Sometimes I wonder if she is human

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A relationship is lovely, fun, and filled with happiness when you are with the right person.

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The right person is someone who loves you for who you are, who loves your flaws, and who sees perfection in your imperfections, It is rare to see such people, everywhere is full of users, people who are in a relationship for their own selfish benefits.

Do not let anyone use your head or play with your heart, There is what we call Instinct and most time it is never wrong especially when it comes to someone you love, Whenever your instinct tells you someone doesn't love you or your partner is cheating on you, do not ignore it because most time our gut is always right.

Some people know the truth but they keep hoping their partner will change, so they remain in the toxic relationship hoping for a miracle but the fact is that it will only get worse, patience won't make someone who doesn't love you start loving you, their heart is somewhere else and you will only be disrespected for sticking around with them.

I feel blessed with my partner and it felt like yesterday when fate brought us together.

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I won't call it love at first sight but I was attracted to her the first time I saw a video of her on a friend's WhatsApp status and I shoot my shot by asking her to connect us, luckily for me, she likes me too and that was how we became friends, we spent weeks trying to know each other better through calls and messages, the late night chat and calls were sweet memories, I get to know about her likes and dislikes, she was my kind of girl and I was the kind of man she wants, we were already vibing as lovers before I proposed to her so without wasting any more time, I asked her out and she accepted and that was the beginning of our love life.

I am the kind of person who loves my privacy and doesn't like to be around people that much, I like being alone and I thought I wouldn't like to have her around that much but I was wrong, I love her presence and want to see and be with her all the time, she completes me

She reminds me of my mother when I was young, those days without worries because I knew my mum was always there to help me out, She has taken that spot, no more worries about what I am going to eat, she is in charge and also takeS care of all other things, all I just do now is eat, go to school, work, play with her and sleep... PERFECTO

She is loyal[my favorite of all virtues], respectful, caring, protective, supportive, helpful, communicative[with me], cheerful, loving, and also lovable that sometimes I wonder if she is Human.

She has her flaws too, it is that thing we call mood swing, so one morning I woke up planning to make my entry for the hive learners prompt and I needed to use my image, I checked on her on the bed and realized her eyes are opened, so I called her to come and snap me which she did but I realized she started misbehaving after that, she didn't talk to me, and when she finished cooking also, she served our food in a different dish and we normally eat together so I know something was wrong but I didn't want to be too fast forward, I act like it is nothing, so somehow I had a reason to call on her and she was like I should not talk to her, I drew her closer to me and ask her what happened because I can't think of anything I did wrong.

That was when she said I offended her, I disturbed her sleep in the morning, that I woke her up to snap me, no good morning or anything, I was shocked because her accusations were funny, her eyes were wide opened when I called her to come and snap me, I had to apologize to her for disturbing her sleep lol.

This is the kind of partner we all deserve, someone who makes us feel loved, someone we can trust with our heart knowing they will care for it like their own. the moment you start doubting the love your partner has for you is the moment you need to figure out the truth or take a walk.!

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How do you know if your partner loves you

Love your presence: Someone who loves you will always want to be around you, they will prefer spending time with you than with their friends, so if your girlfriend spends more time with her friends and you have to drag and beg before seeing her, just know you are alone in the relationship.

Communicative: Don't be fooled by the statement she doesn't know how to chat and that is why she doesn't chat with you much, there is no girl that doesn't know how to chat, so if your partner is not communicating well with you, just know someone else has their attention, ladies and gossip are 5 and 6 and the best person they love to gossip with is who they love, if she loves you, she will always tell you about those guys asking her out and other interesting things happening in her life.

Always happy around you: She will always be happy around you, trying new things with you and she will even find your boring jokes amusing, but if she is always aggressive and harsh to you, or always displeased at you, she may just be using you to pass away time and waiting for her Mr. Right.

Satisfied with what you offer: A partner that loves and sees the future with you won't overbill you, she will be pleased with whatever you get for her and won't ask for things that will inconvenient you, People call them understanding girlfriend and trust me if you have such a partner, she deserves everything when you finally become who you want to be in life. If she is always asking for this and asking for that and the moment you are unable to fulfill her demands, she starts giving you attitude, my man walk away!*

Being with the right partner makes everyday fun in a relationship and it is better to stay single than to be in a toxic relationship where you are not valued or wanted.

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It is worthwhile to know that we found what i can call your missing rub. As you mentioned love is good only when you are with the right person. Many people are in toxics relationship, some have lead to brutal murder.

No one is perfect that is the factor that played out with you girlfriend or potential spouse. You just have to manage her and help her get through with it.

