The Journey: It Started With Fixing Her Computer.

Coincidence is one thing in life that we can't miss. Sometimes, when it hits us, we cry so hard wishing we met those people or got in touch with that thing earlier. And other times, we bawl our eyes out wishing we never did.

Weddings are fun most times, but marriage is the real deal because it is a sacred journey between two beings who have been joined together with a vow. A deep-rooted connection that reminds them they have to be there for each other at all times no matter the situation.

Sadly, we have seen lots of divorce cases that are truly disheartening to the upcoming generations when it comes to love. It just seems like the word "love" is farfetched. It's just a thing that happens in fairy tale movies. But is it? If we are to look at divorce cases in the world, we will get a 98% answer that it is. And right now, we are here to look at the remaining 2 rare percentages of people left in our world who have stayed together despite the challenges that arise.

These 2% are real heroes who inspire newly wedded and the next generation that there's indeed love in our world. And, that we can find ours amongst the billions of people in the world.

And, this is what brings us to @bozz and @mrsbozz love story. After the interview with Mr.bozz, I got to know more about the couples and how they met. And, it is more like in the movie. It is interesting to say that how they met was just so thrilling. Hehe. As the "The journey started with computer fixing!"

Gosh, I am literally screaming right now. So, let's get inspired.

How They Met.

In Mr.bozz words, they both met in the public school district, where they both worked. Mrs.bozz is a social worker in one of the elementary schools while Mr.bozz was the director of technology.

And as fate would have it, Mr.bozz happened to be in a position where he had to fix Mrs.bozz's computer, and that was when he got stuck in her dashing beauty. It was at this moment that he made up his mind to know her better.

Although she didn't first give him the space because she thought he was a jerk, as Mr.bozz said, adding that he was known to be gruff and straightforward sometimes at work.

But love is a beautiful thing because they finally started talking with the friends vibe before the need for dating sets in seeing how they both perceived what they wanted in life.

Next Thing On The Agenda.

This is where coincidence sets in as October seems to be the next celebrated love month apart from February as Mr.bozz's parents got married in this month, too. How awesome. And, it has been a crazy ride for Mr. and Mrs.bozz after they tied the knot of marriage in a place not too far from where they lived with about 100 guests in arrival.

Fifteen good years have passed, and these duos still got their back. They have a dog named Jovi who is 14 years old, and they have this great love for their nephews and nieces as they enjoy watching them play sports.

Also, they both love camping and trying new places out. It is incredible seeing how these couples, though married for 15 years, still enjoy time together and explore the world together. Always working together and till this moment, they still work at the place they met themselves which is very romantic.

How They Settle Conflict.

No one is perfect. There's nothing like the perfect couple. Everyone has their ups and downs, but the fact they are both willing to work it out makes things easy to solve.

According to Mr.bozz, whenever conflicts arise, they both talk them through. He spoke on communication and being open-minded by having heart to heart discussion with your partner, which I agree to.

Also, he stated that the "mentality of assuming your partner knows what you are thinking instead of saying it is very wrong". Don't assume. Instead, have a discussion on how you are feeling to your partner and keep each other updated.

Advice.

Do not rush! It is as simple as that. Don't rush into married life. Although I know emotions can be so hard to tame at times, we should bear in mind that we are going through a life journey. We need to be emotionally, physically, spiritually, and intellectually okay to a very big extent before we hop in. There will be nothing like wanting space after some months or years or saying you need to go to your parent's house.

You will both become the runner of your homes, and however you both intend on building it, it will bring that result. There are lots of things that need to be thought about before venturing into marriage, and finance is a very big part of it.

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The truth is that there's love out there. We just need to start by showing love to the world. If @bozz and @mrsbozz can stay married, so can you. It takes a lot more than courage to start this journey. Don't just think about the wedding alone. Have a good thought on marriage, too.

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Images were gotten from @bozz with permission to go.

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_{This is my entry to Dreemport last week's challenge on love month. I had an incredible amount of fun joining in. I am proud to be a #dreemer.}

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Still yours truly,
Balikis.

Thanks for reading.

Peace be unto those who crave it and more to those who chase it away.