Deadlocked if children sue their parents

Hello friends in the Hive Learners community everyone

I want to go back to forty years ago, where I was still young, of course there were various ways for a mother to discipline her children, I have to be honest with you where my parents disciplined their children in a harsh way so that a child could respect his parents, with the steps taken by my parents for me personally there is no controversial problem, I understand why my parents discipline their children in this way, not that my parents discipline their children with their hands or anything else, but they show their children that when they grow up a person is not too spoiled and cannot be independent, although there are many cases nowadays in my neighboring countries where a child sues his parents,I think this is one of the very ridiculous ideas if this law is passed will be speculation and violate the norms that have been established in the time of our ancestors.

I don't understand if a child can sue his parents even though sometimes there is a right for a child to sue his parents, but this is a very ridiculous thing for a child to sue his parents, try to imagine a mother who is pregnant with us for almost nine months in the womb with difficulty not only there, The struggle is not over, at the time of giving birth to Java, the bet is to save us, it means that if the ridiculousness of a child who is reckless demands his parents for various reasons, but there are some parents who deserve demands from their children if their parents often beat their children in a violent way I strongly agree if there is a child who sues his parents for strong reasons I think only a handful of parents are willing to make their children There are many news that are often circulating lately where there are often acts of violence from parents.

THE IMPORTANCE OF DISCIPLINING CHILDREN?

For me personally to discipline children is very important, how not in this era there are many cases that happen to children at a young age, I want to give some examples of children who are affected by drugs, drunkenness, gambling to fights with teenagers who are peacocks in my area, it is only for me to avoid all of that, of course parents are very obliged to give directions to their children so that they do not fall into it, If there are indeed some children who fall into this category, for me their parents take the wrong way of disciplining children, sometimes the disposition of small children is different, there are things that need to be advised in a hard way and there are also some children who must be taught in a gentle way, so that the direction from their parents enters their brains.

Currently I already have a son who is still four years old, seeing the character of my child who has a harsh disposition, of course the steps I take to discipline my child must use a gentle and not abusive way, indeed raising a child with a character like my child is very difficult, sometimes I am also annoyed by the behaviors taken by my child, But I try hard not to violate the norms that already exist in my area, I think by harshing the child is something that does not need to be done, that's why the emergence of the child's right to sue his parents, we as parents must be able to withstand excessive emotions in disciplining children so that what we suggest so that they understand even though it takes time.
I once read a news story where a child sued his parents in the local court, in the case of the division of heirs' rights, where this grandmother according to the prosecution was unfair in distributing their rights, it means that we as parents should not distinguish between one child and another, it is natural for this child to demand justice, She does not receive the right that is proper compared to other siblings, if a case like this is already on the legal table, of course this grandmother must undergo punishment from the court and I think it is natural for this grandmother to receive punishment from her child, because she has not succeeded in disciplining her children, not only that in other cases for now has begun to circulate skewed news about educating children, Parents are now no longer allowed to hit their children, just yelling is not allowed, if done this child will sue his parents, and will deal with the police.

CONCLUSION
There are various reasons or ways for his children to demand their parents, but it does not apply to me, in fact, the strict upbringing taught by my parents makes me always obey all the ways that have been given to me in their upbringing, obey your parents and obey them. a child to me personally cannot sue his parents anywhere. be grateful for what your parents have taught you, and learn to let it all go.

Thank you very much to all of you who have taken a little time to read this post of mine, hopefully it can be useful for all of us. That's enough for now, until we meet again next time.

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