Hive-Naija Weekend Engagement #65 - โ€œBOOKSโ€

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"Education is the most powerful weapon which you can use to change the world" - Nelson Mandela


Hello everyone, my beautiful hive naija people, it's another beautiful weekend and we are so happy to have you here once again. Itโ€™s nice to get everyone together every weekend to talk about random things and just have fun.

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OBJECTIVE

As we all know, the Hive Naija Weekend Engagement is focused on promoting the togetherness of the Nigeria brethren through engagement and it's also now concerned of the well being of each and everyone who is part of the engagement. This account was opened to make the engagement more personal and officia. You can find the INTRODUCTION POST to read more about the purpose and aim of this new account and also do well to follow the account so as to know when a post is made.



A long time ago, I thought, I shared and I asked "Why don't we chat on hive every Weekend?"
And you all said... YES

"Well, we won't be the first as there are some weekend engagement trends already on Hive! But this would be THE NIGERIAN VERSION!"

The last time, the topic was โ€WE ARE BACK"

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We had over 600+ comments in our last weekend engagement. Itโ€™s a good start, and we hope it gets better from here. Letโ€™s see if we can still make 1000 comments possible this weekend, shall we? ๐Ÿ‘€. It has always been so nice seeing people who dedicate their time to engaging and sharing their thoughts and ideas with us, I want to appreciate you all for the consistency, quality engagement and your efforts, let's keep them coming. Special thanks to everyone who makes this hang out possible.

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I will drop a topic every Friday (Today's topic is below), share your thoughts on the matter, reply to someone else opinion, and interrogate the opinion if you like. Keep the discussion on. If you don't have anything to say about the topic. Just reply to someone else's comment.

Do all these in the comment section, as that is where it all goes down.

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This week's engagement starts immediately after you see this post and ends on Sunday at 11:59 pm.


Prizes for this week

Prizes are distributed to the winners after considering their interactions and also their contributions to the topic. And we have made some little changes and improvements in the prizes too. This week's prizes;

Special prize to our top engager that is the person with more meaningful responses to others comment even if he or she didnโ€™t make a personal comment) gets 5 hive besides the normal prize. This is to encourage meaningful discussion.

1st prize - 5 hive

2nd Prize - 4 Hive

3rd Prize - 3 Hive

4th Prize - 2 HIVE

5th Prize - 1 Hive

Prizes courtesy of:

@Samostically and special thanks to our curators.



BOOKS

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Now to our discussion for this weekend! We will be discussing about โ€œbooksโ€. As we all know, knowledge is power, so we want to know what you are reading to improve your knowledge about different things. Any book (even the Bible or Koran).

  • "What are you reading now?"

OR

  • What have you recently read. Tell us the title and why you read that book

***Remember, the aim of the hangout is to bring Nigerians together so make sure you have this in mind when responding to the questions. And feel free to add even more to it if you have any.

In the spirit of implementing some suggestions, from previous weeks, our winner will choose the topic for discussion and will also be the one to choose the winners. All you have to do is suggest the topic during the week and also the winners in the comment and tag @hopestylist to it. To our topic choosers, they will receive 10% of the hangout post they suggested the topics. (We didnโ€™t get any suggestions this week).


Okay Let's Gist!!!!

Be as simple and sincere with the discussion, hehehe.

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Don't you think we are forgetting somebody?... Well, I'm sure we are...

Oh yes before I forget, the winners will be chosen based on the number of new members they invite to join the engagement. You know what you benefit when you engage so why not let others know about it. In fact I will advise you look beyond the prize and look more to doing something different even for your Naija brethren by showing them the way here.

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There are no further rules, please banter as you like, speak any Nigerian language (Igbo, Yoruba, pidgin, Efik), anything, as long as someone else can understand.

Pls note : However, please don't take it to the extreme.
With all that said, let the discussion begin....

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I never knew there was an initiative like this to interact with one another, this is cool ๐Ÿ˜Ž

At the moment I am reading a book titled Atomic Habits by James Clear; the book was recommended in my church. Though I have not gone far in reading, so far from what I have read, I would say it's an interesting read. The book talks about the power of small habits, which, when practiced consistently, would make a great impact on our lives. At first, when we start doing something, it does seem like there's no change, but if we continue consistently, those small things accumulate into remarkable results over time. And the author gave a lot of relatable examples. I think the book is a must-read for those who want to develop or maintain a healthy habit.

