Don't Spread the Pain

When we face painful events and hardships in life, we easily understand what pain feels like, we know what it is. In the process of going through a difficult situation, we are occupied with thoughts of getting past it and ending the pain.

In that vein, it becomes great hypocrisy to wish similar thing on someone else and it should be a punishable offence to execute it on someone else.

If the pain in question is an unlawful event, then the perpetrators both the initial person and the one transferring the aggression will all need to answer to their crimes.

When people experience trauma and decide to pass it on to others, they don just know what is at stake. They also want others to share in their pain, misery or suffering. It is an intentional distribution of evil which I consider a wickedness because they very well know how it feels.

We see such a thing in various aspects of life although some of them are not "crimes" in the context of the law but morally they are wrong. We see examples in the school system where a teacher or lecturer adopts methods that he was a victim of while in school. Either extorting from students, pay to pass or sex for grades and various other forms of corruption.

Some of them will say "we passed through the system like that, you will survive" or "it is for Ur own good, it makes you stronger or better"
The truth is that, a working system, a corruption-free system would be for the benefit of all, not just a few.

Personally speaking, if an individual causes me pain, it would be hard to forgive how much more if I realise that it was intentional. This pain will be multiplied tenfold if I realise that the individual that caused me this pain had experienced a similar situation but decided to let me endure what he did not enjoy.
My opinion of such a person would immediately take a nosedive into the ground. I would consider such a person to be among the worst people on the planet.

Forgiveness is something that is required for peace of mind and progress so it is very possible that even after the worst of crimes, one can still be forgiven but this is dependent on a lot of factors. It is not in the place of the evil one to decide if he will be forgiven or not hence it is better to not provoke someone than to hope on being forgiven because it is never a guarantee. There are people who bear grudges for the littlest crimes and people who forgive the worst of the worst.

Some people assume they will be forgiven and hence go about committing crimes and engaging in evil. They think saying "sorry" will be enough to wipe away their deeds and make them whole again. It is not so.
It is better to keep your hands clean than to look for ways to make amends.