Does Love Have A Language?

Oh right! These being a generation where everything is described in a way the other Party would understand is "love" and now is being regarded as a language..lol Image by pvproductions on Freepik

Now am admiring my great-grandmother and the ones before time, where they'll just bring husband for you to marry, and the man in question will just say few words to the bride’s father like “ I see a beautiful flower in your compound, that I've come to pluck” after throwing lines like this, the next thing is marriage. In as much as you're a good man from a good family and you got a skill or trade like being a hunter or farmer or even trader.

Those wondering why i didn't mention grandmother calm down, there was a reason for that..lol
Well, I just realized that my grandmother's time wasn't as naive or easy going as my great-grandmother's time was.
..The similarity of young men coming over to pluck beautiful flowers from the backyard was still reigning i think, however this time around it seems love comes first before marriage.
Then you'll see the man throwing stones to the tree or the roof of the house just to alert his lover of his presence, she'll come out all blushing, from there the man will thrive to be successful and come to marry her..simple.

So unfortunate that I wasn't in this generation mentioned above, I would have been a “Mrs' ' now and maybe would have birthed my lovely babies and been attending co-wives and women meetings in one village like that😪

Just kidding o..lol. I love my generation and would have cried if i missed a generation full of cruise as mine😅.

It is our time, that “Love now has a language” if only our great-grandmas knew..lol
Well, that's the proof of being in the present.

Love is a universal language which is practiced in all parts of the world. But when we come to Nigeria, where most ladies love language is “Money”.
Hmm..poor mindset right? Right,I know.

But I also love money too o..lol and I equally find it important as well. In my case however, I prefer being with an hustler than a man who already has it all. The reason being that most “Well to do Man” already cultivated that mindset of every lady having a price tag which i see as nonsense, and so I'll prefer growing with a guy in as much as he's a serious minded person who equally has the taste of being
better.
Coming down to my love language,
Yes, I got one too you know😏..lol
“Attention”

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Something to know about me, Am clingy. I would never get bored of your company as much as feel you enjoy mine too.

When talking about “Attention” it reflects the aspect of communication and understanding down to the depth of it all.
Love isn't an easy ride, I don't know the name of the feelings every human catch at first sight and that last for 3-6 months but that certainly isn't “Love”
So I feel that humans call the present “Attention” in relation to proper communication and understanding.
I believe with that on the line, even in the absence of that short-term feeling you'll still find your partner attractive.

That concludes it all, so if we're in a talking stage and you refuse giving me attention, forget it, am not doing again😗