HEALING FROM PAIN AND TRAUMA.

We have all been hurt in several ways and if we all decide to go around hurting others because of a pain we have refused to let go or forget , that would make the world a cruel place and wickedness will keep striving, everyone should be held accountable for their action , because we all have choices and there's no excuse to hurting others.
Most persons decide to dwell in the past, and continue with an habit of passing on trauma and that's practical wickedness, everyone deserves to be held accountable for their actions, regardless of what triggered the action , life will always offer us other choices, it's our decision to choose what we want and what's good for us .
There's no excuse for hurting innocent people, because of a past you have choose not to forget.

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For instance; Mr. A caused you pain, doesn't mean Mr. B will also cause you pain, they are both different persons, with different upbringing, intentions and plans towards your life, your past trauma doesn't give you the license or full right to hurt other people and pass on a trauma.
The issue of passing traumas is the reason I advise people to heal after a painful experience, before embarking on another experience.
For instance, if you have ever been in an abusive and life threatening relationship with a bad person, the moment you are out, every other person that approaches you at that point can easily get you paranoid , you get scared of getting to know people too , the best remedy and first step of healing is to stay away from relationship and get to know people on a surface level, because if you get into a relationship without healing, you might end up hurting others deliberately, because you feel it's bound to happen again, you might even feel you protected yourself, but then you just successfully passed the same trauma to another person.
So healing is necessary, and the best way to avoid passing trauma.

Also it's very risky to not hold people accountable for their actions, it will only give access or gateway to more pattern of individuals hurting each other, and that's because they will be confidence enough that they won't be held accountable, because they have a traumatic past, meanwhile, that's not an excuse
So, I believe people should be held fully accountable for their actions, no room for excuses because you made your choice and you should be able to face the consequences of your choice and actions.
If we all begin to pass trauma, then the world will be so unsafe, we will all seek therapy for help.
Also, the ability to accept your wrong, is also a part of growth and healing, if more people are held accountable, it will only trigger growth and healing among those who have decide to keep passing trauma.

It's natural for humans to feel the need to revenge, especially during the first phase of healing, but then if you must pass the trauma, you should hurt the person that inflicted the pain on you , not an innocent person.
Personally, I see people who go about hurting others, especially innocent persons, due to a past trauma as wicked persons, it's an act of wickedness. Going about to hurt innocent people is an act of revenge, and it's considered as being wicked, so it shouldn't be tolerated.

Forgiveness is also a choice, and forgiving people who made you go through a trauma, is a choice too.
Everyone deserves to be forgiven, so I believe that people can be forgiven, regardless of the trauma they caused others.

In conclusion, going about hurting innocent people, due to a past trauma is bad and unacceptable, and such people should be held accountable regardless of their past trauma, they made their choice.

Thanks for reading ♥️

Vanilla 💗