When Suppressed Anger Finds it Voice

Anger has to do with the emotions of human beings and how they react when angry cause it part of what makes us human being i don't think there is a human being who doesn't get angry but the question to #inleo prompt Day 11 Prompt on cross-post Hive Naija community.

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My respond with it varies on what you are angry at in the first place or how long can you hold your anger down and not expressed it out sometimes we tend to keep our emotion and try as hard a possible to suppress our anger and at the same time we can't suppress it anymore and loose it all out simply because we have been having patience enough to suppress the anger.

I don't think anger can be silent and also not expressed I will be giving a typical example of both how it varies inside human being.
It based on a real life event that happened in our neighborhood we never knew this person in particular could get angry at all not until you see the angry side of him.

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I know of a man who got married in our neighborhood the wife usually complain he has not seen his husband get angry before and whenever she does this and that the husband doesn't talk back and sometimes she insult the man he doesn't talk back she was now like wanting to do things to get the man even angry she wasn't contended how the man is just silent with whatever thing she does gist with gave a terrible suggestion this particular day, the suggestion been given to her was to cheat on her man not really cheat was to play prank and see hus reaction and her idiot self also tried it out she bought a man into her matrimonial home that day and she knew the exact time her husband would come back home to cut the long story short she wanted to play a prank on her husband to see what type of man he is so she brought a man to her matrimonial home all in the name of provoking him so that particular day the husband came home from work that day and was like meant his wife with a man holding each other tight on their bed not even in the living room what is all this nonsense all about asked the husband, the wife replied and said “it is what is it” just as you have witnessed it the young man in question ran away the husband just left angrily and went to the parlour instead of the wife to beg her husband she didn't instead she kept pushing the button to get him to get angry God finally answered her prayer she uttered a word which was the end of her marriage she insulted the husband mother saying you are just useless as your mother this word tinger the anger feeling in the man mind he was really angry he wanted to give her a dirty slap for that statement and he just couldn't but the wife kept insulting and talking about his mother he just chased her out of the house it was not a small isse that day everybody in the neighborhood was shocked and said isn't that the man who doesn't get angry that's how she lost her marriage finally she got what she deserve.

In conclusion to this little story I shared all am saying in essence it sometimes anger can be silent and it can be express at the same time depending on the emotions been triggered if you look the case of Tunde he is a gentleman who doesn't get angrily easily but something triggered the anger to be expressed which is insulting his family and most especially his mother so you can say his anger was silent for a long time is not that he doesn't know how to expressed his anger he just doesn't want to show the other side of him when been angry rather he just let things go smoothly and as you can see there is a limit where his anger was been silent enough and later voice out and he couldn't take it back in I hope am able to convince you that anger can be silent and also expressed the two varies simultaneously.

Here is my respond to #inleo prompt Day 11 cross post to Hive Naija Community

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