Dealing with toxic people


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Cutting links with harmful relationships is part of self-care. Toxic people can cause tension, demoralisation, and discomfort, whether they're your partner, family member, or friend.

Here are some professional tips on how to terminate a relationship respectfully. Define clear boundaries with people nearby. Some guidelines:

There are ways to make leaving an unpleasant relationship easier. Accept that your relationship is unhealthy and move on. Reduce the time you spend with the other person and cease giving them control. Avoid saying anything that will make them feel defensive. However, it's crucial to recognise that some poisonous people won't change. This could be the situation if they're socially or emotionally incompetent.

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It's normal to feel pain while terminating a relationship, but you're more precious than any relationship you've had. Mental health is more important than a relationship or possessions. Long-term, you'll have more joy and peace.

Limits are typically considered crucial for healthy partnerships. Politely declining an unwanted request shows you're in charge and separate from them. This may seem cruel, yet it has many positive psychological effects. It will help you avoid people who could be professionally or emotionally harmful.

Setting boundaries will increase professional fulfilment and reduce stress. They'll improve your personal life, too. By setting limits, you'll avoid unnecessary stress, time waste, and relationship problems.

Separating from a loved one may be healthy. Separating from a loved one is difficult. Physical and emotional distance can assist. Taking time. This will require some time apart. Blocking someone on social media is one option.

Stopping communication with a loved one is the first step in creating distance. No more calls or texts. In addition, blocking their phone number and ignoring their texts is sensible. You can distance yourself without hurting the other person.

Avoiding fights with a loved one. There are ways to avoid potentially uncomfortable interactions with family. First, be specific. You must make your goals and different techniques clear. Second, own your part in the conflict and avoid making accusations. Third, don't blame a loved one for the conflict.

Avoiding conflict can hurt relationships. Avoiding it won't help. Avoiding difficult conversations can lead to alienation, resentment, and lack of connection. Your relationship will become less authentic as a result.

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As a student, you have written a very profound post especially since your first language is not English.

I find our insight into dealing with toxic people very interesting, especially at your young age, have you dealt with a lot of toxic people? What was the experience like and what effect did it have on you?

In particular a lot of the 'toxic people' you mention in your post are 'loved ones'. Normally people wouldn't refer to our loved ones as toxic people, and toxic people certainly wouldn't be classified as our loved ones. It sounds like you are talking from personal experience here and it would be lovely to hear more about this topic from you as you have made such an interesting start to it.

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This is a tough subject but I appreciate that you are talking about it. Some people don't even see toxicity as they've lived with it most of their lives but once it is revealed it is an ugly truth. Some of my friends are so certain in their opinion or ways that if there is any opposition they are quick to try and squash it down with ferocity.

This Bruce Lee quote:

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and his method of 'Be like Water' has helped my tremendously in regards to toxic participants.

Thank you for posting and I wish you well.

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Speaking of toxic people, you stole your post from a few days ago from another Hiver -

https://peakd.com/hive-155221/@traciyork/re-shekusheye-rmw7h0

Downvoting this as a warning to people that you've plagiarized.

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We don't appreciate or support plagiarizers.

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