Fear, Prison or Opportunity?

I want to share some thoughts about fear—a feeling we’ve all experienced. I used to think of fear as something that limits us, blocks our dreams, and stops us from moving forward. I felt that fear was just a barrier, something to be avoided.

Fear is a very human feeling and is often seen as an obstacle. It can limit our thinking, make us lose our courage, and even stop us in our tracks. I felt this way when I had to make a big decision, like speaking in front of a crowd or starting something completely new. The fear felt so big, like a wall blocking me.

But over time, I began to think that maybe fear isn’t all bad. It turns out that fear can also teach us something valuable. If we can accept and deal with it wisely, fear can open the way to courage, give us the opportunity to learn more about ourselves, and even help us grow.

I still remember the first time I ran for public office. My fear of saying the wrong thing or looking incompetent almost made me back down. But even though my body and voice were shaking, I kept going. It turned out that my fear was much bigger in my mind than in reality. After that, I felt proud because I had succeeded in overcoming my fear.

Now, I realize that even though the fear is still there, it no longer hinders me. When I try something new and seems impossible, the fear comes back. There is doubt whether I can do it. Although in the end I have not been able to achieve it, but the experience has led me to a better opportunity in the future. At least, we have learned to face fear with a calm mind and open the door to a better understanding of course.

Fear also arises when we face loss. When I had to part with someone I loved, the fear of loss made me want to hold on to everything tightly. However, life taught me that loss is part of the journey. From there, I learned to appreciate the moments with the people I love more.

Finally, I realized that overcoming fear does not mean eliminating it. However, now, I choose to accept it rather than fight it. Fear is not the end of everything, but the beginning of true courage. I have learned that by stopping trying to avoid fear and starting to embrace it, I actually feel freer. I finally gained the courage to start a relationship that I had been avoiding due to past trauma, I found happiness that I never expected. After all, fear is an integral part of our life journey. It gives us the opportunity to look at ourselves more honestly and discover strengths that have been hidden.

Now, I no longer see fear as a prison. I see it as a gateway to freedom. When that door opens, a world of new possibilities awaits.

_{Roar ~ Katy Perry (Youtube)}

Thank you for taking the time to read it, I hope it enlightens you and allows you to navigate your life journey with better understanding and of course greater courage.

💖 Seha76