Behind The Facade, Comes The Unmasking.

Hello everyone, this is @graceze back here again with you all, sending down my pleasantries from this side hoping you all are doing perfectly fine? Well for today I would be participating on the contest topic which says that moment of realization and for me there has always been many that moment of realization even though it's not like from a role model but then that moment has always been dawning on me but for today I would be discussing this recent occurrences that I encountered with someone here in school and I hope we all learn something from it so stay tuned as you read with me.

I met someone or should I even put it that this someone met me because I was on my own when this person approached me, he is a he and that his name is Theophilus, same level with me but not the same department, we normally meet only during general courses where the class is large and one can be lost in such crowd, yes that's where or how we got to meet, he had earlier asked around about this me and the report he got was that this person is unapproachable in their words she's kind of proud, the level of people she walks with are not your kind of persons and all of that so that made him restrain alittle and watch, I got to know about this long testimony when we eventually started talking and this talking happened because he decided to approach me after some while and told me because of one or two reasons he needs a reading partner and he went further to say that for no just reason he wants to be friends with me and I was now like why this me? What did you actually see in me that made you say that? So that was how we got talking and so on.

How I started looking up to Theophilus was because from our little conversation I noticed he has a gift and it was not a gift that you can get from the market but a spiritual one, truly God is using this one he sees things about people and such person can attest that most of the things he's saying is actually true, yess he's a prophet which I got confirmation about so it made me close to him I always love to hear him talk because at that time I wasn't just hearing him talk I was hearing God through his vocals but to be sincere I didn't see him as a role model or even favorite person, I respected him because of that oil on his head and I was getting to know him so certainly those things would build up to a role model or anything.

So let me start with saying that nobody is perfect, no matter how flawless you think a person is there's a flaw somewhere that's why we are humans and not God, so yess he wasn't that perfect person but yet I was still there because I am not the judge of men but God is, but the turn off for me that when he started calling me 'Obim' at a time I decided to overlook it because I mean what else would have done then he started chipping in this little little quotes of 'i love you' and the first time he said it I asked what was the meaning of that and he said since we are christians anything we do or say must be inside Christ so he is in reference to the love of Christ, to the extent that he would want me to say it back anytime he says it and I would be like Jesus loves you too, it got to a time when he told me that he's sensing that I am the one he's going to marry and the question he asked was "as I the one or should he wait for another"

All those were a big turn off for and after that incident any other thing I heard from him was annoying and irritating, the high seat I had placed him before just dropped, it all just came crashing down like I would prefer you are straight with me and don't go cutting corners, there was even a time we has a misunderstanding and he was like saying I mean nothing to me, I was still a girl with alot of bargain that God is still trying to work on and all sort of things, I was now like 'ahhhhh' this is just a no no for me, so that was how I just started distancing myself from him for my own safety and sanity because this wasn't what brought me to school I know my drive and purpose, it's not this one that would cut that journey halfway.

There were more drama that happened than what I shared but I would love to drop my pen here, it's been so lovely doing this with you and I really appreciate you all.

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