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Sometimes, it takes a good fall to really know where we stand.

A man who had known success all his life is vulnerable to failure. He probably had not done something extra, or he had felt comfortable in his fallen state. Most often we know just a little about the position we stand in life especially when everything has been in our favor. We believe everyone is a friend, we trust everyone we meet, we go about carelessly with little or no thoughts about life, and we become blinded to signs that connotes danger. We never actually know where we stand until we take a good fall.

Sometimes Falling is not fatal, it's a part of life's programming to help us understand the cosmos at large. A fall reveals what was never true all along, and it help an individual know the position he stands not just among friends but in life as a whole

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A man who was afraid he had married a woman who was after his gold pretending to suffer bankruptcy. Before her eyes different calls came in to announce a misfortune that had happened to him. For the first few days she tried to stand by her man but as days went by she started to lose faith in him and ended up settling for someone who she believed was doing well, it was only until then did he realize he had married a lady who couldn't endure with him in times of suffering and lack. Even though his fall was a pretense it made him realize where he stands in her life. Sometimes Falling is not as fatal as we think, sometimes it helps us understand where we stand.



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Falling is not fatal, It's also a part of the course of the school of life!

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Failures are part of life. Unfortunately, today's society makes them look horrible and at all cost avoidable so people supposedly live without suffering. But, at last, this no-failure scheme is more harmful than any other.

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That's true. We only become stronger through failure

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You can say that again
Sometimes, all you need to win is to just fail. That's why we must not be afraid to fail or fall because in it, lies our success
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That's true, it's true failure we know what works and doesn't work

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There are many success that at the end makes no sense without a single failure!
Thanks for the post.

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That's true, they're always stories that makes our breakthrough inspiring

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Life is really complicated, hehe
We are many a time surrounded by the people who are not really interested in us but the goods we possess
It is well o

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Failure is an integral part of growth, one who falls and gets back up is much stronger than he who never fell.

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That's true. The more we fall and rise, the stronger we become

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Failure is apart of life, it makes you stronger, and also gives you something to look back to or should I say a story to tell someone.
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Yeah, there's always this success story that stands out after failures

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I think Failure is an important aspect of growth. Sometimes it is abouy how we are able to stand up after a fall

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Yeah, failure is a final part in a man's growth

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The idea of the vulnerability of those who don't fail is so true and I relate to it so much. Having said that you are a naughty boy for making the poor lady be a gold digger :)

Cheers from a fellow #dreemerforlife

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A person who has not experienced failure is bound to make lots of mistakes. There is no success without failure and there is no failure without the actions to become successful.

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It is always like that. We look down on everything bad that happens to us, not knowing that it is part of the perfect plan for us to grow and learn. Life must be lived with joy. That is what we are here for.

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Exactly, someone once said, what makes life beautiful is the losses and wins

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A fall is good when we dare to get back up and it is through which we could get stronger and better.

At times in life, it's good to play such games but also be careful because some of them make us lose the best people around us because they will feel their trust was tampered with.

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That's true.

Even though it helps us know where we stand

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If I’m being real, it’s in the nature of humans to not want to be with people during their difficult times.
So I understand the woman for doing what she did. I feel like that’s honestly one of the realistic things that makes us humans. Everyone wants to be in the winning team

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I agree. Failure is indeed a part of life, sometimes it is needed in order to know where we truly stand.

Thank you for sharing this.

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One thing I keep saying, your true friends will stick with you through thick and thin. Hard times will reveal the true nature of those that claim to love you.
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Exactly... We know our true friends only in difficult times

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Lol, again like i have been screaming... Any man that will test me with money?? I will fail. I will fail with my full chest o, so better not ruin a beautiful thing that we have because you are looking for what is not looking for you.

But then again, if the man is someone who has contributed heavily into my growth and has invested in me to become better? I will stand by him through thick and thin to make sure the favour is returned. Otherwise?? Otilo o

Because in the real sense of things, no one wants to suffer, it's all about survival.

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🤣 Are you related to abenad?

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Dey like o… It will interest you to know that she answers the English version of my name 😃😌

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You are right. Falling does help us to see things clearly. It helps us to know who is truly for us.

But I do have to say that I do not really like men who act poor to someone they claim to love just to know if she'll stay by them. I hope I don't find myself in such a situation because I'll leave the man. A relationship founded on lies can never stand well.

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Hahaha what about the saying you never really know who is for you until you're in trouble? They were actually married

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