I go through Emotional pressure everyday.

Peer group pressure is one among many that is responsible for most of the things that happens to us in this age and generation. But that is not the case with me.

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Just like it was rightly pointed out, every generation has its own pressure that the society heaps on them.
During our days in the 90s. The pressure was much from the parents. If you check backward you will notice that those days parents force to do things their own way. Children are compelled to read what they don't want by their parents, children are forced into marriages that They don't know anything about. Then a lady's picture will just be sent to a man that don't know anything about the lady and before you know the parents arrange for the marriage and it will happen that way without much objections from the children. I remember my late elder sister got married at the age of 13. She was just told that this man and his parents are coming to marry you so so date and she didn't not object. She just went with them, because the parents says it is good for her and that settles it. Then the words of the parents sounds as the words of the gods and it is followed with all obedience.

But this particular age, no more pressure from parents rather it is from peer group. The pressure that comes from peer group has done much harm in the society that we live in today.

But for me in particular, most of the pressure that I receive today is emotional pressure. Most times I go through lots of emotional pressure. As a woman that have a family, also have a business to take care of and my studies too. Most times I just wished that I went to school when I was much younger because I am not finding it funny to be Frank. I think alot to make things work out the way it should be. More so because I am somehow proactive, so I don't like things moving slowly around me. I will want to make sure that I do everything The way it should be done.

What steps do I take to break away from it?
Hahaha 😄. This question is somehow funny. Do I really want to break away from it? Yes I do. But how can I break away from it when I am the very person that got myself involved in all of these in the first place. I believe that I can break away from it when I am through with my studies and gets a more stable job that will help me settle things financially and have more time to relax. The major reason why this pressure is hitting me too bad is because I have to get myself engaged with so many things that will help me raise money to settle bills on daily basis. So, for now I am not seeing it coming to an end unless I become a little bit Financially stable. That is when I will have some rest. Stop thinking much and do less job, the make more money. Hahaha 😄, some one will say it this possible? Of course I believe that it is possible.

Well for me this is the type of pressure that I go through and by God's grace I will soon overcome it.

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This post is made in response to the hive learners contest for week 48 edition 3. 👇
"Pressure"