Learning to Dress for Myself, Not Fashion Trends

I've always been far from being a fashion enthusiast, I just wear what feels comfortable most of the time. On the days I have to buy a wear, I find myself going for mostly comfy gowns and my favourite colours, not minding if they are what people would like or if they wear them a lot.

That was until recently, when I started taking how I appear with intentionality as I've come to understand that people treat me by the way I dress even before they know me closely. Our wears go a long well in painting a picture of who we are even before we say a word or introduce.

Its why I don't think someone who wants to be addressed properly or seen as they want to be seen, can not just follow trends. Trends in fashion is one unending journey and it gets crazier as it goes that anyone trying to look and feel good in wears can not follow and meet up.

So personally, I don't follow trends but through trends, I've learned about my body shape and what looks and feel good for me when I wear them. I'm even planning to create my own wears with the help of a good stylist because I now understand what it means to wear what I want.

And this is far from following trends and I can't say I'm a fashion enthusiast yet but I do know my appearance matters for me not to be enthusiastic about what will bring the appearance that I want to show. I am always for clothes that I love to wear and for the comfort they bring, not trends.

But I don't hold anything against people who do, I love to see people being very enthusiastic about their fashion look especially when it suits their body so well. Fashion is a cool world when done properly with understanding of what appearance should feel like. Love it for whoever gets it.