LET'S TAKE A BREAK πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸšΆπŸšΆπŸšΆ

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The journey of love as been beautiful and exciting so far, I don't know why but for me it has been this way and if you are asking for peace of mind in a relationship, please ask from me because I have it in abundance and I will love to share with my fellow guys who are in a relationship but don't have peace of mind lol...

Well well well, it's been 2 years now I asked someone out and since the last couple of years I never taught I was going to have it easy after putting a name to our relationship lol...

We started off as classmates, enemies, friends then we ended up together after certain circumstances forced us to be together, wait wait wait lol, well I will refuse to call it force but rather call it an opportunity because I realized having her with me was the best thing I could ask for lol and so far so good we are happy together πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‡β€οΈπŸ˜œ...

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I have always come across boring and troublesome relationship thanks to kind of friends I have and all I have seen in theirs and several other relationships is billing upon billing and dramas lol and at the end of the day its breakup and assault, I was quite scared of going into a relationship back then but then I sat down that the only result it would give me if it gets worst is to go our separate ways but to my greatest surprise it's been different so far and I am quite happy with the fact that there is no headache in mine but there are others like arguments and no calling each other for hours lol but all this made us stronger...

I think movies has influenced and affected a lot of relationships over the years, why is it so is my question today and I haven't been able to get my desired answer but I hope to find the answer to it soon...

Some weeks ago I was talking to a friend of mine and I was asking about his girlfriend, he was like bro let's talk about another thing and I was like what has happened again and he gave me the latest update on his relationship and I was wowed and at the same time I had many questions but I decided to work the answers out myself...

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From the conversation we had, he told me he and his girlfriend were on break and I was like break as how lol, were you both having a class before in a joking manner and he was like they both decided to give themselves time to sort out their feelings for each other before they will decide if they want to get back together or not, my first expression was like; wtf is this again lolπŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ™„πŸ™„, is this madness or joke and he was like they needed to have a break in their relationship because they have been having too much misunderstanding and arguments lately on their relationship and they both concluded to go on break πŸ€”πŸ€”πŸ€”πŸ€”...

why go on break instead of just breaking up and you will save yourself unnecessary struggles and hardship again lol, if it's not working then you both should let go of each other and find another person, problem solved πŸ˜‰πŸ˜ŠπŸ˜‚...

I had many questions to ask him but I was being conscious of what to ask since he wasn't really in the mood to talk about it but the fact was that it kept bugging so much that I had to sit down to think about this shitty thing called RELATIONSHIP BREAK...

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I have been wondering about it all week and I think I have started getting some clues as to why it happens and what lead such thing to happen between couples...

If you see this friend of mine and his so called girlfriend when they are all being lovey dovey lol omo you will be forced to get yourself a girlfriend but when he told me this I was like this must be a joke with all that you guys do every timeπŸ€”πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„...

I couldn't believe what I was hearing and now my investigation is based on finding out what causes relationship break in relationships and so far I have gotten few ideas from other friends but I am not satisfied enough with it...

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I need a detailed and concrete explanation and answer to this question of mine and I am sure I have thousands of people here on hive that can give me an answer to this question of mine...

I don't mind you sharing or explaining little but for every explanation of yours there will always be an answer to my question...

In summary, I am still here trying to gather enough piece on what can happen that will lead to such decision, instead of break why not decide to break up totally and free each other from this bondage they call relationship lol...

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Do you know the funniest part of this whole story, I am sure this decision was influenced by too much love and romantic drama lol, you lovers of K-DRAMAS well done oh lolπŸ˜‚πŸ˜...

In conclusion, at least we the singles πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ˜‡πŸ˜‡πŸ˜‡πŸ˜‡πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜œ are very happy with our single life and we are doing fine, so why bother troubling us with different relationship troubles and hiccups lol...

Please use the comment section below to share your thoughts on this so called relationship break...

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  THANKS FOR READING πŸ˜ŠπŸ“–


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In summary, I am still here trying to gather enough piece on what can happen that will lead to such decision, instead of break why not decide to break up totally and free each other from this bondage they call relationship lol...

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ E never reach to call am bondage naπŸ˜„

Well this is a very interesting question. Right now, I'm as single as the number 1 πŸ˜„, but before now I was in a relationship and I'll give my perspective based on my experience.
From the relationships I've been, one thing I noticed it that the cause of 90% of the issues is usually lack of communication. One or both parties are usually emotionally immature and that means they don't communicate their feelings when things go wrong. They jut expect you to know that what you did hurt, even when it is not obvious.

My last relationship helped me observe that sometimes I expected my boyfriend to know that what he did was wrong, and then I would get mad at him. He would just be stuck trying to figure out what he did wrong. I noticed that that was a toxic trait that I needed to stop or else it would mean the end of the relationship.
Another thing is, love requires hard work from both parties. Love is not lazy, you can't just relax and expect things to fall in place. Sometimes you need to put in extra effort to get results. If both parties are willing to this, only then will things work well.

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For me, being in a relationship is such a waste of time unless I'm fully ready to risk and sacrifice for that person. Like you know, in every aspect of our life, we will not avoid making a choice, and you don't have a choice but to make that choice since you need to take the consequences of your action. I love watching K-Drama or any international romance series or movies if I am in the mood, but let's wake up to other's fantasies that it's only a tiny chance (not that impossible to meet like Nam Joo-Hyuk, Cha Eunwoo or any other green flag leads that we call as the "high standards") to meet something like them.

Relationship break is like cool off in our terms which I usually watch in typical or cliche teleseryes here in the Philippines, lol. I think it worked, especially when both parties had a fight and they needed to reconsider whether they would break up or not. You know, I think that some people are correct in their advice that it's better to make a decision if you are not sad or angry or "Don't play along with your emotion..."

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