Love to take the risk

Life is beautiful and we all want to be happy in life. Trying to be happy in life is very natural. None of us think of spending our life alone. At some point we all consider about being relationship. People consider relationships seriously before they enter a new phase of their life. Some people love to stay in relationships, and some love to stay far from relationships as they prefer to remain single in life. Both people have their own ideology for choosing their option. Are you curious to know which I prefer most?

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Those people who stay single say that they don’t need to think about anyone in such a case. Their single life is life without having anything to worry about and it’s given one person freedom as they don’t need to sacrifice anything, especially their pride. They don’t need to answer their actions to anyone as there is no one to ask them questions. They don’t need to deal with various kinds of stress and complications that a person faces while staying in a relationship. They feel they are like a free bird and going to a relationship is like putting a shackle on them. So, they naturally don’t want to go on a relationship. Besides, at the present time people can’t trust anyone easily and because of that reason people are afraid of starting a relationship as trusting their companion is not so easy. Besides for the male person being in a relationship it also brings additional financial cost for them according to culture which is also a reason many are not interested in relationship.

For those people who want to stay in a relationship think about it differently. They think one person should have someone with whom he can share their life’s worries, burden and happiness. The person can be the inspiration for a person and work as a support during the struggling time. A partner can give emotional support and make a person believe in himself. Staying in a relationship means a couple can share their responsibilities and worries with each other. They can heal each other’s souls. Even if all world stays against one person, the person believes that there exists one person who trusts the person can make it happen. This is something that can boost anyone. Staying in a relationship with the right person means life is like a paradise and it’s enough to enjoy the beauty of life.

I think both kinds of mindset exist and both kinds of people are right from their own position as experience is different for each person. For the current time I am mostly focusing on securing my financial fund for my future and I believe that at the present time I should not take the risk of pressure for a relationship and so I feel it’s good for me to stay single at present. But in long term I feel staying in a relationship is something I would cherish more as I am making money to enjoy my life and I must need a companion to enjoy life together. I don’t want to spend boring single life for long time. Even if there is risk, I would love to stay in relationship but before that I want to secure a financial backup which may take 1-2 years.