If shameless was a name of a person
I deserve a medal when it comes to cutting off people and this is because I cherish my peace of mind... I have a lot running on my mind, There are many things I want to achieve so I hate drama or dramatic people because I do not have the time for it.
I have cut off a lot of people because of their vibes, I am someone who loves his privacy so no matter how much I like someone as a friend, I still cherish my alone time and if the person just wants to be around me all the time, it is a big turn off and I don't have any other choice than to cut them off.
Back in 2021, I met this boy in the Waec center and I liked him, so I started to relate with him to the extent that I even let him know my house, My plan was to bring him into the online world so he can start earning and be independent too because his story was touching but he did one thing that made me change my mind.
He comes around often and while showing him stuff online, he got to see one of my portfolios then he went to tell his mum at home, then the mother started to call me that she wanted to greet me then the next thing, she started to bill me..
The first time she made a request, she told me she was expecting a visitor but she didn't have money to entertain them and that I should help her with some cash, I found the reason ridiculous though, you are begging for money to entertain people, who does that? but being the first time she demanded such from me, I fulfilled it and sent her 2k.
A Few weeks later, she messaged me again to tell me she was an actress and she needed me to support the movie she was about to release, I was shocked but again I composed myself and told her I would give her something so a few days later, she called me again saying she is now in the location and what about the money I promised her, so I sent her 4000 Naira, she messaged and ask me that is that all I want to give her? I said yes and I could tell she was not pleased with the amount I sent, probably she wanted me to send 1 million to support her movie lol.
That reaction of hers was the limit I could take from her, and If you want to cut off someone, you have to start from the root of the problem which was her son that went to tell her stuff, so I stopped entertaining him in my house but that didn't stop both mother and son to keep asking me for money and it got to an extent that one day I told her not to beg me for money again but did that stop her? No!
There was a day the boy messaged me asking me for money to eat, and I sent him one k, the next day the mother messaged me too, telling me that the boy's younger sister had not eaten, I got annoyed and blocked her number and the son too, I blocked them on WhatsApp, phone call, telegram and if they message me any other place, I would keep blocking them because they are shameless and shameless people can be desperate and dangerous to keep around you.
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not possible lol, I be lagosian
chai!!! Some people are honestly just shameless, imagine billing someone countless times without an atom of consideration. It's a good thing you cut off from them, else who knows what their next request would be 🤷
they would ask for my head lol
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Seriously🤔!!!! How someone can ask for money for the first time? Moreover, she was the mother of your friend, and that indicates that she has no dignity. Children learn from their parents and naturally, his son also gets nature from her. I think you have done right by blocking them.
you get the point, no dignity and no shame.... you are wise man, the son inherit her character too
😂😂😂this was funny to read. I can just imagine if you gave her money for the younger sister, the mom would have come again to ask for money for their grandma or something else the next day🤣
lol it was just so fucking annoying
Wow brother you've had to make some tough decisions to protect your peace and focus on your goals. Setting boundaries is good when people don't respect your space.
i have a degree in setting boundaries and i don't stay in places or with ppl against my peace of mind.
That's a good thing brother
I had people like that too, the problem is mostly because they more they get the more entitled they become and the more we entitled, the more desperate. The portfolio was never a problem, it's just now deeper the sense of entitlement became
you are right, help them once and they will expect something bigger the next time, but not everyone has this mentality, it is only shameless people that are like this...
Keep up the good work. 👏
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