What’s Happening to my Social Life?
So I’ve been thinking about my life lately but I’m not sure where this post fits in. Is it a reflection, rant, or a thoughtful post? Well, we’ll find out as this post progresses but pardon me for posting it here.
I can’t help but wonder how I moved from enjoying being around people to enjoying my own company, always staying indoors, and being a complete loner.
I am not an introvert, I have a handful of friends and my social battery can go above 100% sometimes but all of a sudden I don’t feel like going anywhere or being in the company of others.
Does it come with age? Or am I going through something that I don’t know about? Or is this something anyone can relate to?
I’ve been on leave for a few weeks now, before my leave, I had the perfect plan. To travel, visit amazing places, hang out with friends, and basically have fun but for weeks now I haven’t stepped out of this house to do anything reasonable except I need to get food or groceries! And I always go out in the night. (Vampire vibes)
What I find disturbing is that this didn’t start now. It’s been going on for months. I would rather be all alone than be around people.
The same goes for my phone. I don’t want to be texted or called, I just want to be left alone. Is this supposed to be normal or am I going crazy?😂😂 somebody please send help!!
The fact that I don’t get bored being alone is worrisome too! How can I be so good at entertaining myself at home?! How!
I literally have everything I need to keep me busy and entertained. There’s no dull moment here and going out seems like a chore, a very difficult chore that I am not willing to do.
Why do I want to be away from everyone and why am I so comfortable being alone? Mind you, if this was how I have always been I wouldn’t be so bothered but moving from a bubbly human being to a complete loner in a matter of months is like moving from 0-100 in a minute!!!
I’m currently considering working remotely and if I am able to achieve this, this would be the end of mingling or having contact with humans, hehehehe just kidding😂😂 but it’s possible. My job is the one thing that takes me out, remove that from the equation and it’s GAME OVER!
Please, is there a remedy or hack to this? Because my social life is currently crying for help, so before it dies completely, please help me.
I mean, I’m such a sweet and awesome girl, the world needs some of my awesomeness, but that can’t happen if I’m all stuck in this little apartment of mine!! Helpppp!!!
PS: With this many exclamation marks, this post turned out to be a rant after all😂
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Thank you for sharing your beautiful philosophy of life. Especially we feel happy to go to different places or to cross some inaccessible path only with our loved ones. But suddenly going with someone does not seem normal at all. It is really fun to travel to some joyful places during holidays. But hanging out with friends is a good way. There are times in people's lives when your phone feels very annoying. But you cannot go without a phone. I have seen a rickshaw driver in our city who also has a mobile phone. It is best that you travel to a place where there is a huge flower garden. Or take a place where you have never been. Then you will appreciate the love of loneliness in life. We know that death is inevitable for everyone. So we appreciate the good things in life. Thank you very much for discussing your loneliness with some beautiful messages about a life locked in a house. Let's travel to a flower garden. Let's get involved with people by traveling to an unfamiliar place. Living alone is really very difficult. There are many ways to get out of such a difficult situation. If you want, you can understand my words. You can plant some trees in your yard.
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Thank you sir
This is so true! I am experiencing this right now but despite everything, I still need my phone. I pray this phase of my life ends soon.
Thank you so much friend for leaving such a a beautiful comment on my post, it means a lot to me 🥰
Visible nature and animals will support you. Solitude with you will make time normal. Thank you.
If you're comfortable being by yourself without running mad or feeling lonely, that's power. But if you find a co-workspace somewhere around when you get that remote job, it might help. Even it's just to be seeing one fine bobo working like it's the end of the world.
Lol, trust you to end your comment with something silly😂😂😂
Thanks for the advice, I'll look into it.
I think sometimes you would just want that space for yourself and withdraw from people. Well, if it's something you find comfortable and suiting then fine, if not then you go back oo 😄.
There are people that being a liner is their comfort zone and you can't make them all social like that. Sometimes though, I figured we might need a little taste of both perspectives. Maybe that's where you are now, haha.
I am gradually beginning to think in that direction too. All I need to do is wait and see where all of this ends.
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Yeah, maybe.
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Same here, I feel comfortable alone without being bored.
Hehehe that makes the two of us🥰
I can relate! And I think we'd make good roommates! I don't go out much, either, and I firmly believe in everyone having some "alone time" every day. So, I wouldn't bother you, and I know you wouldn't bother me. We could meet for dinner in the kitchen, maybe, have a nice meal together, then retreat to our own rooms again. 😁
For me, age is one factor, I think; I'm in my sixties now and my "party animal" days are long gone. I've lived with someone most of my life (parents, husband, etc.) but have come to enjoy independent living by myself since my husband passed years ago. A good roommate can be a joy, but a bad one can be a nightmare. Also, finding one that is truly compatible nowadays is difficult — so many people clash with my personal beliefs (political, social, subscribing to insane conspiracy theories, etc.) that I have dropped many friends and stopped calling some family members over the past several years because of the conflict when we talked. 😒
For the most part, Hive and Discord are my "social life" and it's great! 😂 LOL
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Spot on! If everyone understood this, the world would be a better place.
I guess that’s what’s happening to me right now but let’s see where this leads me to.
PS: Being your roommate would be awesome!🥰🥰
GLAD TO KNOW I'M NOT THE ONLY VAMPIRE IN THE ROOM, LOL. I ALSO LIKE WALKING IN THE NIGHT AS WELL. TRUST ME YOU'RE NOT ALONE. IF YOUNGER COULD SEE ME NOW I BET HE'D ASK WHAT HAPPENED TO YOU (I ASK MYSELF THE SAME THING)? I GUESS IT'S PART OF WHAT ADULTHOOD LOOKS LIKE.
Lol glad to know that someone else gets it too😃😃
Adulthood is damn interesting, I can't wait to see where it leads me to.
If I get you right, you have a super power but don’t even know? 😱
Ibb!!! Do you know how powerful it is to be able to enjoy your own company?
I’ve been indoors for about a month because I’ve relocated to a new place and I’m still adapting to their weather. Girl, I feel like I’ve been kidnapped just because I’m unable to go out as I want. Let’s just exchange lives for a day.