I sometimes wonder why some people have trust issues especially when someone acts so well to them that it is so obvious that such person cannot betray them. Well, that was the old me but not anymore. I’m not perfect and I might have betrayed some other people unknowingly but I don’t think I have ever in my life intentionally betray everyone.
Also, the betrayal story I may be sharing doesn’t mean I’m the best person in the world but people can just be funny and may never be satisfied no matter how much you try to be loyal to them.
A betrayer will always betray you.
Have you ever felt so pained by a betrayal? Was it from your best friend, partner, family or someone else? How did you handle the situation and are you still in contact with the person?
Honestly, I have always heard that family is everything and they will always be there for you but not in every situation. Some family members may even be the ones to cause more disaster for you.
My mum’s sister lived with us right from my childhood and my father made sure that he sponsored her education till the University level. This is huge and it’s so rare to find someone who will sponsor you especially with the way things are in the country. He did that and even helped her with a job.
Aside from that, my father thought the best thing she can do is run a business and my father sponsored that as well. In my house, we always tried to make sure that we support her when she needs something. She eventually got married and stopped calling or checking on us. Even at that, we still turned up for her party and was there when she needed us.
Unfortunately, I had a little accommodation problem and my workplace was very much close to her matrimonial home. My plan was to stay with her for a few days till I rent another house. The whole feeling was that I will be allowed to live with her since she’s my big sister and we’re so close.
I got shocked by the response she gave my dad when he called her. She told my dad that she can’t allow me at her place because she doesn’t want any intruder in her marriage.
I was shocked and my dad could not believe what he just heard. Finally, I got a place to stay and there was no need to worry. I just felt betrayed by my aunt because my family helped and stood by her so much all for her to say it loud and clear that she doesn’t want an intruder in her house.
I’m glad I’m in my apartment now. Life continues!
Oh that’s really not a nice thing to do and I understand how hurtful it must have been for you. It’s sad thinking about how she grew up living with you guys and still did that to you. I’m glad you have your apartment now.