Love Isn't Enough, Money Isn't Either, So Let's Strike A Balance.

I think the so far in the past the kind of relationship I have had to enter where the ones that I choose love over comfortability which is money, and that was maybe because I didn't know much then and just because I wanted to feel among, I wanted to feel wanted and loved by people who probably would turn to hate me tomorrow at any slightest provocation, looking back at it now I would say I let that racing heart decide and I did settle for less, which is why there are definitely stages to certain things in life.

Where at a point you would be told that you are not ready for this thing and it's true but then we only know the truth when we have experienced it or tasted that fire, so in my past Waka about because I wouldn't fully call those relationships, I did choose love over Money and there were instances where I was given the opportunity to choose over money and love, although the money was really enticing and mouth watering but I choose love, I still don't regret the decisions on choosing love because I got to experience what love is but I wouldn't lie that it came with sacrifices of me letting certain things go.

But you see recently I was talking to a male friend of mine and I asked why he isn't in a relationship yet and he told me he is not balanced yet, mind you this person is off age and old enough to marry but the mindset he bears is that of I want to be balanced before I get into any committed relationship that I would want it to lead to marriage, he feels that he should be financially balanced so as to give in his best in any forth coming relationship and I had to see from his view, some others would want to be a better version of themselves, also finding that financial stability while they are in a committed and faithful relationship, to them it might be that they want to see who can stick with them in times of suffering so that can spend well on them when they are balanced.

Everybody is entitled to whatever works for them best and I would never want to condemn that for you, but for me I believe in this recent principle that I have been applying, I have actually been off relationship for awhile not because I haven't being seeing toaster or people who hit my fancy but because I understand that this stage of my life is not to be jumping from one relationship to the other but to build on myself, understand me very well, establish grounds for myself, grow as a person, be the kind of woman that my kind of man would want and lots more, so this is me investing those time, emotions, tears, money, sacrifices on me now so I can be a better version of me so that whenever I want to get back into relationship I know that it's not for jokes.

It's not because I want financial support, it's not because I feel like playing some games but it's because I am ready to work this one out to marriage, and when that decision comes I wouldn't just go for love but a kind of love that comes with safety, peace, comfort, assurance for me and my unborn babies, and lot's more, I can't just go for money because me myself would be having lots of money by that time, I wouldn't just go for love because love is truly not enough, so let's have a combo here shall we?

What love like to you and what's your love language, it's your favorite host here again 😘, wishing to see more of you.

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