Never ignore the red flags in a toxic relationship
Many people are in a toxic relationship, they know it yet they find it difficult to leave because of the other benefits they enjoy in the relationship.
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When a girl is in love and she is being taken care of by her man, she starts to glow and people will notice! Happiness and laughter are natural medicine that keeps us healthy and make our skin glow.
When a man is in a relationship with a wise woman who loves him, he will grow financially because she will help him to manage his resources, pray for him, and support him but if he is with the wrong woman especially one that is materialistic, it could be the end of him, he could lose everything and eventually the woman would leave when there is nothing left to stay for.
Love is blind, people in love don't see any flaws in their toxic partners, and if people tell them, they end up giving excuses on behalf of their partner... someone might tell you ``hey, your partner does not love you, she doesn't call you, and your reply would be she is not good with calls, sh prefer texting... she doesn't text you, oh she is busy, she gets mad at you easily, oh she inherited that from her mother, she is temperamental too... so many silly excuses for them which is because you love them, in fact, you don't see anything wrong with the way they treat you until they dump your sorry ass.
There is a story of a man I can never forget, he was into crypto too, and back then in 2017, he had gone far more than us newbies and he was making a good amount of money until a Jezebel entered his life... He met this girl on the blockchain too... Mr man was in love with the girl while the girl was only in love with what he could provide for her... The relationship started and since Mr was rich, he didn't mind spending on her...
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People close to him noticed that the girl was not in love and they tried to warn him but one of the hardest people to love are those in love all advice and warning fell on deaf ears, months later they got married...
The lady's thirst for materialistic stuff doubled and Mr man kept spending, sooner he had a problem with his online job and the money stopped flowing, which means he was only left with the ones he had earned, so he needed to improvise and watch the way he spends but the lady would not hear of that, she still demands and because the man could not meet up even though he was still trying his best to get what she demands, it just was not enough for her and they started having issues... The man kept drowning and there was nobody to save him...
If you keep spending more than what you earn, at some point, the money will finish and this what was happened to the man as expected, the lady filed for divorce as she knew the man couldn't fund her extravagant lifestyle anymore, that was how a financially okay man became someone broke.
I learned a lot from their story, never try to impress anyone with money because in the end, if you can't give them again, they will leave, any relationship built on money can never stand the test of time...
No matter how much you love your partner, if two or more people tell you something, you should think twice, there is a truth in what many people are saying, this doesn't mean you should act on it but do your investigations!.
Lastly never ignore red flags, no matter the love you have for someone... A materialistic girl is a red flag, she will drain you and leave you empty.
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Red flags are real and it takes two ignorant lovers not to notice it. I honestly think high rate of broken marriages would have been prevented if they never neglected warning signals.
it takes only one ignorant lover, cos it is one of them deceiving the other and the person deceiving the other knows what he or she is doing...
Even in this 21st century, people are still blinded by love. Love is a beautiful thing but that doesn't mean it shouldn't be handled with sense.
Some people lack the sense when they meet someone who sweeps them off their feet thereby ignoring the red flags they see.
This was really helpful sir.
most people in love are like this, that love just makes their senses dissappear, only people who have been heartbroken many times are usually unconscious when they found another person they love
Yeah! You are totally correct,
Such people have a lot of trouble later on who consider the relationship as a joke and pass the time and play with the other person's heart. He is troubled but later he also becomes sensible but for the person who is cheating, the troubles start again.
yea he or she might suffer in his next relationship after toying with the heart of one who truly loves him/her
Yeah you are right.
The case of each relationship is different and sometimes people may have wrong judgment also. But at the same time, I think we should not trust anyone blindly also. So, If anyone says that my girlfriend doesn't like me, then I should need to take it in mind and I need to be cautious in this case. The story you shared here occurs maximum time. So, it's better to stay alert.
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agreed.!
It’s always better to date someone like you
Someone who will be able to manage what you have with you be it a man or woman
Yeah, money makes relationship more interesting in terms of dates and all but money isn’t everything
that is difficult for most people, poor guys want sophisticated ladies that they can't take care of, and ladies also want rich men and end up cheating on their spouses... so many factors contributed to the many failed relationship of nowadays