@lecia89 @beckyroyal @uniquezee come share with us what you are reading

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Atomic Habits... It's a good read....

We Nigerians have the habit of acquiring knowledge and doing nothing with it.

I know doctors who decided to marry without respect to blood group... Now all their kids are Sickle cell patients.

We get mouth, we get stuff for head, but na to use am do something be the problem...

What is my point?

Maybe we should all read atomic habits 10 times until we start to do what it says...

PS: if I pick the book, I will likely be reading it for a second time...

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Lol ๐Ÿ˜‚
Am also guilty of acquiring knowledge and not making use of it, sometimes I also wonder why I take different courses online ๐Ÿ˜‚

About the doctors that got married without the respect of genotype even after knowing the consequences are nothing but wicked and evil. Why would a sane person do that to their innocent child, that's just so sad ๐Ÿ˜ข

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๐Ÿ˜ซ๐Ÿ˜ซ๐Ÿ˜ซ
Ahhh start bullet have hit me๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ
Who is calling my nameโ€ฆMe that will pay for course and not study it..same me wee finsh course go and apply for job is war..
I need help๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฒ๐Ÿคฒ

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I think reading the book 10 times will not change the fact that what we all need is to put into practice any knowledge we acquire ...because I have seen people brag I have read this and that but if you look at them you will see that their lifestyle aren't reflecting any of the knowledge they have

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This Doctor's title should be revoked, he has willfully committed evil against humanity...if I'm number one citizen he for pay for this wickedness๐Ÿ˜‚

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Guyyy! This is so real. ๐Ÿ˜‚
Itโ€™s not funny but the way you said it is.
As you have rightly said, we Nigerians have a lot of knowledge but we donโ€™t put them into good use and thatโ€™s really sad and a great reason why we are still a developing country.

Iโ€™m very much in that category and I hope to keep doing better.

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Thank you so much ๐Ÿ‘

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I.have heard about this book..I think someone reviewed on hive and I love to be reminded about the simple habits that matters
It takes consistent effort and before we know it, we begin to see results and impacts in our lives

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That's absolutely true โ˜บ๏ธ

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A lot of persons have reviewed that book on hive. One person who I suspect was the one you saw will be Jayโ€™s.

Nothing good as they say comes easy. Thatโ€™s the way to filter off unserious people, lol. ๐Ÿ˜‚

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I can just be lazy some times. I brought out that book to read oo. Infact itโ€™s even in my to read list since January ๐Ÿ˜ญ
The year is about to end and I have not finished chapter one. Somebody flog me please ๐Ÿคฒ

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๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

You don't need flogging, you just need to pick up the book to start reading, and you would be motivated to finish ๐Ÿ˜‰

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Come here. ..you need better flogging Almost 6months now you haven't finished chapter one, are you on colos or colos is on you ?๐Ÿ˜…

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Guyyy! ๐Ÿ˜‚
Better go and start o. Donโ€™t be like @merit.ahama. ๐Ÿ™‚โ€โ†•๏ธ

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For me, I feel it's a general virus ๐Ÿ˜„
It is easy to gather resources to learn but now creating the time to kick start or utilizing what one has learnt would be one the issue. Probably the economic factor plays a vital role too

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I totally understand ๐Ÿ˜‚

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The only reason I read here in school is because I have accountability partners who read consistently. If you're struggling with consistency in anything,like reading,you need to get yourself an accountability friend who loves reading. That way, they can motivate you. But above all, you must also be intentional if not it's just you trying to play more

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Hmm. You have made a brilliant point. The economy factor is a good one to not overlook.

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Atomic Habits is a great book from the so many reviews I have read on it. Like this Iโ€™m even planning to borrow @olujayโ€™s own. ๐ŸงŽโ€โ™€๏ธ

It will be nice to read it too after all these many reviews and see the so much that is in it for me. ๐Ÿคฒ

Itโ€™s great to have you join the hangout this week. Sadly I couldnโ€™t join early this week due to my exams but itโ€™s all too. ๐Ÿค—

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Which join is more than this one๐Ÿ˜‚
Everywhere I look I see ๐Ÿซต

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How's the exam going, wishing you the very best ๐Ÿ˜™

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So currently I have been broke to tears. Infact few days ago, I was so financial frustrated that I was pacing up and down my room and muttering to myself in tears that I cannot be broke, I refuse to be broke I said as I burst out crying. I had to ask myself why I am so broke after all these years and I canโ€™t even account for what I did with myself and my money. At this age I am still lacking. So out of frustration and tired of the statusquo, I remembered this book that I read last year that really motivated me financially and helped me start planning my finances which I obviously stopped half way else I wouldnโ€™t have been in this financial rut again.

