Love is not enough.
Hello everyone, thank you for stopping by my blog today. Want to share with you some tips on marriage, first I would say married is a beautiful thing but there are some basic things you need for your marriage to work. And one of it is communication. Communication is one of the basic things you need for your marriage to move forward. Do not for once assume that your spouse should know it all. At times your guys might be thinking differently; you know all humans are not the same.
Our mentalities are not the same; at times what you might be thinking is actually not what it looks like in reality, but the moment you communicate, you will realize that you're wrong or shouldn't have thought that way. Secondly,
Dialogue, everyone is entitled to get angry; getting angry is not a bad thing, but don't let the anger stay in your heart for long. Keeping malice for long in marriage might send your spouse away. Even the Bible is not against anger, but make sure the anger doesn't last till the next day. Sit each other down and express yourselves. You will see that at the end of the day, what you carry as big is actually what it is. And as you do that often, your marriage will grow stronger and sweeter, at the end of The day.
The third and most important thing is patience. Everywhere you go, when you're getting married, the first thing you hear is "patience." This particular word is the sugar in a successful marriage.Without patience in marriage, I don't think it will last even up to a month. Forget the fact that you and your spouse love each other, and because of that, you think you have it all. no marriage is bigger than just love.
you need patience the most for your marriage to work. Marriage is a good thing indeed, but you are responsible for what you want in the marriage. If you want it sweet, then you will build it to be sweet; if you want it sour, then you can also do that. But just know that love is not enough. Thank you for reading through.
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STOPI think patience is a general virtue you need in life. It’s more powerful than we think.
Anyway, I’m curious to know something. What about those that build a sweet marriage in the beginning but then it ends up being sour? Where do they go wrong?
Sometimes or let me say many atimes, the communication between them is poor. In marriages right, one have to be a fool, just so the marriage can work, the can never be two captain in one ship you know. So maybe, the woman is doing I know everything, and the man is also doing the same thing, you those kind of people can never leave in the same house.
This is very enlightening. Thank you.
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