Flirting or Harassment? My Unexpected Bus Experience

After spending a week and 2 days at my friend's place, I decided to leave. Actually, I went to sort my new apartment out in another city, and I was with her pending the time I would finish the whole process.


1000501528.jpgAt the garage waiting for our bus to arrive

But while I was on the bus this morning travelling back to my place, something happened β€” one I never thought could happen to me. The guy seated next to me acted strangely, funny and uncomfortable at the same time because I never expected such a thing to happen.

At first, he kept resting his hand on my thigh. I thought it was unintentional, but after a few minutes, his hand was still there. I assumed it was due to the tight space, making it hard for him to sit comfortably. His legs were even resting on a tyre the driver hadn't bothered to remove from between the back seat, a common thing for commercial drivers.

I was busy on my phone, entertained, and didn't think much of it at first. I tried shifting slightly, hoping his hand would move, but I wasn't planning to do anything until I could understand what was happening. However, the more I adjusted my position, pretending I needed to get comfortable, the more his hand stayed. It left my thigh briefly, only for him to place it back immediately.

I wondered if he was waiting for me to react, but I decided to wait and see what would happen first. Then, I noticed his hand moving upward toward my belly. That was when I realized exactly what was going on.

Without saying a word, I removed his hand sharply, it was a silent warning from me. I wanted to see if he would try it again, and if he did, I was ready to shout and expose him. Like, what was that all about?


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This has never happened to me before, and I never imagined it would. When he was getting down at his junction, he dared to bid me goodbye before stepping down. Was he flirting with me on the bus? Or was it something else entirely?

Perhaps he assumed I was the kind of girl who would enjoy being played with roughly by a stranger, that I wouldn't say anything. What kind of silly assumption is that?

Till I got home, the thought of what happened to me kept coming and I was wondering how some people would ever think of trying such in a public bus. Perhaps some other naughty girls might not react since they want such. I wouldn't be surprised if such ever has happened somewhere else because the world is so large, and anything is possible.

But thank God I never had to scream before the situation was handled gently, and he behaved himself, too.


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11 comments

This is very common, someone made a post about her experience on Facebook, you need to see how others were also commenting in the comment box sharing their experience, those are no longer men, they are animals.

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Can you see? This world is turning into something else. Very strange. We need to be careful.

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there should be a strict law against people that harass ladies in public honestly before it get out of hands.

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That was not flirting at all! What he did was very wrong, and I’m glad you removed his hand. Some people have no respect for others. I’m glad you stood your ground. The guy is just stupid for what he did.

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So wrong! Ladies need to be careful out there. Thanks, dear.

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Pure harassment. You should have screamedπŸ˜‘

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I screamed on her behalf while reading the post.

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I would have if he tried it the second time. I just used that as a warning.

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Sadly, some guys have lost their self-control, harassing a lady on a public bus like that.

I am so sorry that happened, Princess; it's good you removed his hand when you did and that he stopped the nonsense.

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Yes, I thought he would want to try again, then he will know what's up with him. So strange.
Thank you, ma

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This is a serious issue sis. A big harassment. You should have abused him loudly inside the bus 🚌 so that others will hear. And it would have served him right.

His types has definitely sold shame and now constitute nuisance.

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Very shameful of him. I never imagined experiencing such. πŸ˜•

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No wonder some guy do get hot slap from ladies.

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Hehehe. Funny enough, if I could slap him, I would but you know Princess, I'd rather warn you first before taking action.

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I don’t know princess πŸ˜‚ . The princess I knew would have landed a hot slap

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Strange and embarrassing too. Wondering what a matured man will be thinking of.

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Don't mind him. Very shameful of him.

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Like when I thought I have heard it all...what kind of animal has some human turned into? That was uncalled for and glad you handled the situation just before he went too far
Nawaoo...in the public again? This world sef

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Hehehe πŸ˜€ I was shocked too, like in public? Some people are animals truly. I couldn't believe such happening to me. God is watching oo πŸ˜„

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He is testing it for sure and if he saw you didn't react, he'll surely do more. Good thing you're brave enough to stop him. Or what if you recorded what happened then upload it online? Anyways I Hope you are okay? How are you?

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Yes, he could have done more or worse if I hadn't reacted when I did. It won't be easier recording myself except someone else did without him knowing.
I'm very okay. Thank you very much, Ruffa.

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Thank you, buzzy

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This is public harassment oooo. He thought you would be an easy prey but he doesn't know that he jam rock.

Guys like this deserve slap and I no go waste time dash am one hand 😁

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Na big rock e jam oo πŸ˜„ nonsense person.
Hahaha. Some other girls would have landed him a slap he will never forget. Lol

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