Is Dating Poor/Middle Class Men Better?
This is quite an important question that the post I made just the other day inevitably led to. The post was about how futile it is to try to get strict relationship commitment from a rich man. The reason I gave was that rich men have too many options that it becomes even more difficult to stick to one woman. And I mainly found the post worth making because it seems this is something women don't fully realize as they keep expecting commitment from rich dudes.
After a post like that the next question worth exploring has got to be whether dating poorer men is better, so let's get into that with this post.
Getting In
I started the other post by explaining how much freedoms and push the society gives men to pursue their sexual desires and how women do not have the same freedoms as society mostly shames them for their exploration (although this is changing by the day in this modern era). Then I talked about the biological reasons too.
I should further state that the percentage of men who can be loyal to one woman are at most 10%. The other 90% are for the streets, bro 😂. For the streets in varying degrees. So if a man is already this set up by biology and social conditioning to pursue promiscuity, How much difference can his economic status make?
I guess that is already clear. A poor/middle class man USUALLY cannot get multiple women as much as they want/as much as a rich man. The emphasis is on the word "usually". So a poor/middle class man can be more faithful than a rich man, or cheat less at least. If a rich man would cheat with 100 women a year, a poor one would be way less.
But you don't want a man to be faithful simply because he does not have the means to cheat. That's just sad. So that is a thought you'll always have being in a relationship with poorer men. Is the reason why I'm not finding them cheating because they are loyal lovers or is it because they do not have the means to cheat?
Some of the men themselves might not even realize how much of a cheat they are until they make some money. This type of men would probably promise you the world and all their loyalty and keep to it diligently for years. But you can not really be sure until they make some money.
One hopeful thing is that most people would die poor/middle class, though. It is only a small percentage of people that would make it. So it is very likely your poor dude would stay poor and not get the ability to cheat on you like he wants to 😂.
But then again, poor people usually get small breaks over the years. For example they could have some weeks or months in the year where for some reasons they're with more money than they usually have. During times like that they might strike.
So since you don't want a man to be faithful because he doesn't have the means to cheat but because he's committed to the relationship. Watching him closely when he gets those small can be a way to find out where he really stands. It's not a 100% sure way, but that's all you have.
Conclusion
In conclusion, a man is what a man is. You can try to find that 10% that would never cheat, but your chances are very slim and you never know until after a very long time, probably.
Women would say it is better to be with a rich man and get cheated on because there is compensation in all the great provision. That's a good point. If the chances are really high you'll get cheated on whether you're with a rich man or a poorer man, a rich one has got to be better because of the compensation.
But goodluck finding a rich man, as rich men are in short supply, and the one that would be interested in you are even in shorter supply 😂😂.
The End
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