Controlling Anger Before It Controls You

Hello everyone I be writing on this week prompt on Hive Learners.
Tempered is also know as anger lol it funny that there would be a prompt as such usually people with hot temper are not to be messed with.

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When you see one do as much as possible to avoid them because they can cause harm without even realizing what they have done. I have seen someone that went to separate fight between two hot tempered people and before you know it he lost one of his sight because one of them used bottle to hit him mistakenly.Ever since that day I realized that anger can destroy many things within few seconds.

In my own opinion, people with hot temper normally act before thinking. Small argument can turn into serious fight because they don’t know how to control their anger. Some people will later calm down and start apologizing after destroying things or hurting someone badly.

The painful part is that sorry cannot always repair the damage already done. Some people have lost friends, family members, relationships and even jobs because of anger issues.

Although some people use hot temper as excuse by saying “that is just how I am,” I don’t really think it should always be accepted. Yes, every human being gets angry sometimes because nobody is perfect, but when someone keeps hurting people again and again because of anger, then it becomes a serious problem.

Imagine someone beating their wife, insulting people everyday or causing harm outside and later blaming it on temper. To me that is not a good excuse because every adult should try to control themselves no matter how angry they are.

I also think many people with hot temper are passing through stress, frustration or personal problems. Some grew up in violent homes where shouting and fighting was normal, so they continue behaving that way outside.

That is why society should not only blame them but also try to help them. People need better anger management and they need to learn how to walk away from situations when they are getting too angry.

As a society, I believe we should teach children from young age how to control emotions and settle problems peacefully instead of violence.

Parents also need to lead by example because children copy what they see at home. Schools, churches and communities should also educate people more about anger and its dangers. Sometimes just talking calmly can solve problems better than fighting.

At the same time, people should also avoid provoking others unnecessarily because some arguments start from disrespectful words. But no matter the situation, violence should never be the answer.

A person with hot temper may think their anger makes them strong, but in reality lack of self control can destroy lives within seconds.
For me, the strongest person is not the one that fights the most, but the one that can control anger even when upset about it.

In my own opinion anger should be controlled not loose cause it could cause a lot of damage without releasing it and later end with regret.

Thanks for reading hope to see you again @mathewdaddywah blog.

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