Sometimes we start things with so much zeal and then leave them half way and thatโ€™s why we have a relapse. Well, tired of being broke again, I went and picked up this book to read. I started reading it three days ago and I cried so much the first night and two nights ago, as I saw the things I was supposed to do that I ignored and now itโ€™s been one year after and I am still in the same financial circle and Wondering where I got it wrong. Just last night I had read it again and still reading it and so have given my self a three years target to stick to the principles I am learning from this book no matter how bad it may seem and let me see what will come out of it.

I am tired of being broke and one of the ways to start is to learn from people who have been broke before but overcame poverty.

@goldenproject @chefqueen @empressjay @treasuree @winanda @luchyl @talktofaith which book are you currently reading, share with us and engage ๐Ÿค—

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Chai ...my baby cannot be broke naw..wetin be this

See ehh...just be reading this book and be applying the teachings..hopefully , we go see positive results

All the best dear

!LUV

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Thank you mama
Thatโ€™s what I intend to doโ€ฆ

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wow
This is so inspiring, I will definitely read this book.
I am currently reading on how to sell, joining the real estate sector as a realtor, I need to learn how to sale, that's why I am currently reading that book right now.

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This real estate sector is it not this one me and you is doing ๐Ÿ˜ซ
Please is the name of the book โ€œhow to sell?โ€, send it for me too please๐Ÿคฒ๐Ÿ˜ซ

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This book is part of the books I want to read this year.

Sometimes it's really hard to keep track of our finances mostly when the income isn't much

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Yea and the books talks about how to deal with that too cos this finances never seem to be enough

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It's like this book is a real banger o...see as you're reading and crying ๐Ÿ˜€...
Don't mind me...May the Good lord help you and may the universe favour you as you start all over again Amen

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Amen
Thanks man

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Chaied! Iโ€™m also in this boat. Well, not completely broke now and thatโ€™s all thanks to this book I read when I was nearly 13 years old. Even before I read this book, I was already saving back then so it only encouraged me to do it more and often.

I hope you stick to the principles this time. I think it was seven principles of money or how many that time. Itโ€™s been a long time sha.

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Good for you sis, knowledge gotten early and applied makes a whole lot of difference

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Yay! Another weekend engagement. Iโ€™ll be joining later this time but letโ€™s see how it goes.

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Thank you. ๐Ÿฅฐ

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What have you recently read. Tell us the title and why you read that book

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As you can see above, The power of a praying wife is a book I read long time ago but started reading it again recently..

You may ask why...

The reason is simply because , I have heard and witnessed a lot of challenges facing marriages nowadays and I have come to understand that prayers , wisdom, patience, and our effort goes a long way to help marriages but the ultimate is prayers...so I believe!

I have heard it a lot of time that women holds their home, and I know that it takes a praying wife to do better in handling a godly home.

This books reminds me that a better way to truly love my husband is by lifting him up in prayers on a consistent basis . It's a priceless gift that helps him experience God's blessings and grace. When women prays, God hears...so instead of lingering those misunderstanding , I have learned to pray for him over that habit I doesn't like and wants to experience change

There are lots of practical exercises and assignment concerning spouses in this book that makes it quite interesting.

@merit.ahama @babygirl888 which book are you reading currently ?

@ginika there is an ongoing weekly hive naija hangout ....come and share with your fellow naija peeps and have fun at the same time , learning from each other .

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Abeg, make I learn. My future wife must sabi pray o. Enemies too much for the country.

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๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

My lawd...lol..enemies too much oo.
No be say u talk am

We need a praying wife to stand on the gap for some lazy husbands that can't say our father ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

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This this one
Better go and read the menโ€™s version. The power of a praying husband ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ
Itโ€™s not only women that needs to pray ๐Ÿคฃ

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Oh wow! Thank you for the invite.

