Behind Every Angry Person Is A Silent Battle
When someone gets angry easily and becomes aggressive toward others at the slightest provocation, something is not right in their life…
source
It could be that they are heartbroken, have lost a loved one, are disappointed about their life, or are going through a tough time…
One of the years that will remain forever fresh in my life is 2011. It was the year I lost a friend and love… this made me distant and bitter… living in a world where it is impossible not to talk or deal with others, I could not stay distant forever, nor could I keep the bitterness, because any small mistake from others annoyed me…
I just know I fought a lot during those years (2011–2015). I thought it was normal, but later, when I reminisced, I realized how crazy I was and how little the things I fought for were, things that could have been avoided…
I didn’t even spare my loved ones. My brother and I were always fighting. Well, he can be annoying as well, and I had zero tolerance for anyone annoying during those years…
The only difference is that I was not troublesome; I just had zero tolerance for people who tried to cheat, insult, or provoke me. I gave them back what they deserved immediately because I was already hurt…
source
I was not always like this. Before 2011, I didn’t get angry easily. In fact, there was no anger in me, and I took everything as a joke… even in school, I took a lot of mockery from classmates, which they said was just for fun…
The heartbreak in 2011 changed everything and gave me anger…
Well, I changed when I found love again. The anger left, not completely, but I could control it, and I stopped reacting to everything…
It reduced even more when I started making money. If I am to say something about my level of anger and craziness now…
I still get angry easily, but I don’t show it. When people say something I don’t like, I don’t react, but my eyes say it all. My expression changes, though not everyone notices… and within five minutes, I am back to my normal self.
The only people who might see the crazy side of me are those who keep provoking me and refuse to stop until I can’t control it anymore, but that hasn’t happened for a long time…
I guess it is because I am getting older. A stranger won’t just want to annoy me for no reason. My friends are older too, and everyone is more mature and has responsibilities. The respect is mutual among neighbors, especially as a family man, so I think the days of my anger are gone…
Just call me Burl.
I am a professional gamer, motivational speaker and a crypto enthusiast
Discord: burlarj
Twitter id: burlarj1
Telegram: burlarj
God exists, I am a living testimony
Giving up is not an option, every hustler has a payday
Don't wish for it, Make it happen
Only Love can heal a broken Heart
This post has been manually curated by @bhattg from Indiaunited community. Join us on our Discord Server.
Do you know that you can earn a passive income by delegating to @indiaunited. We share more than 100 % of the curation rewards with the delegators in the form of IUC tokens.
Here are some handy links for delegations: 100HP, 250HP, 500HP, 1000HP.
100% of the rewards from this comment goes to the curator for their manual curation efforts. Please encourage the curator @bhattg by upvoting this comment and support the community by voting the posts made by @indiaunited.
I agree that we're not the same every year, as we faced something in life which change us but it's good to know now you've control on your anger
!PIZZA
!LADY
View or trade
LOHtokens.@les90, you successfully shared 0.1000 LOH with @burlarj and you earned 0.1000 LOH as tips. (1/9 calls)
Use !LADY command to share LOH! More details available in this post.
$PIZZA slices delivered:
@les90(2/20) tipped @burlarj
Learn more at https://hive.pizza.
Yes, I think we all should have zero tolerance for people who try to cheat, insult, or provoke us.
Hmmm! Truth be told some of the things that made us angry should have been avoided.
Thanks for sharing
I like the fact that you are grown and no longer react to everything, it shows emotional control and strength.
Also, anger is an emotion that's often triggered. People don't just choose to get angry. It's good that you could trace the source of your anger and also be able to control and manage it. It shows maturity and growth.