When Betrayal Happens

Marriage is a beautiful union between two imperfect persons that came together to create something beautiful and perfect. As we all know, problems are inevitable in marriages. Siblings fight, but come around later. Same thing is applicable in marriages except in serious cases where betrayal, cheating and adultery comes in, this might lead to separation, causing a fatal effect on the children.
Hello everyone, welcome to my blog. This week @hiveghana community gave three interesting topics to write on and the first one struck me because it's about Betrayal and looking at the condition of marriages today, I was moved to start with the first #prompt.

A couple that has spent a decade together is supposed to know each other well. They've spent long time together which is enough to understand each other, know what the other person likes and dislike. To me, they should be best of friends because a decade is such a long time.

When you know your partner well, you will know when something isn't right. Your partner starts behaving indifferently towards you, he's always distracted and or try to act sneaky when a call comes in. Those are signs that something is up and if left to chance, it would be a fatal outcome.

Do I think that I should sometimes check my partners phone? YES is the answer for me. In fact, we should be able to check each others phone and try to help each other maintain sanity.

Why I don't support being obsessed with checking ones partners phone as it could show distrust for one's spouse and it may not go well. I support occasionally checking and as I do so, I expect my husband to do the same as it strengthen the bond between us and the trust we have for each other. Some people are desperate out there and they would keep scheming to have their way not minding if what they are after would destroy other people's lives especially that of children.

To make sure it doesn't get to the point, we should sometimes check our partners phone and if we find anything that doesn't seem right, we don't want to keep quiet about it. It's better we discuss it and address the issue so that it doesn't linger and cause more problems in the future.

Our family is very important so we should do all that we can to protect it with all our might. We want to keep the fire of love burning in our home and remove whatever it is that tries to extinguish the light. We always want to have our children in mind and think about how every action we take can have adverse effects on them. This would help us to be logical when dealing with people and always put our family first before anything.

This is my entry to the @hiveghana prompt for this week - betrayal and I encourage you all to check out the community and pick a topic to write about. Thanks for stopping by my blog.

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