RE: Sam’s Hangout #91 - “DOING DIFFERENT”

If there's something i could have done differently but choose not to,
That will be marrying early. My friends and family used to be in surprise that I'm still with my sis all this years,they said they would have gotten married and her body go come down if they are in my shoe,my sister is very strict and over protective someone that all my other siblings fear to live with her coupled with the fact that she is nursing a sickness,if you've lived to take care of a suck person,you will understand that situation I'm in. Cos, sometimes she behaved to people out of the pains she is going through,you must not say no to anything she says,she will feel ,it's bcos she is sick and you are the one taking care of her,that why you are behaving rude, she sometimes will get angry that she would have fo e it perfectly thank you did it if not if her condition,you know those words,she will con still add crying, if you don experience this situation you will understand me, sometimes I will want to go crazy,you know,you believe you are doing even more than your energy but someone you doing it for said,you didn't do anything. Still happened last month, that her husband was forced to tell me to go bring my boyfriend,that he will do weeding for us, that he doesn't like how I'm being treated, I just laughed that he shouldn't worry. Many choose marriage as a escape route in that situation,many do so. I wanted to fall victim at a time the depression was high but I'm glad I'm someone that doesn't rush decisions . I think about it and I realized I will be doing more harm to myself, marriage is a lifetime thing, I wouldn't want my situation taking me where I won't like. I will never use marriage as a escape route like many girls out there does.

@afrikens @van.illa @goldenproject
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