Modernly Traditional
A bridge between generations
We had to go to his friend's birthday, as it was happening in our city, only because, they wanted all the friends and families attend the function. There was a long request to go to their home, which is a little far, but then there was no way we could deny this. This is the first time we met the parents of his friends from the college, so this laid the foundation stone for more such gatherings. The celebration was arranged in nearby Sai Temple, where they have all facilities to host a party with a delicious vegan dinner along with starters.
Once we arrived there, the boy was busy with his friends. Looking at these teen's gesture, it felt like they are decently growing with a little naughtiness, which is not very unfair at their age. At his age, I was put in a hostel, and struggle initially, but hostels then were not that bad. Now a days, leaving them in hostel is risky, because, these innocent guys can easily get biased.
On another side of the temple, a Pala was organized. It's a very old traditional folk ballad presentation from my place which is usually performed in such occasions after the rituals are performed. I did spent some time listening to them and it reminded me, some of our childhood, when we had none of the digital media available. Unless you pay attention, its difficult to understand the narration as its mostly in Sanskrit and Odia. Slowly, the attraction for these events have reduced, but considering the auspiciousness of it, we as parents still believe, these rituals should be done in parallel.
Modernly traditional, isn't it ?
We offered our prayers and spent some time in the small temple, as the main temple was already closed. Since we had another event to attend, so had to ask the kids to finish early.
Lot of items on the menu and they were indeed all tasty as I heard from the kids.
I saved my appetite for the next function, which was the 11th day ritual of her very close friend's mother's demise.
Most of the rituals were done on the day, and I had been present there. These are the time of need, where I feel, we must be present and help as necessary. We need friends most in grief, if not in ceremonies. The evening was a bigger arrangement held in a temple.
We are very close to the family, and it was a great loss for him and consoling in words won't be enough.
Plenty of items on the menu there as well, all vegan but very tasty.
Most of the guests had left by the time we reached, but all her friends were waiting and even called her to come soon. They are friends from high school and you can imagine the feelings of the meeting.
We stayed till the end and a lot of food was still remaining, so they packed most of the items, to take home, that served the next day. Have you ever observed, some items taste more on the next day ?
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Birthday celebrations are now traditional. Especially young boys and the way they put cake in their mouths, although it can be a lot of fun at times, it can be very dangerous. Anyway, wish your son's friend a happy birthday.
We have to watch them, and guide them to be careful though.
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From your blog I got to know about Pala which is traditional folk ballad. That's interesting. When we observe the activities of child we always go back in childhood with the help of memories entrenched in books of brain.
Wao! This is a huge for and this kind of thing makes friendship strong. It was really good how you have stood by you son to attend his friends birthday party. He must be proud to have you as a father.
Ya, we are like friends.
Wao! That's lovely, I emulated a lot from you even with the way you do with you family, I want to be a great father too to my own family..
Happy birthday and many many happy returns of the day.
I always happy to watch birthday party because when I was child, I’m not be able to have a party 😊
By the way, I always admire Indian women use traditional cloth. So beautiful
Ya, traditional Saree is the most beautiful attire, from ages.
How are you dear friend @sanjeevm good morning
It is beautiful to see how your child is growing and integrating into society, it is good to see how they are as parents and accompany their children in this growth.
The children look happy and have enjoyed the birthday celebration.
I take this opportunity to wish you a beautiful Sunday
Nice to see everyone are so happy and united. For sure it's a great bonding for eveyone.
Ya, friendship tonic.
You had a great party, as well as the union by generations. You all had fun.
Very true. A lot of food tastes way better the next day. Better with age I guess. Or maybe not so better in some cases.😄
Everyone looks happy and that's the most beautiful thing about this. Modernly traditional fun indeed.
Ya, these are the events that helps us socialize and spend some happy moments.
Great enjoy your day
Siempre es muy importante conocer a los amigos y allegados de nuestros hijos y familiares, aún más cuando se está en la adolescencia y juventud , bonitas fiestas hacen ustedes allá en la India.
What a party!
It inspires me to see you gathering so happily as a family at these festive occasions. Also brings me back to travelling in that region many years ago and enjoying how things appear to be staying the same in some ways.
One thing I find is that the Indian food I love to eat locally almost always tastes even better the second day. I am not sure if the flavour gets to sink in to everything overnight but leftovers are the best part of the next day for me.
Fantastic union of modern and classic celebration!
Kind of, some items are tasty for sure next day.
Happy birthday...Look how everyone is happy, India tradition is always beautiful and colourful to view.
Ya, that is what makes us lively.
😊😉🎉 great look bunch. that was quite a nice party!
yea.. the innocence of kids.. but hopefully they grow and learn and get street smart, not only book smart.. 🤓
Ya, their confidence level is increasing for sure, along with exposure.
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events like these are there to collect families at once place and enjoy all together.
This must have really been a great party and so many memories that will be created during the party that will live long
Ya, especially when the kids grow, they will love to see these memories. I still have some old printed photographs, that reminds me my time.
What a lovely party! I agree, some food tastes better the day after. And it's always so tasty when there's a party, eat the next day the leftover food, hehe.
@sanjeevm Sanjeev, a truly great birthday party indeed! Kids love to celebrate and its really the best time for them to get together and have a great fun and enjoyment.
Cheers!
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Such occasions were very influential in bringing the family and the friends together. Happy birthday day😍
I hope you might have a good day mate.
Blessings 😇😊😍
It sounds like you had a busy but meaningful weekend. Attending your friend's birthday celebration and the 11th-day ritual were both important events, and it's good to hear that you were able to be there for your friends. I'm also glad to hear that the food was tasty at both events.
Happy belated birthday 🥳