Mi Diario: 3 diciembre 2023 // My Diary: December 3 2023
Hola, querido hiver.
En el Diario para estoicos de Ryan Holiday dedicamos cada mes a reflexionar sobre un tema de interés para mejorar nuestra vida y la actitud que tomamos ante lo que nos ocurre.
En noviembre tuvimos como protagonista a la aceptación, un término que puede llevar a confusión porque parece que nos convirtamos en objetos pasivos que se resignan a lo que les acontece. Y no es eso. La aceptación también supone acción, en especial a la hora de aceptar nuestros propios límites y capacidades.
Al acercarse el final del año me resulta tan inevitable mirar hacia atrás como husmear el horizonte que se abre ante la vista. Diciembre es un mes de balances y de renovación de las ilusiones, de marcar objetivos y repasar lo conseguido.
En medio de toda esta mezcla, en el Diario para estoicos el tema central del mes es la muerte. Tener presente que llegará nuestro fin me ayuda a relativizar y no tomarme a pecho las cosas que me molestan. Siempre habrá injusticias, maldades, egoísmos. Somos humanos y cometemos errores a veces sin siquiera pensarlo, solo por seguir nuestros instintos.
Sin embargo, cuando me pregunto si lo que me ha molestado me importará en el momento de dejar este mundo, ¡qué pocas veces asiento! Es reconfortante dejar ir aquello que no es decisivo en nuestras vidas, liberarnos de recelos y enfados sin importancia real.
Cada vez que algo me disgusta procuro meditar acerca de su verdadera dimensión. Y aparte de los momentos compartidos con los seres a los que he querido y quiero, me importa poco más en esta vida.
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Hi, dear hiver.
In Ryan Holiday's Diary for Stoics we dedicate each month to reflect on a topic of interest to improve our lives and the attitude we take towards what happens to us.
In November we focused on acceptance, a term that can lead to confusion because it seems that we become passive objects that are resigned to what happens to them. This is not the case. Acceptance also implies action, especially when it comes to accepting our own limits and capabilities.
As the year draws to a close, I find it as inevitable to look back as it is to sniff the horizon that opens up before me. December is a month of taking stock and renewing hopes, of setting goals and reviewing what has been achieved.
In the midst of all this mixture, in the Diary for Stoics the central theme of the month is death. Being aware that our end will come helps me to relativise and not take to heart the things that bother me. There will always be injustices, wrongdoings, selfishness. We are human and we make mistakes sometimes without even thinking about it, just by following our instincts.
However, when I ask myself if what has bothered me will matter to me when I leave this world, how rarely do I nod! It is comforting to let go of what is not decisive in our lives, to free ourselves from misgivings and anger of no real importance.
Whenever I dislike something I try to meditate on its true dimension. And apart from the moments shared with those I have loved and love, little else matters to me in this life.
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That is a new approach to life, my friend. I think that is very true, because when we leave this world, everything that make us angry, sad, fear will not matter anymore.
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I have been practising this type of reflection on a daily basis for two years. They help me a lot to calm my mind, which does not stop thinking about everything, whether it matters or not.
We don't know what our last day is, that's why I try to make everyone the best possible.☺️
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That is a wise way to look at things. I ask myself "How important is it?" many times a day, and get upset with myself when I react to the things that shouldn't matter to me at all. Old as I am, I am still learning!
Oh yes, I think we never end our learning. I ask me the same question many times. The point is realise that you're turning away before you get lost. 😅 Practice and practice, it’s all.
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If only we can always remember that life is too short to even bother about things that shouldn’t be. But as humans we always forget. I believe that as we keep learning through the things we see everyday, the tendency to be cautious of the things we do becomes imperative. Thank you for this wise reflections.
Luckily we are always in time to learn and improve. Indeed, we are human and it is in our nature to make mistakes and get lost in what does not matter but also to evolve and be a little better every day than the previous one. 😃
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Its a pleasure. Best of the new week
Solo depende de nosotros no ser uno más ya que mantenernos limpios y puros se nos hace más difícil cada vez más...
