All You've Got To Do.

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There's always an easy way to happiness. All we've just got to do is to free our minds from worry and truly breathe. Truly, life is busy, and 24 hours is barely enough to keep things in place. Truly, life can sometimes be a big pain in the ass that it changes our mood and our attitude to things around us. Truly, life can make a successful plan go down the drain and watch us beat ourselves with guilt, doubt, and worry.

And the truth is that we know these things about life. We know that there's a lot to living or being alive that meets the eye. We know without anyone telling us that things won't be all rosy in life because we have experienced numerous unspeakable things.

But if you don't know all these, I do know them because life has shown me a lot and I have acted on things in ways I shouldn't because I was angry not just at the doer but mostly at myself for allowing such things to take place. I have starved myself of being truly happy with a facade of happiness that didn't come from within.

However, after carefully evaluating myself, I realized there was a lot more happiness in me than I could imagine. I saw the beauty that surrounded me in the form of nature and music, and I healed... Well, I am still healing in some aspects.

I have come to realize that one does not need a huge thing to be happy, which is why happiness was easy to incorporate into my life with no stress. Being happy brought some necessary ideals to my life, which made me appreciate things more and truly find the guts to live life.

I stopped being scared for a long time, though it wasn't easy incorporating this into my life. But as they say, practice makes perfect, and as each day passes by with shocking revelation and life being life, I may sometimes feel down, but it doesn't last for long. Instead of beating down myself on what has already happened, I take it in and do the needful.

The practice of mindfulness came into place as I became aware of things that have happened and have a good thought about it. With some breathing exercise, I close my eyes, and the smile that comes after is never thought on. It just settles in, and in less than a minute, I absorb the energy around me and breathe out with a bigger smile. Doing this has become a daily routine to clear my mind and be more aware of my surroundings.

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Creating the time to walk around nature and view nature always gives that splendid feeling that can never be bought. It calms the mind and erases the stress of a millennium just by walking as the wind gently leads you on.

Also, listening to music and watching movies have always made the day more fun. There's the sort of unbelievable spice music adds to the soul, especially when the song played just fits the mood rightly. And there is a song that is ringing in my head as I write, and I present to you Cool by Aloha

Whenever this song plays, it brings a sweet memory to my life, which in turn gratifies my heart. The scene in the movie it is gotten from always making me laugh, and here's another clip from the same song

Let's see which one out of the two videos makes you smile. Hehe, the first one is a compilation of some scenes in the movie while the other is a karaoke.

Listening to songs like this brings happy tears to my eyes, and the fun part of it all is that I can't stay a day without listening to music. Just like I have stated at the beginning of this post;

"There's always an easy way to happiness. You've just gotta find your way."


Images used are mine, and the videos are gotten from #YouTube.


Still yours truly,
Balikis.

Thanks for reading and listening.

Peace be unto those who crave it and more to those who chase it away.



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Nature and music. One of humans greatest pathways to a world of bliss if consumed rightly. I love the sheer sincerity in your words and I do hope that you completely heal from everything still troubling you. Lots of !LUV sis.🌺

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Life can just happen to anybody, threatening one's very happiness or peace of mind. Reflecting on one's self is a sure means of finding happiness. The more we gaze upon ourselves, the more we develop strength from within. Good script here

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Yeah, the more we discover and develop that strength. Well said.

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You have found a recipe @balikis95. Music and the wonder of nature to incorporate happiness into your life.

"I have come to realize that one does not need a huge thing to be happy, which is why happiness was easy to incorporate into my life with no stress."

This is so true because as in my own life as I reflect, it's the small things that need to change to be truly happy. One thing you cite is no longer being afraid. This is huge because if you don't, you can't move forward in security and comfort. With me, it was finding the courage to say "NO" to people and things that overwhelmed and stressed me out.

Finding one's own way to a happy place and what it took to achieve it is a wondrous accomplishment. I'm so happy to hear you have done that and am continuing to find your way.

Thanks for sharing. Take care.
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Yes, I sure have. They perform magic to the soul. Hehe.

That's very right. It is nice that you found the courage to do what does not stress you.

Yes, it always is. Thank you so much for your kind words and for sharing part of your reflection as well.

Thanks for reading as well. And take care.

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Ah life life! life is a mystery, a pain in the ass, a squishy squash of all sorts. If you aren't careful it will mess you up big time and the painful part is that, it's not regretful of the ugly things it does. If you dare complain, it will throw more thrash at you. But on the flip side, life is beautiful and can bring you happiness if only you find out the best way to live it. Incorporating listening to music and appreciating the beauty of nature are some of the ways to help bring us happiness but true happiness lies within us.

You have written well, and I enjoyed the first song. The other one couldn't play.

Popped in from #dreemport

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Thank you so much for your comment. You've hailed life for it troubles and the beauty it brings after, and the squishy squash got me smiling. Haha. Life is terribly beautiful. Lol.

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I remember some weeks back, my friend did something and started laughing and I was like what was the point of what he did
And he said it makes him happy, and there it occurred to me that I haven’t even paid attention in the fact that little things could make me happy. I’m just so focused on the bigger things.

Passed through from #dreemport as a #dreemerforlife

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That's very good. The fact that he was happy with the little he did is superb. Yeah, we all are sometimes... haha

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Life is full of ups and downs.... today we might appear happy, and tomorrow, we may face a situation that will take away our happiness from us but then, its important to always seek for happiness, create it and live your life...nature and music and great combo while trying to create this happiness

#dreemerforlife

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Yes, life is filled with so much drama, and we never know when it'll be dramatic on us. And just as you've stated, we need to find our happiness regardless.

Tha ks for stopping by sweet Nkemkem. Hehe.

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Just get out into nature, get outside and look at the wonders of nature, that plant in the wall the spider crossing the road, that and music can lift any mood!

May your May be happy fluffy B!
#dreemerforlife

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That's right, Teng. You gerrit it completely. Thanks for stopping by amazing dreemer.

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Nature is a gift that brings healing and music is food for the soul. Knowing that we can easily find happiness in them is an experience we always desire. It's a journey and a process of transformation making these gifts part of our daily life experiences. I'm glad you found your way to these two gifts and how they bring you happiness.

I have always loved to admire the beauty of nature, but I was drawn closer to it and found out that a treasure lies in it. Music is life and it keeps me going. Mindful practices help us get over those things that are a burden to us.

Thanks for sharing.

Popped in from Dreemport. Being a #dreemerforlife

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Yes, a sweet treasure lies in the presence of nature. It is so wonderful and healing just like you've done, and music goes well with it as they both bring heaven to our doorstep.

Tha sk for stopping by dreemer.

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