Hard to deal with old people but they are important
Old people are a family's biggest asset. We learn a lot of new things from them. Many times, I have felt that we get to learn a lot of things from them, but are we ready to spend some time with them to do all these things? When we are young, we are busy running around. If we don't spend time with our old people, there is no point in growing up and thinking about the missed opportunities we had.
It can be hard to deal with old people, but it is important to have them in the family. The main reason is that when we are stuck, they help us out with many things. We will not be able to gain all the knowledge we require. If we interact with people who have already done that, we will get a lot of experience and we should be able to do everything without any problem.
Remember that we also get old one day
In India, the culture is to live with your parents no matter what. In some places, people leave their parents and live their own lives. If, after marriage, things are not working out between the wife and mother, they immediately decide to go and live the life alone. What people forget here is the fact that they get a lot of advantages when living in the same family. It is hard to make some people understand these advantages. They will see it only if they experience it. Some people are lucky to have a joint family, and the biggest advantage is that the parents take care of their grandchildren. This gives parents more time and space.
We have to remember that we will also get old someday. We might look young today, but this will not be the case forever. We will get old someday, and that's when we will realize the way we treated old people when we were young. It is a very common thing. When the blood is young and energetic, it will not realize this fact. Some people leave their parents in old-age homes and stay away from them. I don't know how popular it is in other countries, but in India is a shame that many people are doing that. The one thing they forget is that they also get old, and what if their children also do the same thing to them?
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The problem is when elders get dementia, that really is frustrating and tiring... Living with parents becomes heavy when you have your independence tough
Hmm, I still like India culture because it gives rooms for the married couple to live with their family. In this part of the world; our society usually terms it another thing in the sense that they would say the married couples are not responsible.
In fact, the best way to learn and take good care of our ageing parents is to live with them. It fosters unity and ensures long-term commitment amongst family which is a good thing.
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It's exactly like that, now we see that as people get older, they say the same thing over and over again, and this thing is considered unpleasant, and young people don't like it, but one should never be rude to their elders.
A really beautiful and realistic topic, Indeed, older people are the family’s treasure and the foundation of wisdom and experience we benefit from a lot.
In Indonesia, our culture is still sandwich generation
which is need to take care.
yeah it is really hard to understand the old generation since they will be slow learning and lost to the update of tech. But, Eastern culture still teaches respect the elder. I feel that too.
with grey hairs comes great wisdom. As you said, many opportunities pass us by because we chose to be too busy. Old people can seem a burden but the truth is, their presence is an asset for those who are wise
The way old people turn babies at old age really needs to be studied because it's just intriguing.
i disagree when you said that we can get experiencie from them because the experiences are not transferable and the only that you can get from talk with them are advices in the other side they can teach you or show you how do some things like cock :D
We definitely need to actually adore our old people because they are the ones that will shape us to become much more better
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