Are we really greedy?
Are humans truly greedy by nature… or are we just looking for something to blame?
Here’s what I believe — and until I see solid reason to think otherwise, I’m standing by it.
I don’t believe humans are greedy by nature.
I believe we’re simply trying to justify certain behaviors — behaviors that might be easier to explain away with a blanket statement like, “humans are naturally selfish.” But that, to me, feels lazy, convenient or comfortable as the case may be.
Because here’s the thing… those very same people we call greedy, selfish, or cruel?
They also have moments of deep selflessness.
They sacrifice for their families.
They help a friend out of a tight spot.
They cry for strangers.
They donate. They pray. They give.
Sometimes they give more than they even have. Even though we might not always see.
Now tell me — if someone is truly greedy at their core, where do these actions come from?
People argue that selflessness is often selfish in disguise — that we only give because it benefits us somehow, even if emotionally. But is that always the case? Be honest.
Because I’ve seen people do things that cost them more than they gain. I’ve seen people put others first even when no one is watching, even when they had nothing to gain, even when it made no sense logically.
If greed was truly inborn — if it was hardwired into our DNA — then why do we sometimes choose kindness?
Why do we feel guilt?
Why does compassion come naturally in certain moments, without anyone asking for it?
Now, if someone claims, “I did this selfish thing because I’m only human — we’re naturally greedy”… I call it bluff.
Because if you can be selfish and selfless, then it means you’re choosing which to act on. It means your “nature” isn’t fixed — it’s flexible.
And if it’s flexible… then it’s not a valid excuse.
Because anything that can be changed or controlled isn’t a justification.
It’s a choice.
That’s why I believe what I believe. And I’m holding on to it until reality gives me a reason to change it.