Hello friends. Happy end of the month and moving to the new month from tomorrow I pray for great open doors for us.
Considering the topic for week 233 episode 1. Which says Having it figured out.
HAVING IT FIGURED OUT:
For many, we're expected to have our lives figured out at a very young age.
Hmmm! That was the issue with me and some who passed through parents like mine. This is actually where I geto say that the children we have today are very lucky. Why? Right from the home they are told about what to become in the future. Discussions about it comes often to make sure that the child understands the concept coming to school again they have what i called The career day which helps the children by the guide od the teachers to begin yo pursue one particular dreams. This continues until when the child grows and bring that dream to pass. I believe that it is in the place of the parents, guidan and even teachers to put the child through from what they have discovered in that child.
many of us have no idea what we're actually doing.
This is just the pure truth.why are they all called children? Is because they still need the help of an adult to be able to make the right choice in life. if they are left alone,then we will have so many troubles caused by them because they are naive. So many parents don't know this and that is why you see a child making the wrong choice in life because they are supposed to be guided, but no one did that for Them.
Do we really have the time, considering how quickly time flies?
The truth remains that there is no time to check time. Let me use myself for example. When I was small I never knew about ay future that I need to plan for. I was just there as a kid thinking only of what to eat and when to go and play. But time was going and I never knew. When I got yo a certain a I was sent to live with my aunand she was even worse because she can't even help me in any way about what I want to be in the future. All she knows is for me to grow up and get married. She don't care if I have anything that will sustain me and the family in the future. This is how I continued until I dropped out of school and get married without anything to help me. I was never guided. No one told me about making choices that will help me in the future. So with my naive mind I went into the future I never planned for and met a lot of responsibilities that I didn't know how to handle. Marriage became a burden to me and almost broke me down if not for God's mercy that kept me up till today.
When you are not informed, you will definitely be deformed. This is a lesson for others to learn from my past.
I'm so sorry that no one was there to guide you and your marriage feel like a burden. But sister you're doing well with full of your power
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Actually, I don't really know why most parents/guardians sees a girl child as someone that don't have any future but to get married, produce children without them thinking about if it's want the child wants or not.
Similar thing almost happen to one of my friend, she's 18 years old she graduated from secondary school this year and all her aunt wants it for her to get married without thinking of her learning a skill at least so she won't be dependent.
You see, one thing I know and believe is that we all have the power to say no to some certain things, it might not be easy, it may feel as though it was a wrong choice but at some time, you realize that it's a good and better choice..
Am sorry that you had to pass throw something like this.