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The rate of toxic relationships nowadays is alarming, people get into a relationship with someone who is heart broken and the person ends up hurting the other and it goes on like that...

yea no one is perfect and I do not really have a problem with her mood swings, I just let her be but I make sure whatever the reason is get known and solved before we sleep.

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your last paragraph caught my attention, that is the best approach to it. Everything should be resolved before you guys go to sleep.

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You have sweet memories with your lover🙂. I am not going to say many things here because when it's about relationship I just try to learn because tomorrow or later I will need it for sure 😅. I liked the memories you shared. .
!LUV

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Thanks, man! love is beautiful when we are with the right person

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Damn! Love is a sweet with the right person, I have seen true love here or should I say I have read?

Look at me smiling like a fool reading through this love story😄

And all these four nuggets you shared are very important, they will help to know whether a person thoroughly loves or not

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lol

what love can not do doesn't exist, It even made Edy drop a comment on my post. Yea those signs are important, thanks dear

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I sometimes wonder that what if I change myself for others to be loved. But then what? What they will love about me? The changing material ? Which is not actually me.
The real love is really the same which you have mentioned with the help of pearly words.

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even if you change, it could only be for a short period of time and your real self will still be known as time goes on, it is better to be you and let the person who love you for being real come into your life than to fake it and make yourself uncomfortable.

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Hahaha, it’s good to see that you understand it’s okay for women to have mood swings. Some men don’t really pay attention to that.

Who would have thought our Burl was head over heels in love.🫢 Sounds like we need to organise a wedding ASAP.

In this era no one needs to force conversations. From the word go, you know if this guy or lady is interested in you. The vibe alone they give you says it all, if they don’t match your energy just move on.
Thanks for sharing with us love doctor.🫢

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lol love Doctor Ke

thanks nhaji😄, and you are right, ones you notice the vibe is not there, it is the right time to walk away, no point in forcing things💪

and we cant really help you girls with your mood swings, the best thing to do is leave you alone till you are yourself again lol

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Love is a beautiful feeling and everyone deserves to be loved. Just as you stated earlier in the post, the right person is someone who loves you for who you are, who loves your flaws, and who sees perfection in your imperfections.

These days, a lot of people are in a relationships for their own selfish reasons and what they stand to gain.

So, if you are r blessed with someone who genuinely loves you then you should be grateful to the universe for sending such a person your way.

I am happy you found true love.

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yea, you just said it all, many people date for selfish reasons and that is why most relationships do not last...

Thanks iskabos😄

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Being with the right person comes with a different level of peace. You know that your mind is at rest and all you have to do is ensure that life Is made easier for the both of you.

You have a really admirable partner and such people are very rare to find. You have sharp eyes and sharp Instincts too😅

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thanks, wongi chen😃, everyone deserves such a partner.

I guess my eagle's eyes is doing well

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I need such eyes please😄

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Wow! Wow!
So; we're not together anymore? 😞 I'm really sad....
Ahah, I am joking and you know it 😉 By the way ; I am really, really happy for you lovely friend that you're in pure love. That's just wonderful! 😇
Enjoy it and make a new world of secure for this wonderful woman who deserve your love 💞
Big Hugs with my entire sympathy my lovely best friend of Hive 🤗
I already know your questionings, so ...... I really promise! I will come this week on Discord.

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oh my my , thanks dears!

alright i will be expecting you on discord

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Love is indeed a very beautiful feeling.
Aww, I couldn't help but smile while reading through your post.
Exactly. No girl is shy with her favorite person.

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lol yea, when a girl is in love, they do a lot of things with the person they love

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It is lovely to read that you found the right person to complement you. You know when that happens because it feels right - it is a click and more. Good that you take time to communicate-it is so important.

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Well you've said it all but as time goes on sometimes these signs can no longer be relevant to see if your partner loves you or not. They might love you but still doing one of these signs and it becomes doubtfull

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you mean they might be in love and not do one of the signs? obviously everyone is different, they cant do all, and also in the long term, love enough isn't enough, commitment also matters

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Yahhh that is it, they might be in love and still do one or two of the signs, but what will keep them back is the commitment and sacrifices

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True l is sweet, real and pleasant when you are with the right person.

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Lol this story is very interesting I just was smiling scrolling through the story🥰 nice!!!!!!!!!!!

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😁😁😁😁😁Burl you have really took out your time to study my gender very well you are right no girl is shy when they are truly in love, and we are five and six with gossip🤣🤣🤣 agree with you 💯
You made my day with this story ❤️

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