Life they say " doesn't have a manual" but at the same time we learn from our mistakes as well as other people's. I really do understand that we all have different fate and destinies but then let's have a piece to live with. I may not be the richest, smartest and even oldest but the little I have lived, I have seen a lot and have experienced much.
I will be touching some key aspects of our lives and I am so hoping you unlearn and learn as much as I have done that while going through some people's posts here.
At Work, maximize every opportunity to develop your skill, this will be what will distinguish you from the rest. Developing your skill and evolving with the trend associated with your field of expertise is what will give you and edge over others. Do not limit yourself to what your current job demands from you, be sure you get ready for bigger opportunities.
Nowadays, employers look beyond ones physical strength, yes! No body wants to see how healthy you are but how good you can execute your assigned tasks. The beauty of developing yourself while working is; you will be worth more than just a salary and stipends, you will create a legacy that will be in the brain of your employers that to some extent, they might think the company will not survive if you are being replaced.
In Marriage/Relationship, do not let others detect for you how you treat your partner, it is just the both of you, always find ways to figure out how to solve an issue or the other, that's the beauty of taking responsibility of ones action. Everyone has a flaw, do not let what you hear about your partner destroy the beautiful memories and union you are sharing with him or her.
Shun social media relationships, some are deceptive to a fault, do what works for you, some people are not worth emulating. Don't start what you can't handle to the very ending. Be intentional about growing with eachother not growing apart. Do not hesitate to take your sanity as top priority, don't die in a toxic relationship.
Life In General, try as much as possible to learn from people's mistakes, do not live your life on the detect of other people's opinion. Do not put yourself under any pressure to achieve anything or look like anyone. Everyone has their path to live, create yours and strop living on people's dream.
Everyday is an opportunity to right your wrongs, wakeup everyday with the desire to do it right, don't garnish your ill-attitude with some excuses thereby refusing to change, nobody will love you for living waywardly. For your peace of mind, do not harbor hatred, let love lead always.
Enjoy every step of the way, do not let the fear of failure outweigh the excitement of success. Own up to responsibilities and dust yourself anytime you fail, you people no one an explanation. You can only be called a failure just when you don't want to succeed any longer, count your failed steps as Mini success, atleast you tried and succeeded differently from how you expected it, don't ever write yourself off. Life will only give you what you put in.
This post is in response to Hive Ghana prompt
You have a give a wonderful advice in aspect of life
One of it is on learning to create our own life and not to live other people life. Thanks for the advice
You are welcome my friend.
You gave the best advice so far and the three points are very necessary to abide in the journey of life.
Thank you!
...do what works for you is a motivational line that caught my attention. Life is not a race, it's not a competition. It is exactly as it is; life. Live responsibly and focus on what works for you.
Sure my friend, what works for other most times won't work for us, life is a track of one man, let's live it our way.
I’ll just talk about the work part because relationship keep on casting on me because of my bad character🥹 I’ll work on it though.
Maximizing opportunities are just so important
So important
You never know where it could send you
Personally I’ve experienced that and it even made me discover certain potentials that I didn’t even know I had
To have a balanced life, you just have to work on every sphere of your life, it is okay to have flaws, ofcourse that's what makes us more human. Some day, relationship won't do you dirty again.
Thank you so much my friend for dropping by.
You’re welcome