
It is a very interesting situation what we have on our hands, really, I don't know how many of us have really thought about, but if you think about it...
So, what we have is that women want the rich men, and I have no issues with that, it is perfectly understandable, so don't expect any judgement from me. But women do not really understand what a rich man is and this is something that really has to be explained to women.
First of all, a man is a person who was brought up by the world to see sex as sport. For a man sex is hardly a big deal, it is just a fun activity, and usually the more sex he can have, and the more partners he can have it with, the better.
Because that is how activities done majorly for the fun goes. More is usually better and more fun, and monotony usually ruins it.
When a man is born, at no point in his life does he see the idea of getting many women and much sex as something the society frowns upon. Instead a man sees that a lot of respect comes with that. Chastity is not demanded of him like a woman and his worth is not considered to go down with the more women he has been with.
There is also a biological reason why men are more promiscuous and open to variety than women, and it is that men are the main procreators. The chosen gender by nature to do more of the procreation. How? One woman can only get pregnant once or twice a year, but one man can impregnate hundreds of women a year.
Mind blowing if you're thinking about it for the first time, isn't it?
So, there you have it, man is backed by this strong biological push for variety, coupled with the freedom and encouragement/respect society gives him to get many women. Now add being rich to the equation.
With money, getting multiple women becomes too easy. Too easy they're throwing themselves at you sometimes. I know it depends on the society one lives in, but it is pretty much the same everywhere.
If a poor man approaches 100 women, he might get around 10, but if a rich man approaches 100 woman, he'll get 120. Because out of the 100 he might get 80, and those 80 have friends, sisters, and other female relatives that would get into the picture somehow along the line, increasing the 80 to 120 🤣🤣🤣.
I kid, but you get the idea.
If a rich man drives a woman in his super car to dinner in a 5 star restaurant, it hits differently from a poorer man going to a mediocre restaurant in an Uber.
Not every woman is materialistic but a great majority are, and materialistic women are easy to get when you have materials.
So, back to the main discussion. You can't expect a man who is pushed by biological and societal permission who has the means to get multiple women easily to have just one woman. That's supposed to be a rarity.
Even poorer men still pull it off, how much more rich men who have it easier?
This, however, is not to say that every rich man is this way. Some are still hopelessly bad at getting women even though they have the tools. Some of them have good family values and want to settle down with one woman, but that's also a rarity. Most of them who look like they're not getting a lot of women are just putting up a front.
So this is what a rich man is. Women chasing them should know what they're most likely to get. Because too often women are expecting him to stick to one woman even though his biology and ease of multiple is right there.
The End
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