IGNITING THAT SPARK

When it comes to what we see, it matters so much even though most times we try to ignore the significance of what we see physically. Well, there are some cases when that is needed but not in all cases. Particularly, when it comes to the things and people we attract to ourselves, our physical surroundings matters a lot. For example, for someone who enjoys living in a dark and dirty environment, they will most likely attract things that enjoy the dark and dirty environments. And we know things like that are not what we as humans should even associate ourselves with normally for a lot of reasons.

But for someone who always likes keeping their space bright and clean, they will also attract things that love things like that and in most cases they are good things. So when it comes to the influence our physical surroundings has on our emotional life and relationships, I think they are a lot. Our emotional life is one that can easily be affected by what we see and engage with physically. For me, I always notice how sluggishly I do things when my space is disorganized, stuffy and even smelly. I don’t strive at all and until things are sorted out, I’ll keep having mood swings and it’s really annoying.

Also, I have come to notice that when my space is clean, it makes friends want to be around me more because they will feel comfortable and welcomed unlike when my physical surrounding is messy and unattended to. You will just notice how they suddenly have things to do just to escape from that space with you. Like I said, when it comes to physical surroundings, it has to do more with like pairs attracts while unlike pairs repels. It is possible to have a dirty or disorganized surroundings and still have people that enjoy being around you because they are similar to you. And vice versa.

When our surroundings are clean and well organized, it gives us this sense of calmness and peace. But when it’s cluttered and too busy, that’s how we will also feel unsettled and anxious about literally everything. Our physical surroundings plays a big role in boosting our moods and atmosphere. So depending on how the things around us look, it can determine our response to things too.

My physical surrounding also boosts my self esteem when it’s clean and organized. I feel fulfilled when the space I invite people to come share with me is in good condition all the time. This is one reason why I don’t appreciate uninvited guests but to fix that, I just try to be ready all the time as much as I can. I feel confident when my physical surrounding is on point and that automatically boosts my relationship with the right people.

Like I mentioned before, keeping a cluttered physical space makes me feel lazy and slow while working or carrying out my tasks. Most times I just stop everything I’m doing and put things in order and that alone helps me achieve even more than I thought I’d be able to accomplish.

I believe my physical surroundings affect a lot of things as pertaining to my emotional life and relationships and these are some of the major ones I can remember and share with you.

This is my #kiss and I hope it left my red lipsticks on ya cheeks. 😉

Thank you for reading through. ❤️