The Unseen Scars: Unpacking my schoolmate and TV and radio star Nicky Campbell's Untold Story

This is the male half of MMO @tengolotodo writing today, yes the old git.

I am Scottish and grew up in Edinburgh where I attended the Edinburgh Academy as a schoolboy. Someone else who went to my school was Nicky Campbell who at one point was all over British TV and radio.

Interestingly enough being at an all boys school, if you showed any sort of emotion or weakness you were given merciless beatings by your fellow pupils.

If you don't show emotions you are deemed cynical, so perhaps that is where I developed my cynical tendencies as the other half of MMO @deraaa told me I am.

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I do remember there were a couple of boys who were adopted in my year. Nobody really talked about it much just to say they were lucky to be in a good school with a roof over your head. Why would you go looking for your birth parents? Remember Edinburgh at one point was the drugs capital of Europe. Those parents could be junkies or even dead! Wouldn't that be the shitter if you traced your birth parents only to find out they died from a drugs overdose?

One boy at my school that I don't really remember was Nicky Campbell.

He became a big media broadcaster on both television and radio and he's known for his forthright style and his ability to tackle sensitive subjects.

I can see this from our days at school. Stiff upper lip and all that sort of stuff!

The bottom line is that the public perception of him was as a strong, resilient figure...

But inside that was not the fluffing case!

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Campbell was adopted as a baby in Edinburgh by Frank and Sheila Campbell. His adoptive parents provided a loving and supportive environment, and he speaks warmly of his upbringing.

But, here comes the but, the questions surrounding his origins remained. This sense of a missing piece of his identity drove him to seek his birth parents. It drove him on a search.

Luckily he was a broadcaster for the BBC and that search that was documented in the BBC programme "Long Lost Family."

Although he was a popular face on British television and radio, his life experiences and in particular his adoption and subsequent search for his birth parents led to misunderstandings and assumptions about his character.

The difference between his Public Persona and his private life was fluffing huge.

On the outside his robust persona in his career was a polar opposite to the deep internal emotional challenges that were eating him up.

You should never judge a book by its cover.

The notion that adopted people should only feel thankful and suppress any curiosity of their biological past is just complete utter pish.

While gratitude is always present, there is an innate human desire to know your roots. He was no different and his search wasn't a rejection of his adoptive family but rather a pursuit of wholeness.

Campbell shared his story and that has not only helped others who have experienced similar journeys, but he has also shown that even public figures have complex internal lives.

Not only did he open up about his journey, he also mentioned his mental health struggles and his experiences with bipolar disorder.

He has helped many people with his public journey and I hope it has helped to shed light on the challenges of living with a mental health condition.

His honesty has helped to break down stigmas, but it also meant that people formed assumptions about his capabilities or emotional stability.

Like I say we shouldn't judge a book by its cover, as it just ends up in misunderstandings or worse.

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Note this is an entry for Day 18 of #marchinleo with the prompt from Hive Naija "Tell us about a person in your life or maybe influential that you think is heavily misunderstood"

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