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RE: The Confusion Of Modern Empathy
I was just thinking, “some people just want your comfort rather than solutions” and then read further to see that even that much was despised too. Honestly, I can relate with how you feel. People almost 100% of the time don’t know what you as a person is going through because you constantly show up for them. Each and every time and they take it for granted. It’s indeed a generational problem or maybe it’s just the way the world has turned the generation to be.
All in all, I have decided to mind my business. It’s best for my mental health and I’m already dealing with too much to worry what someone else is going through or how they view me at the moment.
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Mmm, another way to approach this. This is actually very good so far as your mental health isn’t at stake.
But then I was wondering how long you can mind your business especially when your loved ones need you.
Oh. Lol. Well, in the past, I would be one to rush to help. Especially when it seems they need it. But now, I have gotten to the point where I have fully understood that my loved ones are all full fledged adults. Should they come to me with an earful, I also expect that they understand my person and tell me exactly what they are seeking for: comfort or solutions? I don’t do well with confusion. But maybe it’s just me. That’s how I face it. Everyone is different.