind eye to the truth as this could happen to you on Hive 🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾

@jacobtothe Keep digging just remember @acidyo took my rep away with the help of blocktrades delegations and everything is documented 😂😂😂

☝🏾✨⭕✨☝🏾🍻🍻🍻🍻

👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾

@jacobtothe and friends Please get help there's clearly something wrong with you 🙏🏾

I hope blocktrades pays you well enough 😂😂😂😂

Some people just never learn when 😂😂😂👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾

@jacobtothe @livinguktaiwan @oflyhigh @abit @adm @eval @hivetoday @abitmore @hurtlocker @hurt-locker @epstein @gundamzerofour @gundamzerotwo @gundamzerofive @buratus @nattosenpai @fw206 @ocd @acidyo @hivetrending @mrtats @poshtoken @strawhat @solumviz @poshtoken.wallet @hiddenblade @alohaed @tobias-g @nattosenpai @hivetrending @erikah @davidke20 @davideownzall @zingtoken @honey-swap @friendlymoose @x-rain @hivegc @rishi556 @ocd-witness @russia-btc @ocdb @justinw @nutritree @themarkymark @geekgirl @stresskiller @forkyishere @forykw @belikechuck @leovoter @upmyvote @punkteam @makerhacks @wiseagent @steevc @davidthompson57 @meesterboom @demotruk @meno @thelittlebank @buttcoins @snapie @colemole @davidickeyyall @crimsonclad @smooth @oldsoulnewb @artgirl @flemingfarm @neoxian @nwothini335 @bdvoter.cur @zaku @empo.voter @empoderat @ferranlogs @trumpman @bhattg @azircon @riverflows @lazy-panda @gogreenbuddy @tarazkp @buildawhale @logic @abit @freedom @solominer @letusbuyhive @bijoy12 @sagarkothari88 @theycallmedan @ipromote @apeminingclub @nathen007 @dlmmqb @slobberchops @chops316 @littlenewthings @bozz @adm @abit @cwow2 @adm @logic @patrice @spaminator @topcomment @theworldaroundme and friends ✨⭕✨ Please get help 🙏🏾

@jacobtothe @acidyo @themarkymark @hurtlocker and friends 😁 No one will ever trust you again you weirdo 😂

👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾
Hello everyone I hope you are all good and well today in this post is some of the evidence to prove my case

If you didn't know I've been getting downvoted for a long time on Hive

They have been trying to bully me with downvotes and words but it doesn't affect me I've been online for over 25 years

So I've dealt with people like this before it's nothing new

But what they are doing is bad Very badi joined steemit like everyone else thinking it offers freedom but I must say steemit offered much more freedom than Hive does

Everyone already knows I only post my own original content I have no need to steal anything from anyone

I've been labelled a lot of things on Hive 😂 by the biggest farmers scammers and downvoters

Actions speak louder than any words do especially when them words are coming from a compolsive liars

I will keep updating this post when I get time

https://hive.blog/hive/@ureka.stats/the-untrending-report-hive-downvote-analysis-16-09-2025-20250916181314

https://hive.blog/hivedev/@makerhacks/please-peakd-allow-me-to-completely-block-spammers-would-you-ever-vote-for-this

https://hive.blog/hive-167547/@dlmmqb/re-kgakakillerg-t34wy6

https://hive.blog/hive-170475/@acidyo/re-kgakakillerg-t32sw1

https://hive.blog/hive-167922/@themarkymark/re-kgakakillerg-t30ziu

https://hive.blog/hive/@ureka.stats/the-untrending-report-hive-downvote-analysis-29-09-2025-20250929172045

No downvotes for this racist person 🧐

https://hive.blog/hive-196387/@acidyo/re-kgakakillerg-t41yr6

https://hive.blog/dvs/@dhedge/re-kgakakillerg-t3clz3

https://hive.blog/hive-150329/@kgakakillerg/t3a8fu

https://hive.blog/musical/@steevc/re-kgakakillerg-t2kz1m this post

To all the downvoters on Hive When the downvotes stop 🛑 and my rep is back I stop sharing the truth 🙏🏾
☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾 Keep calling the truth lies 😂☝🏾

So many pretend to be doing god's work but they are really working for the devil 👿

Karma will strike you and who ever supports you 🙏🏾

☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾
To @jacobtothe and friends 😁

@crimsonclad please do your job 🙏🏾

https://hive.blog/hive-135178/@crimsonclad/re-kgakakillerg-sxllhv

https://hive.blog/hive-148441/@hivewatchers/svftu9

https://hive.blog/hive-148441/@hivewatchers/svdjjz

https://hive.blog/hive-176853/@steevc/re-kgakakillerg-syyy4x

https://hive.blog/dev/@howo/re-kgakakillerg-szhax7

https://hive.blog/hive/@steevc/follow-friday-respect

https://hive.blog/hive-127022/@shmoogleosukami/re-kgakakillerg-t0hcxc

It's unbelievable that they downvoted this Goodbye Auntie R.I.P 🙏🏾

Comments being downvoted by blocktrades https://hive.blog/hive-170744/@kgakakillerg/t0ns3b

https://hive.blog/hive-127466/@steevc/re-blocktrades-t0kint

https://hive.blog/hive-127466/@blocktrades/t0lq41

https://hive.blog/hive/@ureka.stats/the-untrending-report-hive-downvote-analysis-2025-06-29-20250629143829

https://hive.blog/hive-127466/@kgakakillerg/t0m1vn

https://hive.blog/hive-108278/@kgakakillerg/t0rfo8

https://hive.blog/hive-127466/@kgakakillerg/t0vcl7

Stop farming Hive https://hive.blog/burnpost/@buildawhale/re-1756307402814502169-20250827t151240z

