If I am being honest, you see the way I recharge is not the regular kind of way people think of it, Some people feel better by just being around their friends, gisting ,playing and laughing, Some will go out, do one or two stuff to distract themselves, But you see me? I am the type of person that just wants quietness, pure silence and also space.
I always say it that I am like a phone that just needs to be plugged in one corner somewhere and just left alone to charge, no noise, no talking, just peace, and once I start feeling drained or overwhelmed, the best thing I can give myself is that little quiet time, and I do not even do anything serious , sometimes I just sit down, or maybe lie down, or sleep. That is how I come back to life.
Yeah...for me , I just sometimes want to be just alone, like I do derive joy being alone at some point, because getting through the day is never easy ,so those moments just come and you see me , I lock the doors, shut myself off from people and I am just there, alone with my own thoughts.
That is my own version of resetting.
Then there will be some days when I just feel like I am all over the place, you know those kind of days when you are doing plenty but it feels like you have done nothing?.... And like your mind is everywhere and nowhere at the same time?... Yeah that kind, That is just the moment I know my whole system needs a really hard reset.
So what I just do is , i log off from everything, I mute notifications, like I put my Phone on DND, I clear chats I donāt want to open, and sometimes delete apps if I need to, sometimes i put my phone on airplane mode and I just disappear small, see it's not because I am angry or anything o, nah....,but because my brain just needs to rest , you know like how your phone hangs and you just have to restart it that is just me, restarting my whole self
Somehow I have gotten used to knowing when my body or mind is getting overwhelmed, I donāt wait till I am completely drained out before I take a break , because once I start feeling like I am snapping over little things or zoning out too much, I know that it is time to pause.
Then there is the part I always look forward to which is music, If peace and silence are the charger, then the music is the current that runs through it, My playlist knows me well that once I plug in my earphones, it is like the whole world fades away small small. Whether I am feeling low or just tired, music just helps bring me back.
Sometimes I do not even play anything loud just soft, calming songs , see i can just lie on the bed, close my eyes, and just let the music play. It is always like the songs know what I can not say out , and I do find peace in that.
So yeah , I am not someone that needs crowd or plenty activity to feel better at all, I recharge in a very simple way give me my quietness, that helps me reset, and play me good music and thatās enough.
And I have learned not to feel weird about it at all because it is what works for me.
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We all have our way of recharging, which is okay. As long as it hit the goal of not being overwhelm. Nice piece
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You are right by saying this.
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Oh this made me hug my knees to my chest for a minute, and just go oof. Here's to always finding those little moments to recharge and sit by ourselves quietly in a corner somewhere.
As for music, YES. Do you know the #threetunetuesday initiative here on Hive by @ablaze? You might enjoy it :) Thanks, I enjoyed your post!
Thank you for taking time out to read here. I have seen some blogs for the three tunes Tuesday, I have never had to jump on it , but I think I might do so now
Thanks for pointing that out
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We are all wired differently, there are people that like noise and always want people bathing and there is us that want to spend most of our time all alone.
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I was just smiling while reading and I must say there was a lot of emotions back these words. Indeed, thereās just something about listening to music when stressed or tired. I donāt even think words can explain it.
𫵠you are right here sis. There are emotions that are truly behind these words .
Also I don't think words can well describe the peace music brings