RE: Sam’s Hangout #120 - “HYPER-INDEPENDENCE”

So the thing is that, some people do not actually count been hyper-independent as a problem. It's just their personal trait and policy.
They want to do things on their own and not basically because of their past traumatic experience with people either they've had one or not simply because they own to such title of being hyper-independent

I am independent person and I know how it feels actually sorting things by yourself, the whole stress, sole responsibility and honour that comes with it to actually solve your problems yourself but I can't claim to be the HYPER part because I seek for help at the point I feel like it is overwhelming or that I need support of which I don't think is bad of any other person to do if they are willing to.

I can say I had the trait right from time but I was able to build more on it to become firm because of how I've seen people mock others behind them simply because they seek for their help and support. So it took me time to know the right people to seek support from whenever I need one.

The times I feel like it's hard to ask for help is when I know that the circle of people I seek help from is actually not stable and facing their own issues as well, then it becomes an issue for me confiding in a new person whom I'm not sure is genuinely ready to listen.

Some will be thinking in their minds like that that I have trust issue 😀

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