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A new week is here again and thank God for another privilege to bring forth my participation in this beautiful and wonderful community. It's been an amazing time always to be here.
This topic really gladdens my heart and I am very happy to bring in my own perspective of the entire theme and I hope it would add a quantum push to someone here. Special gratitude to the team of management and every other author participating.

The ability to sustain a relationship with someone whether it's toxic or not depended on certain factors which I would like to highlight later however the summary of it all is that it's the individual that determines such. In life we have different ways of seeing and interpreting things. What might be good to me might be sour to someone and our tolerance level differs from each other. There are certain questions one need to ask in a relationship even though it depends what kind of relationship are you doing?

A relationship where one of the partner is just like a pest that doesn't contribute a dime for the advancement of such relationship then is what I termed a parasitic relationship which you need to run away because such person can ruin you completely even though you make attempt to transform the person he may eventually transform you instead. Any relationship that there's no iota of responsibility at least to a level no matter the challenges I personally dislike it.
This kind of parasitic relationship can be traceable also to the family settlement which one brother might not like the progress of the other person. It's bad. Staying with such person against all odds depends on the capacity of ones heart.

Some of the factors that one need to consider whether to stay in a toxic relationship or not include the following though not restricted to them but it's my personal opinion

• What's the level of your trust? What's the level of tolerance? What's your level of love? When you ponder on some of these questions, it would grant you right circumference to define your kind of relationship and determine whether you can stay or just run away. If you don't such capacity to withstand such kind of pressure please I advise kind call it quit and if it's a family relationship just pray and fast very well.
• I think another factor I would like to share is the level of One walk with God as a Christian or any religion you found yourself.

Let me share a true life story of someone I knew. She couldn't continue with her relationship with her guy due to the kind of attitude she noticed about him. I was thinking she would make such conventional decision of managing the guy but after a while she realized that the guy was completely a fake if what she thought was a genuine husband. It were some other ladies I know they would have said let me manage him and be hopeful he would change in the future. Is better you have a broken relationship than a broken marriage even some other parts of the world accepts divorce but it's not good to keep yourself but with bad reports it would escalate the I depression and finally death.

Conclusively, our uniqueness and individual differences made us to have choice of what we want and what we can manage. Don't ever pretend over what you can not stay with be so ended and broken. personally I have learned and grown my tolerance level the ab extend where I can easily adopt you people's changes especially in terms of character and other developments. Don't die in silence. Whatever you can't accommodate express yourself that's my little counsel on the secret of longevity.