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Todos llevamos nuestras manchas, no conozco a nadie que no las tenga. Como bien dices, depende de nosotros dejar que ellas nos definan o no. Siempre estamos a tiempo de mejorar, supone un trabajo duro pero merece mucho la pena.
Un abrazo transoceánico. 😁♥️🤗
The last month of the year is the perfect time to think back and reflect on the happenings during the year. I have found the practice helpful too. I find the stoic philosophy really interesting. I'm learning a lot from it. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us. Have a fantastic new week ahead!
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I have been doing these brief reflections daily for more than two years and they have helped me more than therapy with professionals.
Stoic philosophy is not the solution for everything, but it has changed the way I see life and now I am calmer and more focussed. That is a lot.
Thank you for your support, a big hug dear. 🤗♥️
It's a marvelous practice indeed! Happy Tuesday, @palomap3! 😁 🙏 💚 ✨ 🤙
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Great perspective and concepts as always ❤️ :)
Ah... acceptance. Yep.
I've had to stay silent for a bit because of some aggressive folks in the village who prefer women to remain subdued. And some issues to remain buried. South Africa.
But now I'm educated enough to know when and how to proceed.
And if to proceed.
Some things must just be accepted or one can end up getting into a fine mess, you know! 😬
But still... constructive action is necessary or the exact same thing can happen :D
This is key. Sometimes is better doing nothing.
I suspect we have similar character, don’t tolerate injustice or abuse, am I wrong? But we can’t resolve all the world’s problems and sometimes we are not who have to act. Everyone has his responsibility. And admit this is liberator. 😃
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Oh yeah!
And yeah!
And yeah, again!
And it also took me some years to know when and how to act. And whether to. Sometimes, it's dangerous. But one has to see things very clearly to accept this and understand systemic problems
I mean... you can't rail against one person if it's actually systemic. The whole system will come down on you. And most of society because of it.
So what you said.
Also... I've found that "right action" is usually not even action against who or what we might think it should be.
Honestly... after shouting "fuck the system" from the rooftops, after more years of healing and learning and acceptance (!), my right action has moved into education and empowering people now
I think this is the fastest way to maybe fix some problems in our societies and communities. This is the only action that makes any sense to me after trying a variety of actions that were exhausting, futile and (ultimately) self destructive because of both of those.
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Thank you so much for the support, dears! ♥️🤗 !LUV
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La vida es un regalo,como tal hay que vivirla, no más miedo a la muerte, pues el miedo a la muerte no es más que el saber, que estás dejando de vivirla como quisieras. Cómo bien dice en su artículo, lo mejor que podemos hacer es alejar todo lo que no aporte a nuestro propósito, pues siempre va ver diversidad, como siempre también va ver aceptación. Agradecido por su contenido 🙂.
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Interesting reflections. Quite right about death. What bothers us here in this world, won't do the same to us anymore. However, the effects of our actions will certainly follow us!
Stay blissful.
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I overthink and this philosophy is helping me to give importance to the real things. Everyday I have some minutes to reflect about this kind of themes. It’s a game changer!
Thanks for your support and feedback. 🤗
It's good to meditate on the things that upset us, sometimes we find that the source of this feeling is unexpected. I enjoyed reading your thoughts 😁💚
Absolutely agree! We are not the navel of the world, haha. I tend to think too much and writing it helps me clarify ideas. I am glad this is useful to others.
Thanks for reading and commenting, dear. ♥️🤗
I always appreciate reading your thoughts and hearing about your process, @palomap3! It's kind of funny that I always read the Spanish version before the English one...🤣 I hope that you have a really beautiful week! 😁 🙏 💚 ✨ 🤙
🤣 I do the same but with English versions. Do you understand Spanish?
Thank you for stopping by and commenting. ♥️🤗
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Pues lo que cuenta es el ahora, porque ya el pasado ha quedado atras, y ese es su lugar, asi que esa filosofia es muy util. Al menos asi intento yo el vivirla siempre.
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Totalmente de acuerdo. Lo que me atrapó de esta filosofía es lo práctica que es para nuestras vivencias cotidianas. Desde lo más simple a lo más profundo y complejo.
Gracias por tu visita y por el aporte. 🤗
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