"Let's rent out the house and travel around the world for a year."
When these words came out of my partner's mouth a few weeks ago I was both surprised and not surprised at all. The idea seemed to come out of nowhere and yet I recalled him mentioning, multiple times over the years, that when he retired from full time work he wanted to travel around the world.
He doesn't do anything until he's ready, or until his hand is forced.
I'd wanted him to declutter this--very full--house from the day I moved in but he didn't have the time or energy until he was no longer working full time. And he didn't have the motivation to deep clean, declutter and renovate (all things this place needed) until he decided that he wanted to rent the house out.
The moment he made that decision (and I agreed that somehow I would make it work to run my business internationally for an entire year) the clean up began. And man can this guy move when he's ready!
When he's ready. Not a moment before.
Ah, life. It keeps presenting me with more and more ways to learn about my man. Maybe it's naive to think I would know everything about a partner after being together for more than five and a half years already. (Yes, it's totally naive). But I do love that I keep learning new things about him, and myself, as we travel on doing life together.
Speaking of travelling: We're planning to spend a year travelling around the world!!!
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OMG. I have been reminded more than once that we are very privileged to be able to do this. This is surely true. I also know that I'm finding the whole process rather stressful and overwhelming; there is so much to do.
In an attempt to learn more about how to navigate something like 30 countries over 365 or so days and have the opportunity to share my thoughts and feelings about the whole process "out loud", I thought I'd write this blog post. And, if I can in between everything else, I'll probably write a few of these as the process goes on.
Right now, while Mister declutters and fixes things around the house and yard, my biggest job is to shift my business model to something that will work better "on the road". With the latest itinerary (I'm up to something like Version #8 now) seeing us in some locations as little as 3 nights and the longest anywhere being just over a month, I need to have far less reliance on 1:1 coaching clients as my main source of revenue (/income).
My ideal (and plan) is to take as much of the incredible amount of knowledge I have on Human Design, Tapping and doing Trauma-Informed Work and put this "monster-pile-of-stuff" into organised products and programs that others can purchase and consume without ever needing to meet me.
It's going to take time. I fear it will take more time than the six months we have before our ideal departure date (based on seasons). But I keep being reminded (by my partner and by some wiser part of me that voices her opinion from time-to-time) that I can only do the best I can do. And that we'll figure it out.
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That's a momentous decision to be sure! Glad that you have the means to do this, it's going to be a wonderful experience. If you plan on coming to Latin America, stop by Venezuela for a bit, if you can. I'd be happy to accompany you around!
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Oh wow. I am pumped reading this and yes we do learn new things about our partners. Married to mine for longer than 10 years and I still learn new things about her. Keeps us going really...
I think, to some degree, for us too.
Sometimes we have ideas in our heads and it takes ages before things manifest. I like that, and it shows just how important it is to trust the timing and process of every thing.
All good wishes:)))
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Hello Wes,
Thanks for your lovely comment.
I trust that all is well with you too.
All good wishes, always:)))
Agreed!
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It's great to see you blogging again:)))
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I’m pretty sure you know how happy this post makes me especially how you couldn’t really travel with “new things”
Yayyy!!!! I’m so excited and I’m so glad you have your partner and the inner wiser voice to keep reminding you that you can only do the best you can do.
Ah! I'm glad this post makes you happy =)
But I do have to warn you, I really don't think we're going to get to Ghana. I want to go EVERYWHERE (that doesn't have active wars and ridiculous treatment of women that is!) but we're not going to fit it all in! But if we pull off this trip I'll be only 6,000 km from you instead of 16000km away. !LOL
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Ohh Ghana is really nice and safe place though and fits exactly what you just described.
6000km? Okayyy That’s fine
I’m still exciteddd
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My goodness! When I read the first phrase from your post, something immediately wispered inside me - 'what a great idea, I will do this once too!!!'. Im so happy to read this and seeing how once the right time comes, people make their dreams coming true, there is nothing more important than this! I will be following your posts from around the globe and keep fingers crossed for you that you will make the maximum wonderful experience out of all possible!!! Wish you great experience and great luck!!!
Oh, thank you Anna. What a lovely comment. You've given me another little spark of motivation to continue writing as we go. See how I go! !LUV
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Gosh, it must have been such a shock to do that trip. Glad you made it out alive and have stayed well enough to become an "old man" that I can meet on a crypto blockchain 😊
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