Childhood Event Which Will Further Enhance The Society
Ranging from birth to death everyone have a story to tell which in most cases is peculiar to them. What makes everyone's story peculiar is the standard of life which the parents of the child is in or what happens at the society at that time but mostly it depends on the parents life. Everyone on this planet earth once existed inside a woman before he was finally brought forth to have the full existence as a full human. Whatever the case maybe there are things that should be part of everything we do if not on a daily basis but for a season as it goes a long way to determine lots of other things that may happen to the said individual.
One major thing I feel that everyone should just have a taste of it is the period of child parenting. Just yesterday while I was making plans for our team who left for an outreach to a village, one of the sisters told me about a woman from one of the villages we visited last year. She told me that her situation is so bad that most times she gives birth and don't even care about the kids even upto three weeks. She comes to them when she feels like and the kids are left with no option than to be fed with milk. You know life in the village, the kids may not have that access to baby milk but these industrial milk. In my heart I was just feeling for these kids and what they will grow to become if not for the mercies of God.
How I just wish that every parent will calm down to nurture the children for the first twelve months of their lives. Our society is just the way it is because many kids are left to be adults unduely, there no place of proper parenting at home and this has gone a long way in affecting the way things go on in our society today. The government on a daily basis make long speeches on how to reduce the effect of drugs and smoking, adverts being made which shows that parents burn up the destiny and aspirations of the children by all those, but most parents don't take that to heart.
Someone who grows with love and tendancce at heart in near future does better than someone who grows with hostility and was made to care for himself early not because the parents are no more but because they neglected what they need to do or they don't even understand their own responsibility maybe because of how they too where brought up.
Many parents are not ready to take the kids through this event because it is one that takes so long and demands lots of sacrifices as it takes one who is with the understanding to be able to give in to make the same event happen for his kids. A times we feel that we didn't grow that way, why should we even start it at first? Now does it make sense to continue with bad trends or better to correct it so that onwards things can be done appropriately.
What I have brought forth to you today are thoughts that have bothered me for so long and it serves as a response to this week's last edition prompt featured in hive learners community. Thank You for good reading.
Parenting is something that must be done properly else a significant impact will show tell on the child, just like the case of that woman you shared who abandoned her kids in the village.
Kids need attention, guidance and more.
It is so disheartening. Kids needs serious care and we should just be so deliberate about it. Thank You
This is so bad of that woman. Why will she bring them forth is she is not ready to take proper care of them? We need to give our children the best care ever to make them better people in the society when they grow up.
Thanks for sharing
Some people don't even think of any better thing for their kids. The woman needs to be taken to the correctional centew
Being a parent is an experience that not everyone is prepared for, and I believe that this type of education should be included as a mandatory subject in schools.
For example, I have not decided to be a father because I do not have what is necessary for it, that is why I do not have children, nor will I ever have them, at 57 years old I am happy that way.
Your example is interesting, but it's something I wouldn't do (be a father) =)
Hmmm, well..it is better not to bring kids than bring them and then not prepare for them. But you can adopt one get someone to care for them
I will never do it, I am not prepared to assume that responsibility, for that reason I have decided not to do it, it takes a lot of patience and enough economic base to provide what is necessary to that person and I can barely take care of watering a plant that I have, and sometimes I forget 😀
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I feel sorry for such kids too and i think everyone deserves child parenting as it's their right but some people can't do it properly 😕
And that's a major challenge over here. Thank you so much