Not the kind you’re guzzling in your 3-liter Hydro Flask because TikTok told you hydration fixes your trauma. I’m talking about the metaphorical kind. The invisible stuff you’re swimming in right now.
You wake up. You scroll. You coffee. You commute. You nod politely at Gary in accounting. You vaguely contemplate faking your own death during a Zoom call. Then it’s lunch. A couple meetings. More scrolling. Dinner. Netflix. Sleep. Repeat.
This is water.
It’s the default setting. It’s the “normal.” And it’s killing you quietly — not with drama, but with dullness. Like being slowly strangled by a beige throw pillow from IKEA. You’re not technically suffering. But also, are you even alive?
Most people? They don’t think. They just react. Like a broken vending machine that spits out rage, dopamine hits, or empty sarcasm depending on what button life punches that day.
Here’s the mind bomb: Learning to think — really think — is a survival skill.
Not the “read 50 books a year and quote Naval Ravikant on dates” kind of thinking. I’m talking painful self-awareness. The kind that makes you question:
Because if you don’t think, someone else is doing your thinking for you. News flash: that someone doesn't have your best interests in mind. They probably sell “mindfulness crystals” on Etsy.
Default thinking is convenient. Comfortable. It’s that mental fast-food combo that feels good in the moment and rots your insides over time.
Default thinking says:
WAKE UP.
Default thinking is why midlife crises now start at 28 and involve ketamine retreats in Tulum.
Thinking is hard because it’s unsexy. It’s not a biohack. It’s not a TikTok dance. It’s brutal inner work that sounds like:
“Maybe I’m not mad at the world… maybe I’m just scared I’m wasting my life pretending to be someone I’m not.”
Cue existential vomiting.
But that’s the point. When you learn to think, you can choose your story. You stop reacting. You start creating. You become the author, not the algorithm.
You’re not a cog. You’re a damn creator.
You’re not insane for feeling overwhelmed. You’re not broken. You’re not “bad at life.”
You’re just swimming in water, and nobody told you it was water.
But now you know.
And knowing is step one. Step two? Choose to think. Relentlessly. Awkwardly. Honestly. Think until you cringe. Think until you cry. Think until you laugh in public and someone asks if you’re okay.
You are. You’re just alive for the first time.
So next time you feel like you’re losing your mind?
Ask yourself: What’s the water I’m swimming in? And do I really want to keep floating this way?
Just saying. And more to follow.
While I was searching for some funny memes on FB (that's the main purpose of FB for me, 😀), I was forced to watch an ad about procrastination... And, to my surprise, I heard something interesting...
The guy was talking about why we procrastinate, and why we are doing exactly what you said in the post (work harder, rather than work smarter)... Also, you said the main CLUE in the sentence that I quoted... SURVIVAL! Our brain works on "survival mode" and because of that, whenever we want to implement some new idea, to do something riskier, to work smarter, our brain says: "F$ck that... That's too risky... We are going back to routine as that worked in the PAST... Why change it?"
Our brain makes decisions according to previous experiences from the past, and can't predict the future... Whatever works toward survival, and it worked in the past, is the WAY to do it!
PS. Maybe this is a bit off topic, but I wanted to share... and my brain made a connection with your post... 😃
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This content is not just a mere content but it's deep, people don't know that when they don't think out that people think for them in the sense that they end up following the trend of some ideas from the Media and that is someone's thinking, and it's very difficult to achieve freedom which such way of life.
Indeed! It sure is!! Not thinking for yourself, in a clear and well thought out manner, means you are susceptible to every type of manipulation or spinning... Which, in a way, we always are, even when we think thoroughly...
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I am really sitting back to ask myself that question
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This hit like a thunderclap disguised as a TED talk. Brutal, brilliant, and brutally brilliant. The 'beige throw pillow from IKEA' line? Chef's kiss. Thank you for shaking the snow globe in my brain - I needed this kind of mental jolt.
That is very deep. Something I’m going home to think about.
Brilliant and spot-on post, my friend! This is exactly why I had to extricate myself from that pernicious system years ago. I love when you write like this! 😁 🙏 💚 ✨ 🤙
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