I have never read this book but I have heard a lot about it and also gotten reviews on it. It's a book every woman should try to read and put in practice the good it preaches. I would check it out.

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Correct babe ๐Ÿฅฐ

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Eiiii
Thank you ma for inviting me ooo. I just started reading the richest man in Babylon again after I read it last year. Sapa want to finish itselfโ€ฆ๐Ÿ˜ญ
I had to go for financial wisdom ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚
Tired of being broke sis๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ
This babe dey pursue this monies now with reddddd eyes
Lolz
Sapa no go know ur house number
Lol

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I read this book for the first time before I got married and it gave me different ideas on prayer and about two years ago I read it again and it felt like I had never read the book before. The book is so powerful, that it teaches you that even the smallest and silliest thing you think isn't important, you can still pray about it and God will definitely answer you

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My dear...each time I pick it up again...it feels new to my mind ..
Indeed a book worthy to recommend for about to marry ladies

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I started reading this book a long time a go couldnt finish it. Somehow I got distracted.
It's a pretty wonderful book.

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Ahhh....pick it up from online whenever u can or when u need to revisit it
It makes sense

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Okkk
Interesting engagement topic and Inlike this weeks discussionโ€ฆlet check that book again ๐Ÿ˜‚

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I haven't read any book in a long time, except for my school books , should I drop a review on that one ? ๐Ÿ˜‚

I really have been occupied for Awhile now,Omo it's not easy being a human being.

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Make I no flog u oo ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

Don't drop school book oo
Lol

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Lol.
Thats the only book I have read na.

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It's been a while I read a book cos of my engagements but I'm so sure about one book I do read which is the Bible ๐Ÿ˜Ž and thanks for giving the privilege to include it in the options ๐Ÿซถโ˜บ๏ธ

I remember a part of the scripture that I read that talks about a great king who was previously tagged as a bastard, son of a prostitute and was chased out of the family. He mixed with the ordinary men and continued leading them (based on the fact that he has the traits of a leader) of which after a while, his family who chased him out came to him for help in winning the battle of the ammonites so they made him King. Out of anxiety, the King promised God to sacrifice the first thing that comes his way after having victory over the battle.

Fortunately he won the battle while Unfortunately, his only beloved daughter came running towards him with the mind to congratulate and welcome her lovely dad and king back to the palace after winning a mighty terrifying war.
However, he sacrificed the daughter but with a great saddened heart because it's a promise he made.

LESSONS TO LEARN: Never make promises because you need something so badly because after getting it at your disposal, you tend to see the heaviness in what you promised to give back but sorry to say that there might be no means for turning back.
Also, never make promises when you're happy too cos those kind of promises would end up being the ones outside your capacity.

ALTERNATE LESSONS:
Never judge your future success with your background or your present situation. You can always become great as long as you're not relenting or giving up on your dreams and aims.

Na person weh give up fuck up. Shey you get?

Scriptural reference: Judges 11
Main character of Study: Jephthah
Self Generated Title: A Promise like Sore

@hamokstitches @vickoly do you have any book you're reading currently or that you have read before and would love to share? I just shared mine ๐Ÿ˜

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When I read that story in the Bible I canโ€™t help but always wonder what Jephthah was actually thinking when he made that vow. Like what was he thinking that would come out of his house first. Maybe he had a good espouse with his hairs and cattleโ€™s and they usually come out to welcome him or maybe he had a dog but I hav not still wrapped my head around that vow.

Well itโ€™s good he kept his promise and also Well, it was good too that his daughter agreed to be sacrificed becos me like this, japa is my nameโ€ฆlike for why?๐Ÿ˜‚

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Yeahhh I do think about it too and it's actually a mystery but probably he thought it might be one of his slaves or one of his animals like you mentioned.
And pls spare my mouth with this thick laugh on seeing your japa part๐Ÿคฃ That's not fair now ๐Ÿ˜‚ You gat be an understanding daughter

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Hmmmm

That's great lesson in this particular scripture about our practical life

Gracias

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It really is ... Cos so many of us are now taking promises with levity hands and just making them like we call our names

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This is a Great one but me ,I don't have any other book I'm reading at this point of life aside from my departmental courses until I'm done with my forthcoming professional exams

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I wish you the best in your upcoming professional exams

Hopefully u will make an entry after ur exams ?

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Surely I will ...thank you so much

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Success in your exams

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