No one is special in this world
Although humans are social animals, in real life we often encounter many experiences that prove how true the saying is - no one is special in this world. Since childhood, we get trust and love from family, friends, relatives or neighbors. But with time, we start to understand that these relationships are not always the same.
People are selfish. Although this is a very difficult statement, many times reality says this. As long as you are useful to someone, everyone gives you importance. But when you are in trouble and need help, many familiar faces around you become strangers. No one answers the phone, some turn away. Then it seems that the people you thought were yours until now were never yours.
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Let's take the case of friends. Those friends with whom you spent time every day in your student life, shared joys, often become busy in their own lives. Relationships soften due to time and distance. Again, many times friendships break up due to interests. Some cheat and go, while others wish to take advantage.
Relationships at work or in the workplace are more self-serving. Here, there is rivalry rather than camaraderie. Your success cannot be tolerated by anyone. Once more, they stab you in the back while grinning while standing in front of you when needed. One by one, everyone leaves when you are in danger. Then, it truly seems as though nobody is anyone's property.
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Self-interest frequently creeps in, even inside the family. Every family is made up of parents, siblings, spouses, and spouses.
But due to greed for money, property problems or emotional conflicts, those close ones eventually become distant people. No one wants to think about them. They spend their days in loneliness, and say to themselves No one in the world belongs to anyone.
However, this does not mean that love, trust or sincerity do not exist at all. Some people truly love selflessly. The love of parents, the company of a true friend, or the loyalty of a life partner – these are still there in the world. But they are very rare. And they are difficult to find. Most of the time, people enter into relationships based on their own interests, benefits and needs.
So real life teaches us – you have to love yourself, stand on your own feet. You should not blindly trust anyone. Only your own morale can sustain you in danger. You have to love, have relationships – but do it consciously. So that it does not suddenly break.
Finally, even if no one in the world is someone’s, still as human beings we should try to be at least someone’s. Because, only humanity and compassion can make the world habitable.