😂😂😂😂😂

📊 The Untrending Report - Hive Downvote Analysis - 2025-09-07

RE: Understanding Pointers in C Programming

Please Peakd, allow me to completely block spammers (Would you ever vote for this?) thanks for exposing yourself more @makerhacks

Please go through it all instead of calling it spam 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

https://blurt.blog/hive/@candy49/5slvnx-taskmaster4450-is-being-downvoted-on-hive-by-you-know-who

🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🙄🙄🙄🙄🚨🚨🚨🚨

https://hive.blog/hive-108278/@kgakakillerg/themarkymark

https://hive.blog/hive-178138/@thefed/t6q9kb 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

https://hive.blog/music/@geneeverett33/11-25-25-three-tune-tuesday-picking-tunes-from-the-punk-band-the-descendents-1982-1997-era

🚨🚨🚨🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨

https://hive.blog/dmania/@steemcleaners/ps46kb

https://hive.blog/hive-124838/@fjworld/re-peaksnaps-t7161i

🚨🚨🚨🚨🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🚨🚨🚨🚨

https://blurt.blog/blurt-131902/@condividisulweb/3w94e8-hive-manipulation-censorship-and-suspicious-funds-the-hidden-truth

🚨🚨🚨🚨🙄🙄🙄🙄🚨🚨🚨

https://hive.blog/hive/@kgakakillerg/i-ve-been-put-on-two-blacklists

Thank you for reading and viewing this post

To all the downvoters on Hive When the downvotes stop 🛑 and my rep is back I stop sharing the truth 🙏🏾

I'm sharing the truth I know it hurts you but it is what it is 😂🍻

Consider these entries from @hive.fund's wallet—a digital fortress of staggering proportions:
"HIVE: 31,354,125.286"
"HBD: 23,325,897.167"
"Estimated Account Value: $24,860,896.64<

It's crazy that hives market cap is 36 million dollars 🤔🧐 and a account to hold 24 million dollars 💰 crazy

To everyone who is turning a blind eye to the truth karma will strike you down 🙏🏾

Stop Doing the devils work do gods work 🙏🏾

☝🏾😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂📷📸📸

☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾

#themarkymarkfiles #buildawhalefiles #acidyofiles #hurtlockerfiles #neoxianfiles #louis88files #azirconfiles #jacobtothefiles #ausbitbankfiles #poshtokenfiles #menofiles #Guiltypartiesfiles #Usainvotefiles #smoothfiles

☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾

Let me finish eating first. An interesting topic by the way😁

Happy Owanbe Saturday, my people.🎉💃
Saturdays are for parties, weddings, and plenty of jollof rice. Do you have any owanbe lined up for today, or are you chilling at home? Share your Saturday plans with us.

! Mention list: @deraaa @b0s @merit.ahama @peaq @monioluwa @brightdavid @stevenson7 @obrisgold1 @jaydr @mayorkeys @wolfofnostreet @young-boss-karin @tukem1 @k-banti @iskafan @chosenfingers @onwugbenuvictor @monica-ene @heskay @etiboy56 @doziekash @chincoculbert @funshee @omosefe @ozohu @attentionneeded @popmanj @estherscott @vickoly @gloriaolar @pianokills @hepziba @tblings-art @anissignature @ijohnsen @manuel6 @khaleesii @kenechukwu97 @abidemiademok21 @otshotz @blezyn @uzuka @mrenglish @bbjmed @uddydan @reineesmay @b0s @prechidi @joydukeson @benii @henryce @nkemakonam89 @zestimony @surgeoncaspar @kingobonnaya @royalpeek @sekani @olawalium @drstrings @ajumaa @blackavalon @jachy @samostically @treasuree @dimmablogs @glorydee @quduus1 @obaro @temibot @hivedeb @stefanovah @adaezeinchrist @kierydearie @khingstan @emreal @moremoney28 @justfavour @herbae @temmylade @princessbusayo @geelocks @actordontee @cescajove @adeife2 @etorobong @jannaforyou @amiegeoffrey @schola.kosy @busk1999 @redna @etiboy56 @jmis101 @queenstarr @yinks @empressjay @marajah @ovey10 @anthony57 @mercytosh @cleevesh @sharonia02 @balikis95 @ibbtammy @afrikens @bruno-kema @desire-pen @ellizy @emlynx @goldenproject @ozd @rukkie @suqueen @patienceakpan @zali.bee @wealthgrammy @coderaikiri @bhetea01 @obifavvy @ruhlar @kingdomzy @johnmitchel @amma1 @emlynx @princessglow @hiventhusiast @kultinvictor @nursecommy @afrikens @daeze-winnie @suisver @ernec @onyinye-chi @benswaag1 @samuel20 @van.illa @iquo @beautyme @mathewdaddywah @amma1 @lecia89 @mayor-001 @goldenproject @iellizy @terjix @toluwanih @daverick @uniquezee @sperosamuel15 @chefqueen @kilvnrex @coderaikiri @justola1 @deborahofweb3 @kentonia @psalmmy264 @emreal @ozibaby @kachy2022 @neysco @faithwellington @abdul-qudus @soma18 @trojan1 @nsigo1 @therichking @zusi78 @marsdave @mega13