Much Kisses 😘 But From A Distance Now, My Friendship Edition.

You know this feeling where you have something that makes you feel you are the one doing too much in a friendship, like you are always the one putting much efforts for that ship to sail, like you are the one trying to keep this bond that once looked inseparable, like having a bestie that also has another bestie, like I would always be the one reminding you about important dates of events we said we would do together, ooh yes you don't only find this kind of situations in a romantic relationship but also with your friends and I would like to share little about this kind of situation-ship I have found myself plus the possible solutions I have applied that have given me peace of minds, so Ladies just sit and scroll with me.

I am a type of person that loves commitment, I am a type of person that wants the attention just as I also give you same attention, but so luckily for me 😁, I am the one that always keep asking "how are you doing"? "How's business today"? "Gist me about your day"? "What have you eaten"? "What's bothering you today, coz you are not yourself"? And I barely get someone to intimately ask me those questions too like they care, so through my evaluation I always have people that come into my life and I tend to overly care for them, always been there when they need me and always supporting but then they don't meet me halfway, funny enough one day I just said this out loud that "me I am not a robot ooh, I also have feelings".

So I started this analysis lately that made me realize, just maybe I need to reduce the excess loving, just maybe I need to focus some of that energy to myself, or just maybe my expectations were high as to wanting sane love and care from them, so I resolved to going back to my shelf, giving just the same energy I get from you so as to reduce any expectations, if you call me I call you, if you check up on me I check up on you, if you text me I text you, because life no suppose hard.

So girl to girl, don't care too much and forget your own self in the process because it's from this kind of things that people enter seeking validation or to be wanted from others, is okay to want to be loved or cared for but don't make a fool out of yourself where you are forcing others to do such for you, peace of mind shouldn't be underated oooh, well I rest my case because a word is enough for the wise and in much sense I have spoken more than a word. Much kisses 😘 from this side.

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